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i like to help people so this is the easiest way to help people and i hope that i actually do help in the end. anyone and everyone can ask something and you dont have to leave your name or anything. i'll help you in any way i can. i hope to become a psychologist someday so this is good practice for me. please let me know how i'm doing. also, i like to write poetry and i love my boyfriend alan very much. ~Kare


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hey kare its nicole.
i couldnt help but notice in your little about me section off to the side, it said
"i want to be a phycologist someday"
and i laughed =P
haha i love you like crazy karen. =D
**psychologist** =P (link)
are you serious??? wow im terrible...i mean i meant to do that, yeah lol thats it.


does anyone have any good ideas what i can be for halloween. I'm 14, a girl, and it's going to be liek 60 degrees out. I want to be something, fun, crazy, and sexy. NOT somethign scary or ugly. any ideas? thnx, ill rate (link)
you might be a little cold, but you could be a french maid or something.


okay well my boyfriend and i just like started dating or whtever.And like when he asked me out and everything i really really liked him.. well after like a couple of days i kinda had a weird feeling and like i didnt really like him anymore.. so i asked a couple of people what they thought about us and like if i should break up with him, cuz like i was ignoring his calls and i really didnt want to talk to him.. well like after a while i was gonna tell him that i just wanted us to be friends.. and so i waited for his call, and waited and waited.. well he never ever called and like i tried calling but no one answered.. well like now i realy do like him i guess i was just scared i would get hurt so i was pushing him away..well i duont know whats wrong, i dont know if hes mad at me and like he hasnt called in like 3 weeks and theres no other way i could talk to him.. so what should i do and is he mad at me... i am soo sooo confused.. please help me i really like him... and i dont want to lose him and he wont answer his phone so i dunno.. thnks soo soo srry for the length.. **hearts** (link)
well, are you sure you like him? because you know the saying "you only want something you cant have" maybe you only think you like him because you tried calling him but he wont call you back. and hes probably hurt that you never called so that might be why he hasnt called. i'd say talk to one of his friends if you can or get one of your friends to talk to him. see whats up with him. and if you cant do that, keep calling because you guys really do need to talk. tell him you're sorry and you just went through a really weird phase and you never meant to hurt him if you did. it also could be true that you were pushing him away, but you never know what might happen unless you're willing to try. hope i helped. and if you need anything just ask. i'd be happy to help.


I`m Havin my birthday party in a week and idk what movies to rent for the party.
(Its a sleepover and I have 8 Friends coming ) We all like comedies/chick flicks such as Mean Girls. Some of my friends are still 13 so please not any R rated movies. We also like some scary movies.
Thankss for the help loveliess``. (link)
well, since some of your friends are 13, try 13 going on 30...or you could ask your friends what movies they would want to watch. hope i helped.


what does pms or pmt stand 4 and what does it mean i will rate 5s to anyone that answers (link)
pms stands for pre-menstral syndrom, its how a girl usually acts before and/or during her period. usually not a very nice way. hope i helped.


(13//f) ok well i have had my period before and yesterday i got it and i was bleeding like a ton. usually when i first get it, i only bleed a little and it is dark brown. but yesterday it was blood and a lot of it! and i ran out of pads so i put a tampon in and when i went to the bathroom an hour later there wsas blood all over my pantilyner ( i always wear them when i wear a tompon) so i took the tampon out and i didnt even have to like pull! it was sooo full of blood! is this normal? i know that it could have been my heavy day but normally they arent that bloody! and now it is just as bloody as yesterday!...is this normal??

please help ASAP!!!!!!!!!!

sorry, it was long...

thanks!! (link)
yeah thats totally normal. you're body is still changing and growing which is making it heavier...for the time being at least. i suggest using the heaviest kinds of past...i mean i have it so when i wear overnights, i have to change it like 4-5 hours later, which gets pretty annoying. it sucks i know. there are pads that are heavier than overnights too. hope i helped and good luck.

