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Gender: Female
Location: iran but live in canada
Occupation: dating around
Age: 15
Member Since: March 5, 2005
Answers: 11
Last Update: January 25, 2006
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So I'm a 17 year old female, and I need to give you a little back story so you can better understand this. This past week and a half, this boy and I got close working on the school play together. He was really flirty and I was flirting back. Then on Saturday, I found out he went out with this girl the night before that he's been pining after for a while, and she told him that she likes him back. The flirting kind of ended for a day, and then it started back up a little by Sunday. I know that this is just a weekend, but I fell hard.
My question is, should I tell him that I like him, just to let him know, or should I let it go and let him be happy with this other girl?

your acting like hes in an actual relationship with this girl. he isnt yet. just because she told him she likes him dosnt mean you should give up. tell him and give him a choice but keep in mind you dont want to come on too strog so dont let him know that you know about this other girl.

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im trying to decide im bi or gay. i like this guy ill tell u his name its eddie. but hes not the point iv been second guessin my self iv always thought i was straight then recently guys became attractive n girls stillwere. but in the last couple days i dont think i can realy picture myself with a girl. so i need help on how i should decide if i am bi or gay.

mizike

the reason you keep imaganing yourself with a girl is because you need to experience it. this dosnt neccerily mean you are bi or gay this means you are curious. try being with a girl and see how it goes.

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just to let you guys knwo im not using the real peoples names but still the situation that is going on.

ok at the beginning of the year i was really close with three other girls (Jessica, Lisa, and Natalie) we were all really close and kind of had a little clique thing. we told each other everythin but i was kind of closer to Lisa and Jessica and Natlaie were close together.

as the year went on it kind of split off into me and lisa and jessica and natalie.

we always had stupid fights which ALWAYS ended up being misunderstandings. like me and lisa thought they were ignoring us and they thought we were ignoring them. whatever. so these problems kept on happening

eventually me and lisa jsut sort of gradually stopped talking to Jessica and Natalie.

then the other day natalie let my friend see her phoen and my friend saw a text message that jessica sent to natalie saying "i hate samantha (me) and lindsay" this really through me off guard.

i mean i knew we had some problems but come on hate is a very strong word.

my question is i dont know if i should try to work it out with jessica and natalie i mean we were all really close or should i just stop being friends with them. i really dont know what to do please help!

you should stop caring about these kind of things. if u dont click with some people then you dont. if they backstab u their ganna keep doing it. just get over it so they will get over themselves you will all grow up and forget about eachother.

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okay i have a b/f now well call him "K" okay well we've been goin out for a lil while but i wanna call him but im afraid his mom or something is gonna answer what do i do/?

if he has a cell get his cell #.if not then just ask him wen his mom is at work so u can call then.or if u cant do that either then just call and if a wonam picks up just hang up(press*67 or w/e the number is so other peeps wont see your # on thier caler i.d)hope i helped

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i have this friend and we are really good friends. I am a 15 year old guy and she is a 14 year old girl. She wants me but i feel if we go out and something happens between us that we might not be friends afterwards. I dont want that to happen. How can i tell her this without hurting her feelings?

WOW!your a caring guy..you'r actually concerned about her feelings(sorry its just that ive never met any guy who actally gave a shit)but to answer your question be like:look i care a lot about you but as a friend, i dont want anything to ruin our friendship so i just wanted to tell you im not interested to be anything more because i dont want to lose what we already have.and say it in a nice tone...that will convince her and she wont be hurt(at least i wouldnt).hope i helped

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hey so i had a boyfriend for like almost a year and we never really talked or anything so thats why we never broke up with each other and we were friends before but we haven't talked since this summer. all of my friends that were jealous of us (even though there was nothing to be jealous of) don't like him now but i kind of still want to talk to him. since we haven't talked in so long what would be the best way to approach talking to him without it being wierd?

i had a relationship like that....just go up to him and tell him truthfully how you feel. trust me he will be impressed and will actually listen to you.it wont be wiered just try to talk to him about it like its a normal conversation and dont have a serious tone when you are talkin.

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i'm trying to name my new kitten that i got a few days ago.
She's a simease mix, does anyone have a good name to name her? ( It's a girl! )

pishi...i always wanted to name my kitty that^_^its how you say kitty in my language..

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I have some friends and every time they move out of my class they dont talk to me but when i am in there class im there bff. Why dod they do this?

they are not your bbf.im not saying dont talk to them. i have a lot of in class friends. they are not the people i hang out with at lunch time but we still say hi in the halls and help each other out in class.just pretend you dont care and stick with your real friends. if you think they are using you then try to use them to just to let them know you are not a pushover and that they have to help you out to in order for them to get your help. that should teach them a lesson.

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Is it ok to date a second cousin, through marriage?

i do not know about marrying...but dating is ok. dont worry about it who knows it might not even work out(i wish the best though)dont even think about these things right now or what other people think, the important thing is that you are with someone you truly care about.

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My friend is thinking of committing suicide what should I do?

first of all talk to her about it and ask her/him why. if your friend is bluffing and dosnt have a good reason she/he probebly wont do it(some people just say it to get attention).but you know your friend better so if you think its serious then talk to a counsoler. DO NOT tell your friend's parents!thats for the counsoler to decide when he/she figures out your friend's real problem.just try to keep her/him happy and her/his mind off school and family(they are usually the main reasons for problems in someone's life). be the bestest friend you can be and let her/him know that you are there for her/him no matter what every day.and keep an eye on her/him incase your friend decides to do something stupid.

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May 1st I'm going to have to wear a white dress for this really REALLY important thing of my entire life. I've been eatting like a pig beause... I guess its anxiety. Well I want to loose weight. Also, avoid the things that make me gain weight. I was thinking of diet pills but I hear they are REALY bad for you. Anyway, any tips to loose as many weight as I can in less than 2 months? Im not exactly looking for permenant diet plan just... an emergency one. Maybe if I only ate a certain amount of calories... or didn't eat or drink nothing but water... or... did a certain excersice. I don't know. Please pretty please HELP ME! Thank you sooo muh for your time!

never go on anyone elses diet plan!or those stupid diet pills!only YOU know what amount of food your body is used to...counting calories is usually the best way but for a temporary plan, in a week or so your body will start to get used to the amount you eat, so one day in every week, eat about 250-300 calories more then usual so your body wont get used to it. another good way is to just cut all fast food and junk food off. some people(like me)will immediately lose weight for that and who knows you may grow to hate junk food forever like me^_^

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