Question Posted Thursday December 16 2004, 8:55 pm
Hey okay i am 14 f... a lil over weight, okay actually pretty big n all! but neways i like this guy.. we will call him "Teddy" neways, I like him sooo much, and were friends n all but i have like a big attitude n stuff but yeah neways... he likes one of my best friends n she likes him.. i dont wanna interfear but i liked him first.. he says im not fat n im not ugly, but i know i am!! but also i mean i liked him first and it really makes me jealous! does anyone have anyways i can get into shape loose weight n look good.. so he likes me even more i am currently 5'7 and almost 250 lbs.. i know about but still help me out here!! maybe making a big change n my life will help.. i mean my life is a lil messed up with family n all at the moment so yeah! please help me out here i'm really confused .. thanks soo much! *K*
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? chaos answered Friday December 17 2004, 8:57 am: Well the good news is you are 14, and it might not be as hard to lose weight. Second of all, if you are going to lose weight, DO IT FOR YOURSELF NOT SOME IDIOT GUY. If he likes you for who you are, that's great. I am 5'7" and 250, but I am 32. It sucks. I am trying to lose weight all the time. Cutting back on sodas and sugary stuff helps tremendously. And it will cut down on future health problems. I am currently facing blood pressure and cholesterol meds if I don't get some exercise. The good news is that being tall helps in you looking slimmer faster. Best wishes. [ chaos's advice column | Ask chaos A Question ]
xoxbreexoxo answered Thursday December 16 2004, 11:14 pm: Well,
one of my friends went through the same stage. It is not easy. You just have to make daily routines like walks once a day and watch what you eat. Like eat healthy and cut back on sodas, chips, and candy, and you can have junkfood once in a while. Well i no that doesn't sound like much but it helps. Hope I helped.
Lovies,
bree [ xoxbreexoxo's advice column | Ask xoxbreexoxo A Question ]
KiSsEs answered Thursday December 16 2004, 11:05 pm: Dont' Change yourself for a boy or anybody else but yourself! If it will make you happy and boost your self confidence the try exerciseing and dieting....but don't starve yourself. Tell your friend how you feel ad let her know what your thinkng so she can be aware that your feelin him or wuteva.
josiechick0289 answered Thursday December 16 2004, 10:41 pm: Shouldn't matter what you look like, but if you'd like to lose wieght i go to the gym. in a week in a half i lost a dress size. just for like two weeks no junk food. [ josiechick0289's advice column | Ask josiechick0289 A Question ]
Shortie8959 answered Thursday December 16 2004, 10:31 pm: Well, I know you don't want to hear this, but it doesn't matter what you look like on the outside, it's the inside that counts! But I know what you mean, so I'm gonna try and help. What you need to do is make a daily routine. Like, do pushups, crunches, situps, go running, biking, swimming, whatever you like to do! Just make yourself a routine, and also try eating healthier! Like, don't just eat when you watch TV or when you're bored. And never skip breakfast, because that screws up your metabolism! Just try real hard, I know u can do it! Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~ [ Shortie8959's advice column | Ask Shortie8959 A Question ]
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