ps-when i first got my period it was light like yours was then it got heavier and it stayed for a month until i went to the doctor, i thought i would never stop bleeding and bleed to death or something. dont worry you're not going to bleed to death either lol.


hey! I love to read! Im a sophmore, female! I Love a great book! the kinds that you cannot put down! I (link)
Blue is for Nighmares by Laurie Faria Stolarz is a really good book, i couldnt put it down, and there are 3 books after that in a series so if you like the first one then you should read the others. Speak by Laurie Halse Anderson is good, Cut by Patricia McCormick is also good, they're all easy read too. Rapsody by Elizabeth Haydon is good too, but thats more fantasy. and thats also a series. if you want any more suggestions, feel free to ask. hope i helped.


Hey I cant create my own screename on aim.. it just wont let me. I was wondering if anyone would help me out and create one for me. I would tell you what name to use and everything!!! Pllllzz help!! Give me your sn and ill im you!! I rate high by the way!
*Emily (link)
sure, blinkbabe2469



ok well its been like to weeks sense ive had ex an we didnt use a condum an im afraid that im pregnnet im not going to get a pregnecie test because i have reasons why, but i know the syptoms but , could you not know your pregnat for like 3 weeks i mean when i go to the bath room i have white stuff on my underware an idk my friend told me thats because im pregnat an idk i just need help .. i know i shouldnt have had sex im a really goodi girl so dont judge my parents are into polotics , an if they found out that i was they would shio me off to bording school or somthing even worse so please help me?? (link)
the white stuff doesnt mean you're pregnent. it could happen even when you're not. and it happens to most girls. you should wate until you're next period to see if you get it or not. and if you dont, then you might want to take a test. take one at a friends house if you dont want to do it at home, if you have to take one that is. hope i helped. and good luck.


Hey! Please don't answer saying OMG YOU'RE ANEROXIA or how ever that is spelled.

I'm 15 5'4 female about 135 pounds. I'm not really fat but i'm not skinny, but i use to eat way to much. Like i was bored, so i grabbed a cookie. Lately i've stopped eating and only eat when im hungry. Unfortunaly, i took this to the extreme by accident. I realized today i hadn't eaten (it's 6pm) all day and i should eat, so i had cheese and crackers and now im really full. I honestly hadn't realized how hungry i was. im afraid my body is going to go into starvation mode if i only eat once a day and make me fatter/ is that true? or is eating light once or twice enough to keep it satisfied and use the calories i eat?! (link)
well, if you dont eat in the morning, you're body will go into starvation mode and it will store fat, which isnt what you want. so eat something light in the morning. like an apple. and the same thing happens with me, if you dont eat before a certain time, then you wont be very hungry. i agree, you should cut back, just not that much. talk to your doctor to see what kinds of foods you should eat. they usually day to eat 3 meals a day, and honestly, i dont. i eat 2, but now i;m trying to eat something in the morning so i usually dont eat lunch. also try walking to burn off some calories. hope i helped.


this isnt really sex but i didnt know what to put it under. anyways i trimed down there and shaved near where the blood comes out (i forget what its called) and now where i shaved has little red bumps. is this bad and how do i get rid of them? (link)
though you didnt use a razor, its still kind of like razor burn. and no you're not going to die, dont listen to anyone who says that. its not really bad, just really annoying. it will go away in a few days...not really sure of a way to get rid of them, sorry. hope i helped any.


My boyfriend fingered me a couple days ago and now, 5 days after my period has ended I am bleeding very slightly (I can only notice when I wipe) and when I pee it stings a little. What does this mean? (link)
it just means you werent used to it yet. you're still tight. and its normal. it usually happens your first few times. it will stop dont worry. hope i helped.


