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Question Posted Friday March 11 2005, 8:53 pm

My friend is thinking of committing suicide what should I do?

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Farmer answered Tuesday September 27 2005, 1:59 pm:
Look don't tell people just sit down with your friend and talk to them. Tell a grown-up not other people because I was having your friends problem too and just don't tell every one you see. Talk to your friend a lot and hang with them a lot. That always works!!!

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ashleyluvsya010 answered Saturday March 19 2005, 5:07 pm:
WHOA! thats pretty BAD! gosh i would totally tell like as many ppl. as posible and get them some help....god i would hate it if my friend wanted to do that but i sure as hell wouldn`t let it happen! if you really love (as a friend) your friend then you will stop him/her!

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Anubis50 answered Sunday March 13 2005, 1:23 pm:
OMG!!! Tell them that u love them and that u don't want them to die!! OOOOHHH!! Pleezz stop them before it gets too late!!!

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YouCanSleepWhileIDream answered Saturday March 12 2005, 11:53 pm:
Talk to your friend, make sure (s)he knows you're there for them. If your friend still seems like (s)he'll go through with it be sure to tell somebody (parent, counciler). You're friend might need a little more help than just what one person can provide.
~Amb~

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lilrocksta13 answered Saturday March 12 2005, 6:53 pm:
Get help and tell them whats going on. Talk to your friend and tell her that her life is worth living.

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i3ARBIExLOVE answered Saturday March 12 2005, 12:54 pm:
Oh my gosh!! You have to talk to her about it tell her it isnt worth it. She has a whole life ahead of her. What is causing her to commite suicide? If its a boy oh gosh who cares? the boy will go to hell. If its family, then you have to tell her, her parents love her but are going through a hard time keeping up. You have to get a parent or teacher involved tell someone. She needs help!!
Always there..
Donna

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mrs_radcliffe answered Saturday March 12 2005, 7:15 am:
Talk to her tell her that if she does shes leaving all the good things in her life like you her family
just perswade her to not do it tell her that shes is the best and that you will help her through what ever shes going through

luv roxie

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mizzthang91 answered Saturday March 12 2005, 2:00 am:
Tell her Mom.

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xOxPlAyGuRlxOx answered Saturday March 12 2005, 1:21 am:
Talk to your friend. Let them know how much they mean to you, and how many people love them and care about them. Tell them that suicide will not solve anything, it will only make things worse for everyone. If things get really serious tell someone right away. Make sure it doesnt get out of hand. Goodluck hun. xOx

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FlaWlessMonoLith answered Saturday March 12 2005, 12:10 am:
join her

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KelseyHasTheAnswers answered Friday March 11 2005, 11:42 pm:
make a list of all the things you love about your friend and all the things that make you happy and give it to her

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babygrl101 answered Friday March 11 2005, 10:48 pm:
ooh, really talk to her. she can't do that. whatever the problem is it's not too late to fix it.

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softballchick92 answered Friday March 11 2005, 10:45 pm:
Tell her that you shouldn't do it and tell her there's no reason the person should do that. Tell her that no one deserves to die and that you would never forgive her if she did that. Say that it's totally up to you but you should really consider counselling before you make your descision. You should also tell her parents about it.

Hope I helped
Softballchick92

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mgh12 answered Friday March 11 2005, 10:18 pm:
Talk to her Dumbass!!! Or buy something she can kill herself with.. and sit back and watch the show!!! :)

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baybexmau831 answered Friday March 11 2005, 10:16 pm:
well first you should try and talk to her .. let her get the feelings out and help her through it .. tell her how much people care for her and love her .. second ( if the first one doesnt work ) then you need to tell someone .. dont listen to ignorent people saying to buy a knife because this honestly is serious ..and thats uncalled for and rude .. some people should be banned for that .. hope i helped .. Love MauramOo

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sk8erdude answered Friday March 11 2005, 9:48 pm:
tell her she is worth everything to you and that doing that would make you miserable she probably doesnt want you to be miserable.........

