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Ok, so there's this guy that I really like. I only met him about 4 or 5 days ago but he's really nice and he's a good christian. He had this thing in his AIM profile that said "single let me know if any of you ladies want to change that" and I told him that I could "help him out there" and as soon as I said that he was all "I was hoping you'd say that" He also told me, my cousin, and this guy that he thought I was hot and that I seemed like an awesome girl.
The thing is, everytime I try to make plans he never calls me back or anything. It really sucks... cause I like him a lot. Do you think he likes me? should I give up? please help! :(
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thats so funny because im in the same exact position wid a guy. i dont know wheter i should give up or continue trying. I have this very good friend whos great at advice and i told her about this. She told me that if you really like a guy then you should never give up no matter what bc if u just have patience then the results could come out great. Also dont give up bc this guy could be your soulmate and just because of a little missunderstanding you culd be missing out on a lot of things. Im pretty sure he has good reasons why he cant call you back or why hes always busy. just talk to him and be ready for whatever comes your way. Hope i helped ya ^_-
XoOx--DeE
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My friend Harmony is always telling me that I need to let God into my life and look to him as a source of comfort. I believe that God exists, but I have doubts about whether he really cares or not. I feel like she trying to force me to believe like she does. I respect the fact that she is strong in her faith, but I don't neccesarily want to talk about it with her. She gets really offended when I say something that she doesn't think is right. When I told her that I didn't want her to tell me to go to God for guidance, she got angry and told me that at least she knew that she couldn't be open with me anymore. Am I wrong for asking her to not talk about this? How to I tell her that I would rather not talk about God without offending her? (link)
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shes a little childish if she gets offended by your choice of religion. it seems tah me shes trying to change your beliefs and whatnot. if i were you i would try to talk to her about this and explain to her "freedom of religion" and how she cant get mad just bc yu choose not to talk to god. if she doesnt get it and gets mad at you den give her a taste of her own medicine. do it right back to her and b like yea i dont like u talking to god it offends me how u wuld rather talk to him then me and then maybe shell get the point tht shes gettin mad over the stupidest stuff and that its not worth to lose a friend over this. Hope i helped ^_-
XoOx--DeE
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I don't know what to do abt this anymore, my best friend (not so best anymore) is always ignoring me and trying to control me. when i'm in a group with her she makes me feel really small, but when it's one on one it's not that bad. whenever i call her to chat she starts playing her guitar or she's like "i'm eating so i have to go" or "can u call back i'm watching a show" (when she has it taped!!) i'm getting really tired of it but she's friends with all my other friends so i can't just "drop her". i've already told her that i think she ignores me a lot and her response is "oh". what should i do??? plz help (link)
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If she makes you feel small then i dont know why you bother beiing her friend anymore..? but i sort of know how you feel. if you 2 always used tah hang out alot den the case might be tht she got sick of you. if that is tha case dont worry bout iht bc it happens to every relationshyp at least once. or maybe her feelings changed and she matured or something like tht and shes just bored wid you ( no offense and all). i dont mean tah make you look bad but i thynk u should stop trying to be her friend .. you know say your hi and byes and w.e but dont try to get her tah like you how she used tah. If she relle cared for you den she wuld change her ways. If she doesnt mind the not talking as much thyng den u knoe shes not exactly the type of friend you would want tah have. You should give her space , time to realize what shes missing out on and giving up on. Hope i helped ya ^_- .
XoOx--DeE
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ok..im not extemely popular..i`d say im in the middle. Well anyway theres a guy..we went out..then broke up.
Lately ivve ben so lonely that ive been thinking of getting backk together with him...maybe just to hook up. I think he`d be fine with this idea..but I dont want it getting around. i dont want ppl to know WHAT we will do..or that i did it with him. Ive had bad experiences with this kinda stuff getting around school. Give me advice on wat to do? Thanks
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go out wid him but just keep it on da DL ( downlow)..That way noone will know you 2 go out and you'll feel free to do whatever with him without it getting around. Hope i helped ya =)
-RaTe mEh-
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After all that sh*t happened i called mah bf n asked him to come over & i would explain everything.Everything was going pretty good until like anthony came outta his house n wen i saw him i got up & started to walk to my house.Then he sed and he apoligized blah blah blah,then he sed the real reason he was gunna talk to yesterday was cuz he saw mah bf making-out w/sum other chick!!And at 1st i didnt believe him and i asked him to leave.And then when my bf gott 2 mah house i noticed a hicky on his neck n im all wtf? who gave u that??i didnt give him a chance to explain or nething n i sed maybe i was lucki that anthony kissed me so now im not stuck with a sleezeball! And i went inside n closed the door. NOW i AM so thank ful for anthony! lol But should i go n apologize for everything i need help hurry!! (link)
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well , yer boyfriiend might have gotten mad at yew and done dat for revrenge so yew knoe how it feelz..so juss let him explain himselff..if he haz a good reason den apoligize `nd if he doesnt have a good reason den forget about hym. GooD lUCk!!
