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Age: 14
AIM: xlorereolx or xliddleprincesso
Member Since: July 26, 2004
Answers: 37
Last Update: July 30, 2004
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hey when my friend is on her period and she keeps telling me to do stuff forher and her excuses is always " I am on my perios and i dont feel good" and i cant help but do it for her cause i am just that good of a friend. Should i tell her to do it her damn self or keep on being a good friend? (link)
you should ask her to do it herself. Even though you dont do every little thing for your friend doesnt make you a bad friend. And having your period is no excuse for not being able to do sometihng. Hope we helped rate us please !


how much is over protective when it comes to your bf. mines lives 15 mints away, but different schools different friends, i love him and trust him! but i know he used to be a player, and some of his friends dont like me because i actully broke his ways, i know he wouldnt cheat, but when i talk to some of his friends that are girls online i just get unconfrotable and feel bad when i hear things that he didnt wanna talk to me about, am i over reacting if im just not confortable when he talks to other women?
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yea , i think you are over reacting. If he doesnt get uncomfortable when you talk to other guys then you shouldnt care if he talks to other girls. It just means he has friends , and you said you know he wouldnt cheat. Maybe he just needs someone else to talk to sometimes. Hope we helped ! rate us please !


question. crazy or cute?
kinda pretty girl sees and talks to cute guy at work. (he is a client of hte office, she is the secretary)she does nto htink he will be in again for a long time. so she gets his number from his file and calls him...
is she crazy or cute? (link)
cute =)


Okay I liked this boy that i worked with and he gave me a ride home from work and we had sex well after that he doesnt really talk to me much and when he does all he talks about is sex and I just wanted a relationship with him but i dont think he wants that .. So im still crushing him alot but i dont think he is crushing me so i need some advice like should i still be stuck on him and how do i get over him its so hard! Thanks (link)
if the only time he talks to you is when he talks about the sex , then he probably doesnt feel the same way about you. If thats the case you should move on and try to find someone who does like you. You could also try talking to him about it , maybe he doesnt talk to you because he may think you dont lyk him and doesnt want to feel rejected. Hope we helped rate us thnx !


Hey Im 19 and I have blonde hair, green eyes, im 5'5, and 100lbs. My bf says he loves me but I think he only likes me for my looks. He is always telling me how pretty i am and stuff. Everytime I ask him why he loves me, he jus doesnt answer the ?. He loves bringin me places to show me off to his friens. Everytime one of his freins hits on me, he jus laughs and keeps talking. One time his friend tried cybering wit me on here and when I told him he didnt believe me. (link)
If you think he doesnt really love you , and is just with you because of what you look like then you two really shouldnt be together. Because you can find someone else who loves you for who you are and not for what you look like . hope we helped rate us please !


i didnt kno wut to put this under... since it kinda has to do with sumthing my parents hav to deal with i put it under familyz. well you kno how when u have ur period that that first daii iz the worst and that you go to sleep and stuff of coarse you have a thingy on and stuff but how do you not stain your bed? i alwayz hav trouble with that and i had to throw away a thing of sheets becuz of it. sum1 plz help. iz there like sum secret to it? help! (link)
theres probably not a secret or nething to it , maybe you can try sleeping with a tampon in instead .. or sleep with a towel or somethin on your bed? hope we helped rate us please !


i saw the question on crabs....what is it exactly?? (link)
pubic lice


For Livejournal layouts and everything, how do you get them to work? like where do you put the code? I'm confused! If you can help me out id appreciate it.. (link)
you put it in the overrides section .. on the customize page ... but there are certain codes you need to start out with .. if you need more help you can i.m me -- xlorereolx .. hope i helped rate me thnx!


I am 13 years old. I just recently broke up with my girl friend. It sucks, but i'll live. the problem is I had sex with that girl, and everyone knows. I now for a fact that a girl i've had a crush on since 4th grade likes me, do u think the fact that I had sex will push her away from wanting to date me (link)
It wont necessarily push her away from you , but if you start going out with her you should wait a while before mentioning anything to her about sex because she might think you are pressuring her into it and then she might not want to date you nemore . hope we helped !! rate us please =))


my boyfriend went to a club without asking...and told me afterwards...i have the right to be mad right?...if i went he would of killed me...i cant take it anymore we fight so much but i love him so much how can i stop the fighting? please help i rate.... (link)
you should talk to him about what he did , and yea you have the right to be mad bc you sed he would be mad if you did the same thing .. if you guys are fighting alot you both need to talk and try to figure out what is causing all the fighting and try to fix it , if you love him that much! hope we helped rate us thnx!


