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Question Posted Friday August 12 2005, 11:57 am

well this kid likes me and i only like him as a friend and he asks me out all the time..n i tell him i just want to b friends, he doesn't get the hint that there wont b anything more between us..what should i tell him that maybe he'll understand a lil better??

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baily_is_for_loverss answered Friday August 12 2005, 3:19 pm:
You really just need to have a talk with him and be as completely honest as possible. Tell him that you value your friendship and dont want to risk it for anything, and that theres so many other girls that could make him happy, or just start giving him subtle hins, like asking him about what you think about you and "__" (insert your crush's name)together and stuff..idk i hope this makes sense lol

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carebear answered Friday August 12 2005, 2:37 pm:
hey i had the same prob and iwould hate it cause it would always be like that 1 video "make her feel good" like he wouldnt let me be with no guys and i just went up to him and i told him if you dont stop being the way you are forget about our friendship and he WILL stop cause he rather be with you than not be around you
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Brunette27 answered Friday August 12 2005, 1:54 pm:
Tell him that you are just not interested and the fact that he keeps asking you out isn't going to make you like him anymore. Just tell him nicely that if he keeps bothering you like that it will make you like him even less! :)

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ThugGirl041790 answered Friday August 12 2005, 1:50 pm:
Well just tellin him over and over again even tho it might ba annoyin.. he'll eventually get the hint.. &hearts; Dez

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xForeverxForgottenx answered Friday August 12 2005, 1:22 pm:
just remember to be nice about it. tell him you're sorry but you dont feel the same way he does. and thought its not the best way, i find it easier to talk to people online. tell him you still want to be friends but you just dont feel the same way. hope i helped. good luck.

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sunnyville answered Friday August 12 2005, 1:14 pm:
What you should tell this boy that you don't have feelings for him and that others girls who would want to go out with him. Try to hook him up wtih another girl who shares his same interests and that's not bad looking for him.Get help from a family member or a friend of yours.Tell him you don't want to lose the friendship and you're better off being friends and that going out with a friend is weird and to just stop insisting.One last thing if he respects you he'll respect your decision also mention that to him.

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xomegaroni answered Friday August 12 2005, 1:08 pm:
try to keep doing it nicely. tell him that he's a great friend, but you don't wanna go out with him, because you don't want to ruin the friendship. eventually if he doesn't listen you'll have to tell him off, but start with that.

good luck!

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Teza answered Friday August 12 2005, 12:36 pm:
Oh god.. I know how that is. But you just tell him to leave you alone if he cant accept the fact that you just want to be friends! Ignore him if he keeps asking you. He will get the point. I mean the nicer you are telling him no he wont accept that so make sure you mean it! He will get the point. Good luck babe!

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