A little bit about me...
*Name Stephanie Njunuri
*Age 17
*Height 5'4
*Hair brownish blonde
*Eyes drk brwn
*Location H-Town
*Stats SINGLE!!! all the way baby!!!!
*SCREEN NAME QtWitABooty00721... if someone is on a different sn other than QtWitABooty00721 pretending to be me... then YOUR NOT TALKING TO STEPHANIE NJUNURI your talking to an IMPOSTER!!
I belive lyf is only wut u MaKe of it, so love lyf cuz it dont last 4 eva
~When U Have A Problem KiSsEs Can Solve Em~
Gender: Female
Location: Houston Tx
Age: 18
AIM: QtWitABooty00721
Member Since: June 24, 2004
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Last Update: December 16, 2004
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hey ive had sex before a long time ago and i got so scared i was pregnant after...but i been with my bf now for 7 months and were ready to have sex...i really want to i just dont wanna get pregnant so my question is..whats the best condom to use?? and how long is it before they usually break? like when should he take it out?? (link)
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Personally i think Trojan is the safest. It wont break as long as he puts it on properly. But if it does break, stop immediately. Get on the pill as backup if you're scared the condom is going to break. If you dont want your parents knowing, schedule an appointment with Planned Parenthood. Everything is confedential and your parents will never know you're on it. just dont get involoved or rush into something neither of you are ready for!
*Make sure he knows what hes doing*
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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Ok, there's this guy at my school (i live in Vermont) who everyone thinks is gay. Even though the rumors are most likely not true, no one wants to be his friend because of rumors, and neither do my friends. I really think it's terrible how people treat him, and I want to be his friend; I don't believe sexual orientation should affect friendship. How should I be his friend without making my friends mad, or making him feel uncomfortable when my friends want to hang out with me? (link)
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Just tell both him and your friends your situation and if their TRUE friends then they'll understand where your coming from! I think it's nce that you look past poeples homosexualities!
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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ok well im in junior high and i hang out with these 3 popular girls...and one of them is calling me ugly and a slut and a bitch and a ass hole and crap like that...i think shes jealous of me but she says shes not!! ive tried to be the lil angel just so i could stay friends with her b\c their like the group i hang out with...and were rele popular...she says i am full of myself and im not!! omg she calls me a slut just b\c ive gone out with alot of guys!? soo what? i mean she says everybody thinks im mean and nobody likes me and crap like that and like everytime she gets mad at me she starts all these rumors about me..ughh i dont know what to do.. i rele need some help i feel like shes gonna get the whole scholl saying something bad about me.. i mean i wanna stay cool but she calls me a slut and tells everybody i get on her sn!! omggg and its all not true but nobody ever beleievs me they beleieve her..ughh im soo depressed.. Everytime she gets mad at me..all my other friends do for some reason? ugh im so hurt and shes constantly saying shit about me!!!! But she calls me a slut and a hoe and says im so full of myself when she juss got done telling me she thinks shes sooo hot and popular..ugh thats sounds like shes a lil full of herself..w\e i just hope everything works out for me and my friends...=( i need alot of help!!! plzz....thanks...*sad ashlee*=( (link)
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This girl isn't REALLY a TRUE friend, if she was then wouldn't treat you like that and put you through sh*t you shouldn't have to go through! I think you should tell her how you feel and if she keeps acting like that then whoop her a$s! Friends are there for each other and obviously shses not a freind. Don't base your friendship on popularity because its not everything. Rumors come and go.....trusst me i KNOW!!! eventually people will see the real you and realize she just another "Regina" of Mean Girls!
Love Stephanie
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Hey,
I need some serious advice a.s.a.p.
Me and my boyfriend have been together for 7mths now and we've kissed,held hands, made-out, and hugged and stuff like that. Now hes been touching me everywhere (and i mean everywhere!) whenever we are really closly hugging or holding each other closely when we sit together, it scares me really bad for some reason and my heart starts pounding, also i am a catholic grl and i follow my religion, i am also only a freshman in HS. I talked to my best friend about it (a guy) and he said he would touch his girlfriend like that too, and my other friends let their boyfriends do that too, now im starting to wonder if im too prude, or im not doing the right thing.
So should i let him touch me?
Thanx to everyone thats gonna help me,
*BaByItSYoU*
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Just because your friends do it doesn't mean that should too. If your not comfortable letting him touch you in certain places then let your boyfriend know. Your not being prude just protective over your body. But now that your in High School alot of relationships you get involved in might come to the same situation your in now! Its really actually normall believe it or not its just up to you at what time your ready to move to that level.... don't rush yourself because i wish i was into my religion like you! just don't do anything you might end up reggretting later on in the future!!!
