im trying to decide im bi or gay. i like this guy ill tell u his name its eddie. but hes not the point iv been second guessin my self iv always thought i was straight then recently guys became attractive n girls stillwere. but in the last couple days i dont think i can realy picture myself with a girl. so i need help on how i should decide if i am bi or gay.
XyouXandXmeX answered Wednesday January 25 2006, 5:07 pm: You can’t really decide whether you are gay or not. You really just have to take the flow of things and see what happens. You will like who you like! Sometimes you’re just more romantically comfortable around some people than you are others. Good luck! [ XyouXandXmeX's advice column | Ask XyouXandXmeX A Question ]
alisonmarie answered Wednesday January 25 2006, 7:48 am: In a biological sense, there's nothing to decide. You will like who you like - whether that means you are bi or gay.
But emotionally it can feel good to feel you've 'found yourself.' This can take a lot of time to happen.
The best way to get to know yourself is to just continue to be honest with yourself about your certainties AND your confusions, and to just follow where your heart leads you.
Eventually you'll find a label you're comfortable with; this might just take some time.
soccerplayer6 answered Tuesday January 24 2006, 11:46 pm: I don't know, I'd say you are more heading towards the gay spectrum...if you are starting to find girls unattractive and don't see yourself with one...then yeah...gay all the way. [ soccerplayer6's advice column | Ask soccerplayer6 A Question ]
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