xO ` DeE
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latley i have been doing a lot of different things to my hair, ive spiked it and been using colored gel, but im always getting looks from people, i dont know if they are good or bad, i love my hair being this way but i dono if i feel comfortable with everyone lookin at me, wut should i do, i have red and blue colored hair and ive been gettin mroe and more creative latley. what should i do? (link)
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if yew like it den datz all that matterz..if the ppl dont like it..who carez? yur not doing it to impress dem..your doing it for yourslef. theres always going to be people that dislike what you do or how you dress.hope i helped ya.
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I've been with my bf for almost 3 months, And I think I'm in love with him. I never get to see him though. No matter what we do together I have to go pick him up since he doesn't have a car, and he doesn't live that close (it's just getting annoying). The problem is that I thought I might still be having feelings for my ex, so I started talking to him again. It turns out he's still totally in love with me (I like him, but I don't love him). My ex is always there for me and can come over whenever. It's just really hard. Any suggestions? (link)
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give your ex a second chance because everything happenz for a reason and theres a reason why he came back into your life for a second time. If you feel weird or bad cheating on your boyfriend or breaping up wid him den dont. because then you relle do love him. but i relle suggest you give your ex a second try..cuz everyone deserves a second chance. good luck wid wutever decision you make. -rate meh- xO dEe
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well sum of u know im 13 n he's 14.So yesterday after i wrote this i went outside 2 get the mail n then i was gunna wait for mah bf cuz he sed he was gunna come to mah house.So when i was waiting anthony came n sat down next to me.(anthony-guy on mah str33t).And i didnt say ne thing to him but then i looked at him nreally quick he kissed me(me not knowing mah bf was across the str33t, so he just walked home)n then i smacked anthony n ran inside.n then mah cell rang, i picked it up n it was mah bf n he sed "i guess i wasnt the only one" n he hung up! Ok NOW WHAT SHOULD I DO!! anthony STILL doesnt get the point!And wut should i do anout mah bf?? plz help!!
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okay now he took it too far. tell anthony that if he really loves you , then to tell your boyfriend the truth..which is he kissed you! and if he doesnt want to do it then be mad at him because he caused problems with you and your boyfriend. and den he'll most likely feel bad and then tell your boyfriend what happened. But be mean now to him and tell him " are you happy now? " and tell him how you feel. who cares about his feelings? its not like he cares about yours because then otherwise he wouldnt have kissed you knowing you had a boyfriend and knowing it could start shyt for yew. good luck and IM me if yu have nething else tah say [ lxbabeyxl ] or leave a message in my inbox. xO dEe
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I just recently got dumped by my ex. we were going fine then all of the sudden she dumped me, i still like her, and i want her to go out with me again. I am about90% sure she still likes me.
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if yur sure she styll likez yew den ask her out agen. good luck xO dEe
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theres this guy i like alot and he asked me out today (like 1 in the morning type deal)...he already meet the parents but my mom and dad said his to old...he jst turned 18 today...and ill be 16 in dec...my parents don't know where dating i haven't told them yet...and i kind of don't want to right know bC they told me a couple days agao that he was to old...and i wanna know wat can i do to get my parents to apporve of him so me and him can go out together...w/ out me haveing to sneak behind my parents back bout it!??
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make him meet yer parentz and maybe yer parents will think hez a nice man and approve of him.hope i helped =) rate me plz xO dEe
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hey im a 14 year old girl and heres my problem: some times (about three times a month or so) i have to go to the bathroom really bad so i do and when im done i have this burning sensataion and i feel like i need to go again, so when i sit back down on the toilet to try to go again nothing happens. and so it burns down there and i feel like i need to go so i just wait and it goes away in about 20 minutes. i dont know what this is or what i can do ...PLEASE HELP!!! (ps i also havent gotten my period yet...)
