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Well I am from Illinois and I like to consider myself as an outgoing entergetic person. I love laughing. I like to go to movies and to hang out with my friends. I am a good student and like to go to school ::On occasion:: I like to lend advice to those in need. I don't like the people who think they are funny by telling people crappy information. That isn't very funny. I like to act and sing. I have been in 2 musicals with the school programs and about 7 in local plays. It is fun. Well, if you have any questions I am free to lend a helping hand and give you some advice. Later Dayz!

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I have a horrible sleep pattern. It never used to bother me much, but now the realization of how much it can hurt my body has kicked in. I really want to change it, but it's really hard for me.

12:00AM/1:00AM - 5:30 AM
SLEEP

6:25AM - 2:17 PM
SCHOOL

4:00PM - 8:00 PM
SLEEP

Then the whole cycle restarts. I really want to change, but changing a pattern completely out of nowhere is very hard to do. Any advice? I would like to start sleeping around 10:30 or 11:00, but since my body is so used to how I sleep now, those times are too early for me. Plus, I also have a lot of homework and fitness I need to fit in too. Help, please??

When you get home try to keep yourself busy by doing homework, or going our for a jog, and eaa dinner at a certain time like 6. Then watch some TV and go to bed around 10. Then try waking up around 5:30 like you do now and then.

Okay, my boyfriend and I had went to wal-mart recently and he saw his ex girlfriend there. She's 14 and I am 17. My boyfriend is 16 (and they dated for about 9 months and broke up cause she cheated on him twice). Anyhow, he didn't speak to her in the store, he just waved. Now I've been nice to where he can still be friends with her like on the phone, but she took things into her own hands. She called him this morning and told him that she loves him and misses him, and that if we don't work out, that she'll still be there waiting for him....anyhow he says to her, "Do you think I am gonna break-up with for you?" And she got quiet... then she says to him "Well would you go back out with me if that happened?" And he says " I don't know..." ( and as my boyfriend is telling me this I'm thinkin to myself...what do you mean?) So then as we were going to our separate high schools, I gave him a kiss and I told him I loved him... and the he goes "I love Rowbyn (that's the ex's name)" And I knew he was doing that to make me mad... but as I was walking him to his school, I remember him saying "I'm gonna feel funny the rest of the day". So I am wondering if yall think he may leave me for her, or does he still have feelings for her. Any advice I am sure would help! THANKS FOR READING!

She is 14?! She is WAY too young for love. and You are his right now so fight the fight! And he is being stupid for even going back out with the premature whore. :D

im trying to decide im bi or gay. i like this guy ill tell u his name its eddie. but hes not the point iv been second guessin my self iv always thought i was straight then recently guys became attractive n girls stillwere. but in the last couple days i dont think i can realy picture myself with a girl. so i need help on how i should decide if i am bi or gay.

mizike

I don't know, I'd say you are more heading towards the gay spectrum...if you are starting to find girls unattractive and don't see yourself with one...then yeah...gay all the way.

ok i have a drum set but i only have two simbols. Where can i get more and what different types are there? (drummer4life)

Well, you could go and you may be able to find one online (e-bay) or go to a local music shop and look for some too.

Happy Holidays!

Does piercing your belly button hurt?! and on a scale 1 to 10 ..10 being the most painful and 1 being the least please hurry!!!!

Well, my friend had hers done and she said that it hurt for a littlw while. then it wasn't so bad. I'd say about a 5

i am directing a play . i don`t know what one i should do . can anyone think of a googd play

I HAVE ONE, it is a comedy and it was fun. I was in it not to long ago in the local theatre. It is called Bedroom Farce. It if very funny!

I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost a year now and I love his family to death. Since he's away at college they invite me to visit them alot and I stop to see his mom at work whenever I go to the mall. I have a problem, though- I got his Christmas gift and everything, but should I get something for his family? His mom seems like the kind of person that would get something for me, but I would feel really bad if she did and I didn't get them anything, and I bet she would vice versa. He has an older brother, a younger brother, a sister, dog, and mom and dad. They're really nice to me, but I'm lost on the dating/present etiquette here. Should I get them something, and if so, what?

