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Ok, I'm 17 and me and my bf just broke up. Well, i'm not suppose to talk to him ever again and I did. Huge mistake, but now he's saying he will tell my mom we've been talking if I don't see him or do what he wants me to do. What should I do?
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Don't let that prick intimidate you. You should tell your mom before he gets a chance. Like someone said about blackmail. If you tell her then it should be okay. Stay strong and dont let him get to you. He isn't worth it. And if it gets too out of hand (abuse ect.) dont be afraid to contact someone like cops or have your parents do something...That was a bit vague, but I hope I helped.
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Don't cater to his wishes because of that threat. If you do, the situation will just get so much worse. Tell your mom the truth before he gets the chance to use it as blackmail and just explain to her that you know it was a mistake and that you won't do it again. Don't allow him to blackmail you on something this minor where you can fix it yourself.
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Oh yeah blackmail is so sexy this time of year. Forget him. Tell your mom so that she is hearing it from you. You could say something like, "I talked to X today. I now understand why you don't want me to talk to him. He is so manipulative. I am totally not going to do that again." The power is yours and you NEVER have to do anything that you don't want to because of what someone else is threatening to do.
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tell your mom about what he said and say your sorry and that she was right about not letting you talk to him. then tell all your friends that he has a small dick.
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tell your mom before he does. tell her that you made a mistake that you know not to make anymore, that you're sorry, and that you're willing to accept the consequences of your actions. most parents are lenient after that.
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well if you still like him then still talk to him and if you dont and you are scared not to be with him because of him going to tell your mom you were talking to each other again, then just tell your mom your self and tell her that he wants you to do things that you dont know what they are or even if you want to do them. this is sorta like blackmail. get your self outta this as quickly as you can before someone winds up hurt, especially you.
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tell your mom first! all you did is talk! this guy is a jerk! Chances are your mom will be happy that you didn't do what he wanted you to do!
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Well thats kind of black mail if you dont want to do the stuff he says tell you mom before he does and you probably would like feel better
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