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xoih3artyouxo answered Friday March 11 2005, 9:18 pm:
Tell someone! a teacher of a parent anyone!
xox morgan

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Little_Miss_Cant_Be_Wrong answered Friday March 11 2005, 9:15 pm:
Tell someone! Even if it makes your friend mad at you... you would rather have your friend mad at you than dead, right? This is extremely serious and you shouldn't wait to tell someone, I would suggest your friend's parents, or a guidance counselor, or teacher. Despite how much you talk to them, you are going to need help from others. Try to talk your friend out of it too, though. Tell them how much you love them, and reassure them that their life is valuable and has meaning. Tell them whatever problems they are having that are making them think about suicide can be fixed. Suicide is not an answer to problems. Tell your friend over and over again how much they mean to you, how much you need them to be here, on the earth, ALIVE, and most of all that you and others love them very much. Talk to someone right away, and you could even call a suicide hotline to get more help and information for your friend. Good luck, and please please please don't hesitate to ask me if you need anything else.

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Greenday56889 answered Friday March 11 2005, 9:08 pm:
YOU REALLY NEED TO GET THEM HELP.. Tell a trusted parent , Consuler, Teacher.. Someone to help this person .. This isnt good.. You need to help them ..!!

Hope everything works out.

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grape answered Friday March 11 2005, 9:08 pm:
ok uyou really should talk to a councelor about it or wat ever your friend is deciding to do tell her dont do it because she will be in world crisis and will regret it later.:hope i helped:please rate me please please please:please write me another question please:GRAPE:

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morvarid answered Friday March 11 2005, 9:08 pm:
first of all talk to her about it and ask her/him why. if your friend is bluffing and dosnt have a good reason she/he probebly wont do it(some people just say it to get attention).but you know your friend better so if you think its serious then talk to a counsoler. DO NOT tell your friend's parents!thats for the counsoler to decide when he/she figures out your friend's real problem.just try to keep her/him happy and her/his mind off school and family(they are usually the main reasons for problems in someone's life). be the bestest friend you can be and let her/him know that you are there for her/him no matter what every day.and keep an eye on her/him incase your friend decides to do something stupid.

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Karen answered Friday March 11 2005, 9:07 pm:
You definitely need to tell someone immediately, whether they are your parents or a teacher. Your friend will probably get mad at you for telling someone but it's better than having them kill themself. You should try talking to your friend and ask them why they want to kill themselves. Maybe you could help them with this problem that's making them think that they want to kill themself. Don't let them do this and you need to talk to someone.
-Karen

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Nokomis answered Friday March 11 2005, 9:03 pm:
You must tell someone. Tell a parent, a teacher, a priest. Anyone who will listen. Your friend is depending on you. She/ He may be mad at you at first but you will have saved a life! Call a Suicide Hotline!

~Nokomis~

P.S. Please help your friend soon. Don't wait to see if they will act.

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StlzBootyliciousBabe answered Friday March 11 2005, 9:00 pm:
I have a friends whos been trying to committ suicide since she was 12 and now she is 14 me and this other friends of ours would always call her after school and talk to her until it was time for her to go to sleep
and then in the morning we would call her just to make sure shes ok when she comes to school we make her laugh and make her feel loved and then its da same routine over and over again well one day she was talking about doing it and i told the concelour and she was pissed at me but not she is fine and alive and not mad at me she is glad that i did her the favor i hope i helped and maybe you should get her some chicken soup books because they help too make her feel loved!

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SiLenTxfAiRy answered Friday March 11 2005, 8:59 pm:
get her help imeditally! suicide isnt something to play around with. i should know i have tried in the past.. and i have lost someone that did indeed go through with it.
contact her parents asap and tell them whats going on, he/she may hate you but in the end its saving his/her life and a life is so precious and valuable.
if your afraid to call them or contact them yourself tell your parents and ask them to contact his/her parents.

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PeYtOnS_gIrL05 answered Friday March 11 2005, 8:57 pm:
You should most definitly NOT LET HER DO IT!!You should tell an adult immediatly.I really hope she will understand that you really care for her and snaps out of this whole thing.Keep me updated. Ihope she gets help from not only you, but her family!

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russianspy1234 answered Friday March 11 2005, 8:57 pm:
well first things first you need to talk to her and try to make her feel better, failing that try to get her to understand that suicide is a permenant solution to a temporary problem, failing that tell a school councelor or someone like that. she might be mad at you for a while, but at least shell be alive

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Sherry answered Friday March 11 2005, 8:56 pm:
Tell someone! I know she/he might be mad at you for a while because of you telling, but its better than having your friend dead! Tell someone before she/he hurts themselves!

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