17-f

I've been with my bf for almost 3 months, And I think I'm in love with him. I never get to see him though. No matter what we do together I have to go pick him up since he doesn't have a car, and he doesn't live that close (it's just getting annoying). The problem is that I thought I might still be having feelings for my ex, so I started talking to him again. It turns out he's still totally in love with me (I like him, but I don't love him). My ex is always there for me and can come over whenever. It's just really hard. Any suggestions? (link)
If your going to be able to see your ex all the time you will probably start to love him again or w.e and not have suck strong feeling for your current boyfriend so i would just suggest hangin with the ex whenever you can and see what happens with that because you would want to be going out with someone you can see whenever and doesnt always have to rely on you to come pick him up to see you. hope we helped! rate us ! thnx


im 12 yrs old i dont know anyone who has had sex (well people my age and a couple yars older) but when i read some of these problems on advicenators most of the people are like 13 or 14 and say that they have sex a lot its kind of creepy my sisters 14 but she hasnt had sex im wondering if these people are either lying about their age or more mature than me. i feel like when im 13 or 14 that il be soo pressured into sex and stuff. i hear these unbelievable stories of guys and girls having sex since they were 12. its so perverted and i mean is it weird im not ready or as into it as other people are? (link)
its not weird that your not ready to have sex , alot of the people that started having sex at that age shouldnt have because they have a life ahead of them , and they could ruin that. You wont be pressured into having sex , you can do it when your ready , and you should only do it with someone you really love. Hope we helped!
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im 15/F and lately ive been like peeing alot and not being able to go to bed AT ALL!! i dont know if its cus i drink before i go to bed or what but i cant sleep and i have to pee like every 30 minutes, me and my boyfriend have alot of sex and im on birth control and have been for a year or so but i got my period last week another signidicant thing is ive gained like 20 lbs but i have been eating more which is another sign of pregnancy so all im hopin is im not so if anyone has been pregnanyt or if they know what it could be then please help me im freakin out and i have no one to talk too.. (link)
You can be going to the bathroom so much because of drinking before you go to bed , or you may have something wrong with your bladder. So you should try not drinking alot before you go to bed and if it continues you should ask a doctor. About the weight thing , when some people are on birth control they have different effects on them and one of them is gaining alot of weight so you may not exactly be pregnant it could just be from the pill. Hope we helped! Rate us please!


Ok theres this girl, lets just say her name is 'Sally' and over the summer I have matured and have gotten to my senses. But my friend sally whenever I get together with her I dont laugh with her anymore and everything she says is, well, stupid. And sumtimes I just feel like we are friends only because Sally wants a messager girl. How am I supposed to handle this?? Please help?

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If you want to be nice about it you can just sit down and try to tell her how you feel. Or if you just dont think your friendship altogether isnt working out tell her you dont like the way she is treating you and that you dont think a real friend would do that and see what happens after that. hope we helped !! rate us please =) !


im 13 and a girl and i want to do alot of things like make out with guys and maybe in a year or so have sex with a guy. but 1. im scared im a bad kisser. 2. i dont wanna get pregnant and 3. i havent found the right guy to do any thing with...what should i do? (link)
you could just keep trying to find someone who is right for you , theres really no way to find out if someone is a bad kisser because alotta people do different things and when you have sex just make sure you always use protection and be careful so u dont get pregnant hope we helped .

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If a person is 14, do u think their 2 young 2 have sex? (link)
it depends , alotta people start having sex around that age but you have to think of the consequences you may have to deal with. If you do have sex you should make sure its with someone you really care about , and make sure you use protection.

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well you see i really like this guy but he really likes my friend but just has a crush on me but this girl he really likes only likes him because hes there and liking her but he doesn't realize it but i really like him. are there any ways to get him to like me more or make him see what shes doing? i mean they've went out 3 times and she dumps him for another guy everytimebut he still goes back for more!! plz answer me! thanx (link)
hanq out with him more , and tell him how you feel about him. If you can trust him to not qo back and tell your friend what you said , you can try explaininq what she is doinq to him , and maybe he will listen and not like her nemore.

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kool aid as hair dye.. anyone ever try it? should i try doing it? i only want something temporary b/c schools all strict and stuff about hair color. i just wanna find out if its worth doing and what color would you think best on blonde hair? (link)
ya it works if ur black.... if ur not nd u have blonde hair i wuldnt do it.. it stains ur hands nd fades nd washes out it will prolly look gay....
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I want to know some good pick up lines to use on people. Thanks~! (link)
nice leqs what time do they open ?

qirl you look so qood , i`d drink your bathwater .

nice shoes wanna fuck ?

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Well I know this is kinda sick and all but im gonna ask neways..when I shave down there its gets all red like a rash and then sometimes it bleed and i really dont know what to do.. (link)
it`s razor burn




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