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So confused, it's stressing me out
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I've been with my bf for almost 3 months, And I think I'm in love with him. I never get to see him though. No matter what we do together I have to go pick him up since he doesn't have a car, and he doesn't live that close (it's just getting annoying). The problem is that I thought I might still be having feelings for my ex, so I started talking to him again. It turns out he's still totally in love with me (I like him, but I don't love him). My ex is always there for me and can come over whenever. It's just really hard. Any suggestions?
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give your ex a second chance because everything happenz for a reason and theres a reason why he came back into your life for a second time. If you feel weird or bad cheating on your boyfriend or breaping up wid him den dont. because then you relle do love him. but i relle suggest you give your ex a second try..cuz everyone deserves a second chance. good luck wid wutever decision you make. -rate meh- xO dEe
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3 months is pretty early to tell if its love or not and it sounds like it mite be fading.. besides i think you should DEFINATLEY go for the other guy your ex, he sound like a real keeper i would snag him b4 someone else does.
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How can u say that u love ur BF when u don't see him enough?Maybe it's just ur urge to meet him that makes u say that u love him.I'd say u tell ur Bf that its just not working uot between u 2 and that u need to spend more time with some1 whose always gonna be there 4 u.U said ur ex luvs u and u just like him.Gv ur ex a chance.It just takes that fraction of a second to fall in love wid some1 who already loves u....Hope I helped u out.
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See...I've been with my boyfriend for about a year now..but even when i was with him for 3 months..i cud never see myself talking to another guy like that. Maybe you need to realize that you're obviously not in love with both of them, because if you think about it, you're kind of playing both of them. Also...If you're basically going behind your boyfriends back to talk to this guy, there's not much of a future for u and ur ex..because later on in your relationship (if u even have one)..he's going to think about what you're actually capable of doing to him...he will start thinking about what you did to your current boyfriend...and it will effect him a lot. that's all I can give you for now.
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Go for the ex.
At least you'll save gas money.
It takes time to love so give him another chance.
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If your going to be able to see your ex all the time you will probably start to love him again or w.e and not have suck strong feeling for your current boyfriend so i would just suggest hangin with the ex whenever you can and see what happens with that because you would want to be going out with someone you can see whenever and doesnt always have to rely on you to come pick him up to see you. hope we helped! rate us ! thnx
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tell your boyfriend about your ex. your boyfriend and your ex both want you to be happy, so its really up to you, if you love your boyfriend, then stay with him, but if you dont see yourself having a future with him but maybe with your ex.. .then go with him, either way im sure youll be happy because im sure that there both really great guys and they would also be lucky to have a girlfriend that cares as much as you do, if you really think that you cant be with your boyfriend tho, then you need to tell him how you feel. i hope things work out for you and i hope that you end up happy with whichever situation you choose. -Angel
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If you loved your carless boyfriend,then you wouldn't still like you ex. You say you like him but you don't love him. The same goes for your current boyfriend. I say ditch Mr. Long Distance and give your ex another chance. A guy wouldn't be there for you all the time if he didn't like you.
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