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my doctor does check-ups on me, im a 13 female, and he's a male. he always checks my breasts for things so he knows nothings wrong--like for lumps or something .. none of my other friends have their doctor do this .. my doctor practically squeezes me, and he always unzips my pants and looks down them and feels around. like i said, none of my friend's doctor's do this, and some of them have the same doctor as me. what do you think is going on? is he doing this sexually, or just being a doctor?
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If you feel uncomfortable, tell your mom, or legal gurdian, that you would rather have a female doctor, because all that touching and probing makes you feel uncomfortable. First off, is this guy a gynocologist, cause if hes an orthopedic doctor, something is definently wrong with this picture!
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Victoria
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hmm.. ive never had a doctor (besides my gynecologist) do that to me on a regular checkup. seems kinda fishy to me... maybe next time, you should have your mom in the room with you when he is checking you up to see if he does the same things.. if he doesnt, then you should say something about it when your mom is in the room with you so she can lay the smack-down on his ass.
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Well,it's totally normal to have the breast exam and even to have the doctor "feel around down there" to check and be sure everything's ok.What really makes it seem weird to me is A)The fact that HE unzips your pants.My doc always tells ME to do it! And B)The fact that some of your friends who have the same doctor say he hasn't done that to them.It may be totally innocent,but I would still reccomend you talk to your mom about this.If you must continue seeing him,you always have the option and the RIGHT to insist that a female nurse be present during your examinations.If he in any way objects to a nurse being present,HEAD FOR THE DOOR!Maybe you need to switch doctors.It's always important that you feel comfrotable with your doctor-especially your gynocologist!!!
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Okay, go tell your mom that he is doing this and make sure you let her know that you're friends who ahve the same doctor said he never does that to them. Let her know you feel uncomfortable and you want a new doctor because you should never feel uncomfortable around your doctor. He is supposed to be a trusted person. You should also report him, because he may be doing this to ther girls who have not spoken up. You might even be able to get him prosecuted.
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you should talk to your mom about it. if hes only doing that to you and not your other friends then it is a possibility. my doctor looks, but deffinitly doesnt feel around. you should be comfortable around your doctor. maybe you should switch to a female one.
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there is a good chance he is just being a doctor but being a doctor means that you should feel comfortable around him and if you feel uncomfortable in any way then you should request a different doctor because that isn't right, if this man is making you feel uncomfortable, you have every right to sue him for lots of money, tell your parents about it because if he makes you feel uncomfortable then thats not right, you're supposed to be able to trust this man with your life.. i hope i helped and i hope that you find a new doctor.. -Angel
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he might be sexually harassing u...but talk to ur mom about it. if she says that docters arent sposed to do that and its not something hes allowed to do, then its SH. but if he really is supposed to do that, then ur gunna have 2 deal with it lol. but this is something 4 u to tlk 2 ur mom about. gl hun
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GO TELL MOMMY!!!...or when then doctor does that ask him wat his doing...and if he has a good answer then still TELL MOMMA..but other then that tell him to get the fuck off you!!!
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i think you should tell a grown-up because if he doesnt do this to other people..and just you..it seems as if hes doing it sexually. it sounds to meh you need to tell a adult or someone who can help. Hope i helped =) rate me plz.
*x0x DeE
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i've heard of doctors checking on your chest and your pelvic area, but not to that extent...maybe you should see if the doctor acts differently if your mom is in the room...nomatter what though, you should feel comfortable with your doctor so maybe you should mention it to your mom and possibly switch doctors
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