My boyfriend and I have this game I guess you could call it. We ask eachother questions to get to know eachother better, or just to know random facts about the other person. Most of the questions are like "What attracts you to me most?" and "What do you like most about my personality?" Stuff like that. My question is does anybody have any questions I can ask him? I am completely out of questions! Thank you! =] (link)
ask him his favorites...like music...stuff like that. you could also ask him what his perfect day or date would be like, if he could meet anyone(dead or alive) who would it be, whats he afraid of, hope i helped any. if you like these ideas and you want more, just leave one in my inbox and i'd be happy to help.


hey guys... im looking for a good deoderant that will accualy work for me.. like ive tried secret platinum protection but it doesnt stop me sweating.. theres like no odor but i just sweat and id like to get a new one before school starts... well pleaase help and thank you! (link)
i've got the same problem and arid extra helps me, so i might help you too.


Ok the subject sounds a little harsh for what I am about to say. My brother watches porn. I mean alot of porn. Its not really occasional, it's routinely. Sometimes I feel bad because, I get a little curious and I watch a video, but I mean now sometimes I feel sick. I regret ever watching the video because all I can think of is its contents. Thats not all I have seen, I have seen pictures and things on TV. I wish I had never seen any of it, because now my mind wanders to places I don't want it to wander. Does anybody else have this problem? Is there anyway for me to restore my "innocence"? (link)
try keeping yourself buisy. you know if you like reading then do that. and try no to be around your brother when hes watching that kinda stuff. hang out with friends, maybe they'll get your mind off of it. hope i helped. and good luck.


I want to wait until I am married to have sex. My friend and I were talking and this is what she said to me, "My mom told me she didn't want me to wait until marriage to have sex, because she wanted me to know what to do." I was thinking about it and I don't know anymore. I mean I don't want to go and read things on what to do/watch porn and stuff. I am not that kind of girl. Plus, all my friends say they just want to wait until after they turn 16. I mean its not part of my religion. Its part of what I think is right. I mean I at least want to wait until marriage is on option... I don't know.

Should I wait? (link)
well, you should do what you think is right. i mean if you find the right guy and you think you're ready then go for it. just make sure you're ready. most girls who arent ready feel like they've been raped after their first time. and dont let your friends tell you what to do. hope i helped.


heyy schools gonna start up again soon and last year i had the hardest time getting to school ontime. Does anyone have a good routine that i could go by to get to school and look nice... on time?? lol thanks!! i rate 5's!! (link)
well, about a week or 2 before school starts, try getting up early at different times to see how long you'll need to get up and be ready before you have to get to school. it will also get your body used to waking up earlier. and also, if you dont want to wake up too early, take a shower at night so you can sleep a little later in the morning. hope i helped.


can you masturbate during your period... && this is my first period ever in my whole life...there isnt alot of blood is that normal? what is it like when wou first get it? pleaseeeee hellppp (link)
no, there usually isnt a lot of blood on your first one so thats totally normal. i dont know about the masturbating thing though. and when your first get it, it feels like you're peeing or something. i know, not very pleasant. you get used to it after a while. hope i helped any.


I don't have much time in my crazy schedule and my boyfriend and have gotten really close lately and hang out all the time... my friends are getting annoyed and are saying that i don't spend enough time with them. i try really hard to do things with them, but it seems that i can never fit everyone in.. i want to stay close to my boyfriend but i don't want to lose my friends either.. comment please! (link)
well, talk to them about it. just tell them how you feel and that you dont want to lose them but you dont have a lot of time on your hands to please everyone. and if they dont understand after that, then they're not real friends. i was in the same situation and i found out that a lot of my friends werent real. i hope you're friends are. good luck.


well this kid likes me and i only like him as a friend and he asks me out all the time..n i tell him i just want to b friends, he doesn't get the hint that there wont b anything more between us..what should i tell him that maybe he'll understand a lil better?? (link)
just remember to be nice about it. tell him you're sorry but you dont feel the same way he does. and thought its not the best way, i find it easier to talk to people online. tell him you still want to be friends but you just dont feel the same way. hope i helped. good luck.




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