*hope i helped*
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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I need to buy somebody a Nintendo DS for Christmas, but I have no idea where. I've called all of the stores in my area, and they are all sold out. I know next to nothing about Ebay, so unless somebody can point me out a few good auctions I have no idea how to use it. Can anybody give me any help as to where to buy one of these? (link)
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Best Buy should have them.... i think
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SORRY THAT THIS IS LONG BUT PLEASE HELP ME OUT!!!!!!!!I really, really, really like this guy(i know him really well), all my friends say we would be perfect together. We are both waiting till we get married to have sex, we both are christians and we both like the same things. The only problem is that he is 16 and my brothers friend and I am 13 and I think if me and Seth ever were to go out my brother would get mad and stop hanging out with him just so I wouldn't see him but my brother knows I like him and I think he knows that he likes me too. I just don't know what to do please help me I am so confused!
Signed,
Confused ;/
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If yall REALLY like each other like you say then you wouldn't let what anyone else thinks or say affect the feelings yall have toward each other. Eventually your brother will understand your felings toward his friend and he can't stay mad at yall forever. If you see a connection between yall then try and c wut happens
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Hey okay i am 14 f... a lil over weight, okay actually pretty big n all! but neways i like this guy.. we will call him "Teddy" neways, I like him sooo much, and were friends n all but i have like a big attitude n stuff but yeah neways... he likes one of my best friends n she likes him.. i dont wanna interfear but i liked him first.. he says im not fat n im not ugly, but i know i am!! but also i mean i liked him first and it really makes me jealous! does anyone have anyways i can get into shape loose weight n look good.. so he likes me even more i am currently 5'7 and almost 250 lbs.. i know about but still help me out here!! maybe making a big change n my life will help.. i mean my life is a lil messed up with family n all at the moment so yeah! please help me out here i'm really confused .. thanks soo much! *K* (link)
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Dont' Change yourself for a boy or anybody else but yourself! If it will make you happy and boost your self confidence the try exerciseing and dieting....but don't starve yourself. Tell your friend how you feel ad let her know what your thinkng so she can be aware that your feelin him or wuteva.
best of luck kisses
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well for as long as i can remeber i havent gotten along with my mother... and i know she hates me.... she causes me to cut myself a lot too.. right now i have a a broken knee cap and 2 broken ribs becuase i got beat up by a bunch random people becuase i had to walk home at 1130 at night through the projects cause my mom made me get out of the car... she always told me that her life would have been better if i wasnt born... she left me outside when it was 40 degrees outside and i only had a t shirt and shorts on for 3 hours..... i dont nkow what to do... how can i make things better
Love always
Kryysti (link)
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You don't need to put yourself through all that pain. You should call family if have soome and if not then you need to call CPS! i know it sounds bad but nothing is worse than the torture you are obviously going through! If things start to get worse yo uneed to get your things packed and go stay at a friends house because in my opiion your safer anywhere that your mom can't get you.
*i'll pray fro you*
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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I can never have a good day at school. I have alot of frieds but being that i have to get up in the morning i get cranky and when i get cranky i am just really quiet.. i know you'll tell me more sleep.. besides that what else could i do? because i sleep from 10:30-7:15 (link)
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Eating a well balanced meal in the morning may heelp.....you probably just need more enrgy
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hey... i'm only 13 but i really want to lose 15 pounds, if i do i won't get sick or anything will i? i don't want to have like health problems for the rest of my life. i'm only about 5'2 and i weigh like 115!! my mom says its from muscle cuse i play soccer like ALOT, but i really don't like the way i look. almost everyone i know is so much frikin skinnier than me. i'm not going to like cut out food compleatly, i just want to lose 15 pounds in like a month or so... is it safe? thanks a bunch!! (link)
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Dont get caught up in looking like everyone else, everyone was madde a certain way for a reason, you represent you size just like i represent for the thick grls. Skinny ISN'T always beautiful! but if you really wanna loose weight i say excercise! its important to eat a healthy and balanced meal.
*Stephanie*
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OK listen boy friends brother told me that my boy friend says that i never call him or any thing and he was mad at me for leaving his house to be with my friend this one time and his brother said people were tellin him that im a big hoe and before i went with him i sucked alot of guys a yeah ok so i went home and called him to get it all straightin out and his sister picked up and i asked for him and she sed hold on and i heard her call him and he told her that he'll call me back well he never did i just don't know what to do with that i mean he says i never call but when i do he says he'll call back and he never does! can some one please help on this?? thanks (link)
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Don't stress yourself out over little things like that. Talk to him in person adn straighten things out. Rumors come and go...I'm use to them Don't get your self stressed over a relationship that isn't working.....it takes two!