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Either itz a urinary tract infection or something that i had dat you get by walking barefeet on cold objects/surroundings such as like wood floors.you get it by like stepping on a really cold floor barefeet. its really easy to cure just drink a lot of hot fluids like warm tea or warm milk..never cold..and take a really really hot bath for more than a half an hour. and it should go away under 2 days. If it doesnt go away in about 2 days then most likely you have urinary tract infection and you need to see a doctor for that. good luck! if you have any questions IM me lxbabeyxl..or leave something in my inbox. Hope i helped ya xO dEe
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~15 female~
me and my best friend are really close...i was w/ her when she lost *it* and the sad thing is she didn't even know the guy..she only new him for a lil bit! and then she had sex w/ this other dude but shes kind of dating him...and i told her she shouldn't be doing that bC shes always going out to have sex w/ some other dude...and then i was staying the nite w/ her one nite and we snuck out and she had sex w/ these 2guys that she hardly even knew...and she still talks to one of them she goes overto his house and stuff...but she doesn't need to hang out w/ him either cuz his a lil man whore! well then she had sex w/ this other dude...and then another (but she knew the last one really well)...well last nite me and her sunk out again w/ my boyfriend and one of his friends...and she had sex w/ him...i mean i haven't even had sex w/ my boyfriend yet...and i didn't even have sex w/ him that nite...well my freind has had sex w/ at lest 7guys...how do i get her to stop...i want her to wait till shes dating a guy before she starts haveing sex again!...?? what do i do? (link)
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OmG iM iN tHe sAmE pOsItIoN..JuSt tAlK to HEr And TeLl HEr SheS aCtInG lIkE a WhOre And GuYs aRenT gOiNg tO reSpeCt HEr ANd AlOt of GirLz ArE GoNnA WanNA hAvE BeEf wId hEr oN AcCoUnT Of wHaT ShEs dOinG.sHe sHoUlD UnDeRsTaNd bUt if sHe dOeSnT tHeN YU'vE TrIeD AnD JUsT LeT hEr fInD OuT ThE HaRd WaY.HOPE I HeLpeD Ya RaTe MEh x0 DeE
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ok, my boyfriend really wants me to give him a lap dance. I really want too to. lol but there is one problem......I don't know how to give it to him! I'm even a dancer and i'm pretty good too. But i don't know the right moves or anything. And i dont' wanna look stupid or inexperianced. HELP!!!!
female = 15 (link)
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LaP dAncEs Are BasIcAlLy JuSt rIdIng tHe diCk. l0l.So jUst siT On HiS lAp ANd MoVe YouR AsS ArOuNd. MoSt LiKElY hE`Ll HavE hIs hAndS oN yOur HiPz. If YoUr DoIng It RiGhT tHen YoUr goInG to FeEl His DiCk lIke ThroUgH yOur JeaNZ oR w.E. HoPe i HElPeD =) GoOd luCk nD hAVe fUn. RatE mE pLZ x0x DeE
p.S: DeReS dIfF. tYpEz oF lAP dAnCeS bUt tHe oNe aBoVe iS thE mOsT coMmOn wUn.
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^15, female^
iight...i was w/ my firend and we were hanging out w/ some dudes all weekend...i knew one of them for a while and i had jst met this other 2 dudes and i only knew this one guy *Sam* for bout 2days and i lost *it* to him...i mean there where no feelings no nothing...i mean i don't even care that he hasn't called me or anything...but i feel like it's wrong..and that it makes me look like a whore cuz i did that...but i mean when ppl ask me i'm like yeah i knew him for 2 yrs(but i really only knew him for 2days)...cuz i don't want anyone to think bad of me!...but i did tell myself that i'm not going to have sex till my next boyfriend that i'm serious bout...so does it make me seem like a whore that i lost it to some guy i hardly knew?..and is it tru that you can go to hell for have sex w/ someone you don't love? (link)
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n0 yer n0t a h0e. unless y0u d0 it al0t of timez. but y0u 0nly did it 0nce and y0u have bad feelingz ab0ut it s0 y0ur def. n0t a h0e. y0u w0uld be a h0e if y0u did it agen th0ugh. ab0ut the hell thing idkk..l0l..rate meh plz x0*DeE
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ok .. ive been with the same guy for a year. thats good for me cuz i never do that .. but last summer i talked to a guy noname and we were going to date but we decided not too because our familys were best friends and we didnt want to mess that up if something happened. well me and my boyfriend are haveing some problems because i have a new job maken goood money and we never get to see each other because we have different off days. well my mom and i and nonames family went to see kenny chesney. last thursday. well boyfriend didnt like that to much and was being a rude asswhole.. which in return to that made me cry in front of everyone in the hummer limo!! my whole like was messed up .. well after i was droped off noname was helping me carry some stuff to my car .. he was being really sweet and was tryn to make me smile and i guess just feel better! well he told me he was going to call me i returned with you better because we are really good friends . well needless