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my mom hates me


Question Posted Thursday December 16 2004, 11:11 am

well for as long as i can remeber i havent gotten along with my mother... and i know she hates me.... she causes me to cut myself a lot too.. right now i have a a broken knee cap and 2 broken ribs becuase i got beat up by a bunch random people becuase i had to walk home at 1130 at night through the projects cause my mom made me get out of the car... she always told me that her life would have been better if i wasnt born... she left me outside when it was 40 degrees outside and i only had a t shirt and shorts on for 3 hours..... i dont nkow what to do... how can i make things better

Love always
Kryysti


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KiSsEs answered Thursday December 16 2004, 12:51 pm:
You don't need to put yourself through all that pain. You should call family if have soome and if not then you need to call CPS! i know it sounds bad but nothing is worse than the torture you are obviously going through! If things start to get worse yo uneed to get your things packed and go stay at a friends house because in my opiion your safer anywhere that your mom can't get you.

*i'll pray fro you*

~*~KiSsEs~*~

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Christine answered Thursday December 16 2004, 11:55 am:
seriously hun you need to call child services. You dont desirve this. And even try talking to her about it. She doesnt need to do that to you. It aint right. But all parents tell their children that life would have been better if we werent born. my mother tells me that all the time. But i just yell at her and tell her to shut up. She starts crying and appologizes. then we dont talk for awhile.

hope i helped..
Christine

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ICE11BLUE answered Thursday December 16 2004, 11:52 am:
Okay, you are a good person who is worthy of a better mother. Your mother is the one that needs the help. I am sorry it's like this for you. If she doesn't even feel a bit of remorse for what has happened there is something really wrong with your mother and maybe you should consider staying with family or friends because life with your mother seems dangerous, when living with your mom should be safe and warm and friendly. Any bad behavior you act upon you can blame on your mother. Although, this doesn't make for a good excuse to go through life like a piece of trash, the easy way out would be the opposite, to do well in school, and create a future for yourself. Prove to your mother that no way do you want to grow up to be like her, that you don't like the person that she is and you are going to better yourself. Take this is a learning experience (I'm sorry it's such a sad one) but you just really need to do well for yourself and try your best not to piss your mom off if you decide to remain residing with her. Stay away from her as best as you can I guess, and try to stay neutral, don't boast or fight with her. If she is being unreasonable, do what you feel is right in the situation. Just treat her like you're barely there...since it's what she wants. She doesn't deserve you, make her see that. I wish you the best :)

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RedNeckShOrTy answered Thursday December 16 2004, 11:40 am:
You need to tell you r mom how she is making you feel. If she doesnt listen or doesnt understand then you might want to talk to either a grandparent or another adult you trust. They might be able to help your mother. She needs to know that your are her daughter and no matter what you will always be there. You need some help, maybe therapy so you can talk to someone (both of you) and not be judged! You need your mom and she needs you and loves you...whether or not she wants to admit to it or not. GOOD LUCK! I hope I helped!


~***HAnnnAH***~

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lxlWantiinY0Oh answered Thursday December 16 2004, 11:32 am:
do you have a dad or other siblings???
if so tell them! or call difius and tell them wuts going on i no you love your mom and all but if shes causing you to hurt then yu gotta do sumthin about it! go stay with your other relatives that would treat yu a lot beter! i hope things workout write to me more and tell me wuts goin on !!

hugz nd kissez

xOx marLo`

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soccerplayer6 answered Thursday December 16 2004, 11:24 am:
I would try to get ahold of athorities or DCFS or go stay with other relatives. ell them what has been going on and maybe they can help you out a little bit. I hope things get better.
- Devin

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