Well, trying not be genaric but you could give the family a card or get his parents a gift certificate for a dinner for two. So they can have a night to themselves. Hope I helped.

What can you do with a 7 yr old boy when your babysitting him? Thanx in advance!

If you are babysitting a 7 year old, there attension span may be short. So try to keep him occupied with games, coloring books, or a movie. Have fun! OR (lol) You can drug him with dymnatap and then u have the night to urself while he is sleeping...take my first suggestion. thought i would add some humour.

well for as long as i can remeber i havent gotten along with my mother... and i know she hates me.... she causes me to cut myself a lot too.. right now i have a a broken knee cap and 2 broken ribs becuase i got beat up by a bunch random people becuase i had to walk home at 1130 at night through the projects cause my mom made me get out of the car... she always told me that her life would have been better if i wasnt born... she left me outside when it was 40 degrees outside and i only had a t shirt and shorts on for 3 hours..... i dont nkow what to do... how can i make things better

Love always
Kryysti

I would try to get ahold of athorities or DCFS or go stay with other relatives. ell them what has been going on and maybe they can help you out a little bit. I hope things get better.
- Devin

im a freshman in highschool and i cant really say that up until now life has been great cause it hasnt... but thats not the problem..the problem is i think im fat.... im 100 pounds and i wanna be 80.... i used to think i was skinny but i dont anymore.... people call me fat at school like there just kidden but theres always truth behind a just kidding.... i tried not eating but i cant do that it just makes me sick and tired.... ive been doing 100 sit ups everynight and its not doing anything... please tell me what i can do... or tell why i feel so ugly :/ thanxx

Well, How old are you and how tall are you. If you are 80 pounds and a freshmen in HS then that is considered underweight. I am slim and I weigh 130 lbs. So don't worry too much about it. If they really start to make you mad. Then they aren't your friends and you should try to hang out with people who aren't so judgemental. I hope that helped.

I can never have a good day at school. I have alot of frieds but being that i have to get up in the morning i get cranky and when i get cranky i am just really quiet.. i know you'll tell me more sleep.. besides that what else could i do? because i sleep from 10:30-7:15

Well, you should try to get some more sleep...But when you wake up in the morning try to eat a good breakfast. That should wake you up a bit. I know this is a crappy answer but that's what I came up with. I hope i helped a little bit.

hey... i'm only 13 but i really want to lose 15 pounds, if i do i won't get sick or anything will i? i don't want to have like health problems for the rest of my life. i'm only about 5'2 and i weigh like 115!! my mom says its from muscle cuse i play soccer like ALOT, but i really don't like the way i look. almost everyone i know is so much frikin skinnier than me. i'm not going to like cut out food compleatly, i just want to lose 15 pounds in like a month or so... is it safe? thanks a bunch!!

You shouldn't worry about what all of the other people look like. They may be skinny, but they also may be the ones with the health problems. I play soccer too, and I have gained weight by the addition of muscle mass. You should just eat healthy, excersize daily and by the time you know it, you will have lost 15 pounds. Hope I helped!

I'm a 24 yr old girl...and I met this great guy at a bar a few weeks ago and since then everytime I'm out, no matter where I am, he seems to be there. (Like it's meant to be?) Well, I went over to his house after leaving the bars twice. The first time we just hung out, we didn't even kiss... and then the second time we went a lot farther then that. I think he's wonderful and I want him to like me for me even though everytime I see him I'm pretty wasted.. I want to keep talking to him and I don't want to ruin things because I feel wierd and don't know how to act because I went too far with someone new.. but I really like him, I think he's so perfect... what should I do?? How should I act???

Well, this may seem a bit of a bland answer, but I was just thinkng that next time you go out with him, go somewhere away from the bar. A nice restraunt or a movie. Then afterwards go back home and call it a night. So, I hope I helped a little. Good luck.