*good Luck*
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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well I am a 19 year old female who has been in a relationship with a guy for 4 years. I feel i am insecure about myself and constantly feel myself feeling and thinking that i am not as pretty as the girls that he sees. I have become controlling because i tell him he cant look at other girls and he can not have girl friends. I feel if he loves me like he says he does then why does he need to talk to other girls. I do not like him to work with pretty girls because i am afraid that he will flirt with them and not tell me. I get angry when he stares at other girls. We are constntly fighting. Is this all my fault. How can i stop being so scared that he is going to leave me for someone better. Even though everyday he says he wont i still get scared. And when i even see a pretty girl i say she is ugly so he wontlook . i know we care and love eachother so much . i do not want us to fight we are getting married soon please help my problem stop (link)
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4 yrs is a LONG time! If he didn't think you were beuatiful then he wouldn't be marrying you! Love is stronger than anything else....even beauty! You are TOO protective, you have a man not a lil boy....of course he'll look when he sees a pretty female, you can't say you don't check out other guys?!? you have to be realistic....regardeless where he goes there are going to be females ALL around him! You have to trust your man and you relationship other wise...thats NOT love! Its not entirely your fault though, he should know his limits and regulations about looking at females but you really just need to trust him and untill you can I dont suggest marrige.
*good luck*
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 years and I live with him now. Well, he wants a kid really bad and I told him no because I'm almost 20 and we both work at MAC. And, MAC doesn't really pay us good. And obviously, you need money to have a kid. I'm on BC and have been for like 8 months and somehow I lost my pills. I'm organized, and I dont misplace things hardly ever and I think my boyfriend stole them. I'm getting more pills tomorrow but I just KNOW my boyfriend stole them! He hasint talked to me in two days because I accused him of stealing them. Why does he want a freaking kid so bad!? I dont want to break up with him, its been 3 years and I dont want to throw our relationship away. But what can I say to him to get his mind off kids!!! (link)
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Having kids is a BIG responsibility and i don't think your boyfriend relizes that. He has to realize that if you have a child you are generating someone who will be totally dependant on you both and it will change your life forever. Don't have kids if your not ready ready for the responsibility that comes with them. 3 yrs is a long time and I think he'll understand where your coming from.
*Hope I Helped*
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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my friend and I are having problems rite now how do i get her to sit down and talk to me. (link)
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Don't try to pressure your friend to talk to you, give your friend some time and eventually she'll come around. All friendships have their ups-n-downs
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what do u do when ur "supposed" to be friend lies and betrays you. How should I confront her? (link)
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Everybody lies, stretches the truth truth, or exaggerates.....but REAL friends wouldn't betray you. Go to your friend and tell her how you feel just try to work things out cuz loosing a friend isn't worth it.
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im moving from houston tx to boston MA and i really like this girl. i dont know wat to do, and i know we cant get to together but i really like her. help?!?! (link)
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Don't let location affect your feelings...if you think that you can trust her and that you 2 have a chance of having a relationship then ask her for her # and keep in touch!!! but if things don't work out then there's always the girls up in Boston!!!
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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Like 5 of my best friends are cheerleaders..and they talk about cheerleading 24/7..and i feel left out alot of the time. How can i feel not left out? (link)
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Well ima cheerleader and im pretty sure i talk about it alot too...but i'd suggest that you talk about your hobbies and yall compare or just start a new conversation!
*hope i helped*
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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my family hates me but my friesn family treats me liek im their daughter they feed em take me places im over there everyday i spend teh nite there even when my friesn not home and everything what shood i do tho cuz its so depressign saying that ur freids parents are basically ur parestn and its sad to think that my parents cant ever be liek them i eman her dad even gives me adive adn tells me to watch out on waht boys i date and everyting im confused (link)
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Tell your family how you feel and what your goin through. if you don't see any change then look at the situation as an advantage!.....When you need advice or help you know where to go and who to count on!
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hello. all my life i have been made fun of because of my muslim faith. people always say, there is bin laden, get him.they think i support the 9/11 attacks. my parents support them but i don't. please help me get through this before i go crazy. (link)
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I'm sorry to hear that people treat you like that! Just tell them how you feel and let them know you dont support the 9/11 attacks. But dont let their ignorance get to you. As for your parents...im glad that you don't agree with their beliefs, because what Bin Laden did was WRONG!!!Just be proud of who you are and where you come from!
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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Hi I am a 16 year old female I have a boyfriend but in a way I think he might be cheating on me because one of his best friends will either call me or talk to me on the internet and tell me all kinds of stuff about my boyfriend and when I talk to my boyfriend about it he denies it all. And his friend is even telling my best friend about it all. My boyfriend and I have a long distance relationship and I'm not sure what to do. Should I break up with him or talk to him some more about what his friend is telling me? (link)
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Long distance relationships are tricky... he may be cheating on you and his friends are trying to help you out by warning you OR they may be jealous of yallz relationship and are trying to brake you 2 apart....i say don't take any chances with your boyfriend because there are plenty other bee's in hive!! But if yall are that serious ask him about it again and than base your decision on his reply!!!
*hope i helped*
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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