to say he leaned in and kissed me i was shocked i didnt know what to do but look away and say why? .. now he calls me every day makes sure everythings ok and my days going good .. his little cousin lives across the street and he told her that he really did love me .. thinking it wasnt true he even told his aunt which i know wouldnt like about something like that ... he comes by my house alll the time .. he even came by jus a little while ago. i keep having all these mixed feelings and i dont know what to do . i mean i do love my boyfriend but i feel that im just tired of the same ol thing i dont know what to do ....its been two weeks since i seen my boyfriend and im going to see him tomorrow .. but noname will see him 1st. they have to get sinor pic. done tomorrow and noname is still really mad and ive asked him not to say or do anything to him because idont want to make things worse. boyfriend knows about the whole kiss thing and he says hes not mad but i know deep down it hurts him but over the last couple of months hes really hurt me ... every time iget off the phone with him i end up crying. i dont know what to do anymore.can anyone help me? (link)
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g0 0ut wid n0nayme. Try diff. pe0ple 0ut. It seemz as if y0u and y0ur b0yfriend need a break. Maybe y0ur b0yfriend will learn to treat y0u better 0nce he realizes that hes g0ing t0 have t0 fight f0r y0u. wh0 kn0ez? n0nayme c0uld be y0ur s0ulmate and y0u w0uld never kn0w because y0u never gave him a try. h0pe i helped. plz rate meh. =)
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my doctor does check-ups on me, im a 13 female, and he's a male. he always checks my breasts for things so he knows nothings wrong--like for lumps or something .. none of my other friends have their doctor do this .. my doctor practically squeezes me, and he always unzips my pants and looks down them and feels around. like i said, none of my friend's doctor's do this, and some of them have the same doctor as me. what do you think is going on? is he doing this sexually, or just being a doctor? (link)
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i think you should tell a grown-up because if he doesnt do this to other people..and just you..it seems as if hes doing it sexually. it sounds to meh you need to tell a adult or someone who can help. Hope i helped =) rate me plz.
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i have gotten realli close to this guy lately and we are good friends. but i like him as more than a friend but i dont think he feels the same way. What should i do? (link)
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i think you should ask him " do you ever see us going out?" and if itz a good answer then tell him how you feel but if itz not a good answer den it just wasn't meant tah be so move on. It's good if you do this bc you dont want to tell him you like him as more of a friend..den have him shut you down..cuz that will be embarrising and weird for the both of you. hope i helped =)rate me plz .
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hey everyone, I am 15 and I need some advice...my boyfriend of 9 months is leavin and movin to Oregon in a few weeks. I live in Florida and I wanna try to do the whole long distance thingy but I dont think that he wants to. I love him soooo much and want to be with him. Does it really work? Should couples that are in love try it? Please Help ME!!! xo0x ~manda [ aka confused]~ (link)
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well my cousin had a long distance relationship and she lives in Europe and she wus dating someone from a diffrent country and they never saw each other .. but they stuck wid it and now they are engaged. If yew think thats it`s worth trying to have a long distance relationship..then go for it..but if yu really dont see a future wid dis kidd den break it off now and try to get over him bc once he moves alot of pain will be involved. It`s better you get over him then deal wid pain. Hope i helped `nd good luck =) rate meh plz
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I really like this guy. I like to flirt with him and stuff all the time. I think that if I told him how I feel, we would be going out. The problem is, it's my B/f's ex! I don't know how she would feel! Should I tell him I like him or what? (link)
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ask yer friend how would she feel if yew went out wid her ex. And den if she says she doesnt care or whatever den go for it. hope i helped =)rate meh plz xoxo DeE
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I have a boyfriend but my parents don't know! I'm only in 7th grade so I don't know if they will be angry. I'm the only girl in my family so my Dad may make me break up with him! Should I tell my parents? (link)
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Yew shuld ask yer parents , " what wuld yew say if yew knew i had a boyfriend?" or sumthyn like tht and if they ask why say ,"no reason". Depending on their answer they give yew , yew shuld noe wheter or not to tell them. Hope i helped =) xoxo DeE
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