Hey! Ok: so I have hundreds of pictures in my a box in my room. I take a roll at every other week. My question is: How can I display them in my room (without frames) I have some along my mirror. But what is a cool way of hahging them up? Thanks so much!

I have a creative idea, if you are willing to try. You can dedicate one wall of the room your "Picture Wall." Then you can wither use the tacky clay that peels off easily and doesnt rip the back of the pictures and that way you can have a wall full of your cool pictures.

Are there any programs that remove viruses, trojans, and spyware without you having to pay? I'm not talking about just the scan, also the removal.

McAfe Virus Scan works.

alright so im trying to get a flat stomach.. well trying to get some fat off my stomach.. can any one try to give me tips like any exercises that i can do and tell me what to do.. like how much i do, how many each day, and how long it will take to get to a flatter stomach ..im aiming to get a flat stomach in like a couple of weeks, but if it will take longer, thats fine thanks a bunch

My advice would to be doing alot of ab work outs...lol :-D

i have to do this thingy in front of my class.. which is 36 people and i have to memorize it... its a monologue. and im scared. i think imn gunna go out there and like freeze!! what do i do? 13/f

Well, think about it this way. I do think your whole class is going to be doing the monolouge. So everybody is going to be nervous. You won't be the only one. So you really don't have anything to be nervous about.

my arm has been hurting for the past week like by the socket...idk what i should do... it hurts sometimes but not all the time... i told my mom and she wont do anything about it. anyone know what might be the cause?

Try and call up your doctor and ask him what you can do to help it and they will usually try to give some information over the phone. And tell him that your mom doesnt want to do anything about it ect.

Ok, I'm 17 and me and my bf just broke up. Well, i'm not suppose to talk to him ever again and I did. Huge mistake, but now he's saying he will tell my mom we've been talking if I don't see him or do what he wants me to do. What should I do?

Don't let that prick intimidate you. You should tell your mom before he gets a chance. Like someone said about blackmail. If you tell her then it should be okay. Stay strong and dont let him get to you. He isn't worth it. And if it gets too out of hand (abuse ect.) dont be afraid to contact someone like cops or have your parents do something...That was a bit vague, but I hope I helped.

ok exactly 1 year ago from this past saturday was the start to some scary a$$ sh*t..vases flying off walls,rooms being completely rearanged..yes i mean everything moved to a new place,moans & cries coming through the heat vents at night..oh yea scuri..but we got the house blessed and after about a month it stopped..
so we thought..

well like i said exactly 1 yr ago..we're siting in the living room and i hear a scream..i look over n my friend is sitting,pale as a ghost looking up..a shelf that has been on the wall since we moved in is in mid air oh yes i mean FLOATING..was there for about 30 seconds then crashed to the ground..well that night there was banging coming through the vents..then today i came home and my bed is soakin wet ..like not water..but a sticky liquid..enough to fill up half the bathtub..their was literally puddles..and it smelled like death..oh yea and even better my moms room was dry..however u culdnt walk into it and breathe at the same time b/c it smelled so strong like mens cologne

please some1 b serious when you answer this..im so not kidding about one single word i typed..i was just a little freaked out..but now im scared..especially after i saw it floating & the liquid..out nowhere..please any advice or if any1 has a paranormal story to share.. i just need a piece of mind..

I am officially scared now...Well, I haven't had a personal encounter with any ghosts or spirits. But when I was 6 or 7, I was on my old crappy Mac. Apple comp. and I heard a whisper behind me and it said my name very faintly. The hairs on the back of my neck stood stright on end and I froze for a min. Then I truned the computer off and ran downstairs. So, anyway...try a video recorder or sumthing or get a tape recorder and turn those on while you are gone and see if you pick anything up off of them. And do do some research of your home and tell your parent's or something. I think that whole light scaring ghosts is somewhat farfetched. But clean things up and then when you get home don't touch anything and see if something is out of place and do that. Make your bed and make sure there arent any wrinkles or something. And keep your door shut. Ect. Make things stright and make sure to stay strong.

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