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Like 5 of my best friends are cheerleaders..and they talk about cheerleading 24/7..and i feel left out alot of the time. How can i feel not left out?
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Ask them to come over your house sometime so you can all work on cheers, dances, and maybe even some stunts! be safe!
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maybe you should try to be a cheerleader if your into that kinda stuff then when they talk about it you can be involved in the conversation too.
If not tell them how you feel left out when they talk about it and maybe they will talk about somethinq different once in a while.
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why dont you try starting up cheer leading? but not b/c of pressure, but to be with your friends. If no good, bring up your own topics, make them hear you out, talk about what you do, talk about what you guys ALL like and hear out different opinions. If they talk over you anyway, tell them you feel left out... express the truth, b/c the truth is the best way to go.
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You can:
-join the team. not sure if you'd want to, and it could take a while, so not the best solution.
-steer the conversation away from cheerleading whenever you can. (ex: walking down the street w/ your friends, listening to them talking about cheerleading. "Hey, look at the hobo! I think he's drunk! How can you tell if he's drunk?")
-try to hang out with a mixture of cheerleading friends and non-cheerleading friends, so at least you'll have someone to talk to. Also, if there's more than one non-cheerleader, your cheerleading friends might be a little more conscious about not boring everyone else to death.
-tell them that you're playing a game to see how many times they can say the word "cheerlead" in a minute. This is a pointed way of telling them they're talking about it too much. If they're very sensitive, this could be taken as rude, so be careful. But if they're your best friends, they'll prolly understand.
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Join or get other friends that arent cheerleaders and talk about what you want to with them or tell your 5 bf's that you dont always like to hear about cheerleading because you feel left out-trix
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Join the team
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Well ima cheerleader and im pretty sure i talk about it alot too...but i'd suggest that you talk about your hobbies and yall compare or just start a new conversation!
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girl like all my friends are in cheerleading and im NOt and i really dont wanna be.The thing i do is try bringing up wut i like to do lke dance cuz im really good at that and they dodnt really kno lots bout that. and i kinda drift the subject away from cheerleading but i tell u one thing that no one else will probally say but DONT i repeat dont join cheerleading if u dont wanna but its up 2 u.my suggestoin is no. Talk bout stuuff u like to do like sumthin they arent as good at.
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well 1st of all i am a cheerleader n all so there isnt much here i cn help ya w/ but muh friend is goin to help too:
Hey, im not a cheerleader and my friend ^ is 1 tho. She talks about it alot but i dont feel left out, i just talk about things i do. You could compare your coaches or how hard the practices are. If she(he) talks about a competition, you talk about yours or (if you saw it) how funny some ppl looked!!-- rememba muh advice n tell ur friends
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you can try cheering too..<3
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maybe you should bring up a different topic everytime they get started. hey it worked with my friend who was OBSESSED with the lord of the rings so i dont see why it wouldnt work for anyone else. hope i helped!!
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