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im 13 years old im 4'10 and i have a nice body.Some people dont like my advice b-cause im honest and i go out straight and they cant handle the truth.I have been mvp for all the sports in my school. so imagine my body ha ha ha ha. IM also very out going and i get along with everybody. Soo go ahead ask me a question but only if you could deal with the truth!!
E-mail: luckygreen10@yahoo.com
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Location: fresno ca
Age: 13
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i know there has been a lot of questions like this so... i hope i'm not getting on your nerves! okay my birthday is in october and i'm turning 14, i have no idea what to do for my party b/c i can't have everyone over to my house or anything and what would we do anyway? i was thinking maybe w/all girls head to a spa or something, but i have a TON of guy friends. so please help! GOOD answers get 5's i'll report you if i have to! (link)
i think that you should have a pool party or just get your TRUE friends over and do a bbq


i have this thing called hyperhydrosis, which is when you have really really really sweaty hands and sweaty feet ALL THE TIME, and even if you wipe them off on something, they don't get dry, they just stay wet. my boyfriend keeps asking me if we want to hold hands, and i keep making up excuses and stuff because it's really embarassing that i have sweaty hands, but i don't want to keep having to make up excuses every time, because he asks a lot, and he's already starting to get really suspicious and everything. please help me think of a good excuse that i can use everytime, or tell me if you think i should just tell him about it. if you think i should just tell him about it, then tell me how i should say it.
i know this might seem like a stupid question, but please help, and i'll rate high for good answers!!! (link)
i think that you should just tell him and if your love is really strong nothing will go wrong i have a very similiar prob but i sweat 4rm my arm pits instead


I feel so ugly.. no matter what I do, I'm always comparing myself to girls that are prettier than me, and putting myself down... I always feel like I'm not worth anything because I feel ugly.. What can I do to raise my self-esteem or make myself prettier??? (link)
all you have to know is that you have something special that some people want and you shoul know that every1 is pretty and special in their own special way:)


well this kid likes me and i only like him as a friend and he asks me out all the time..n i tell him i just want to b friends, he doesn't get the hint that there wont b anything more between us..what should i tell him that maybe he'll understand a lil better?? (link)
hey i had the same prob and iwould hate it cause it would always be like that 1 video "make her feel good" like he wouldnt let me be with no guys and i just went up to him and i told him if you dont stop being the way you are forget about our friendship and he WILL stop cause he rather be with you than not be around you
hope i helped :)


I got sunburn on my cheeks about a week ago and now it's starting to peel. The problem is It's coming off in tiny peices so when I try to get it odd I pull the little hairs on my cheek...is there anyway to get rid of the dead skin without purchasing anything. (I have no loofah.) Exfoliating tips??

Thanx I'l rate appropriately! (link)
boby oil works fine and so do vaseline


whats the difference between going out with someone and hooking up with someone? (link)
when you hok up with some1 you just kiss them and when you go out with some1 you go stedy


okay my moms birhtday is here today and we are gonna go to the store to get her somthing such as wal_mart what should I get her for her birthday
please answer this quesion i will rate fives for good answers (link)
a body spray woul be nice try MIDNIGHT LIGHT or SUN-KISSED PLUMERIA (BODY BUTTER) they smell great


Me and my best friend kelli used to really like this kid named brian...after we both had our share of asking him out he turned both of us down on the account of wanting to be single....now he barely ever talks to us and we really miss him...we went to friendly's all 3 of us together...and a winter carnival but i miss him a lot and so does she...we used to be a three sum but he kind of left...i love him as a friend and i want to earn him back for the both of us...please help me hes a really good friend...i love him like a brother

Rachel (link)
tell him that you will respect his desicion and tell him what you wrote in this question


my friends keep trying to set me up with all these different guys all the time... but hello IM TAKEN!! i tell them that everytime but they wont listen to me. They say that it doesn't count because he lives so far away and i never see him. And recently me and my bf are going thru a hard time in our relationship and according to my friends going out with other guys is supposed to make me "feel better?" um ok what's up with that? They aren't even acting like friends, they should be supporting me and telling me everything is guna be ok but instead they are already assuming that we're guna break up. And i hate it when they tell all these guys that im single... IM NOT!!! how do i get thru to them?? (link)
i dont think that those are true friends that you have tell them that you dont care if he lives far away you love him and thats all that matters i dont think that being w/other guys is supposed to make you feel better its just goona make you feel worste b-cause you knowing that you have a bf and that he loves you you still went and got at another guy now imagine if your bf finds out :(


i hate myself i really do. when i look at myself i just want to end my life. i feel so ugly. and i have no friends. i never had a bf and no one ever liked me before. But that is not why i am crying. i stop caring about my uglyness. i was in my bestfriends house and she was talking to her mother about me. I guess they thought i wouldnt hear it. Her mother goes i know u feel sorry for her and all but now that you made new friends its time to let this one go. my friend goes yeah eww gosh i hate her. She smells bad and wow shes very ugly. my new friends dont like her and i just dont know how to leave her with out sounding me! wow i started to cry. that hurt so bad. the only perosn i loved and cared about hates me and never liked. she just used me!!

what do i do? how can i change for her? i need to be her friend (link)
you should know that you are not ugly every body has something in them that makes them beautiful is it either in the inside or on the outside and im sure you have it on the inside be happy that you live so many parents their kids were alive right now so that you could be with that - aditude you should not care about any boys you will find one that will love you for who you are and how you look

hope i helped :)


I need some help do you think that I guy should like you for who you are or what you look like (link)
who you are duh


ok so do bra sizes go in order from big to small or small to big. so i mean is like a the smallest and d the biggest? or the other way around. (link)
yes a is the smallest and d is the biggest


this is for my bff, im trying to help him through this...14/m. well my gf & i have been together for almost 6 months. we rarely see each other because we are so busy & when we do, she ignores me or hangs out with everyone but me even if its my party. she doesnt hug me a whole lot either & we've never kissed. i was away from her & during that time i saw & hung out with my gal pal that i hadnt seen in about a year. she likes me a lot & she does more things than my gf does (she hugs me, thats it!) & gives me attention & really cares about me so i got to like her as more than a friend now. i was planning on breaking up with my gf but after i saw her again yesterday, i fell in love with her all over again. i had loved this girl for several years & this was my chance but then she doesnt treat me right & there are other girls out there who really do care about me. what should i do? my gf i have loved for a long time & the girl that likes me gave me a heart that can be easily broken.

*info on the ladies: the gf is a bit of a tease & needs the attitude adjustment thats long over-due but she can be ok at times.
the other girl is a lot like a gf the guy had that ended up being a huge mistake...shes a bit older, more experienced & she knows he's vunerable. she also likes almost every guy i can think of.
*parents view: mom used to be FOR the breaking up but since the other girl showed up (which she doesnt want him to get involved with) she wants them to stay together.
dad doesnt want him to do anything until school starts so no one knows why he broke up with his gf.
*the bffs view: the other girl isnt my favorite (i agree with the parents) & i dont want to be responsible for the break up...i got them together & i didnt know it would end up like this. the gf was my friend but now not only does he treat him like crap but shes mean to me too.

*PLEASE, ANYTHING WILL HELP! WE REALLY NEED YOU!* (link)
not in a mean way but i dont think that girl likes him or you whoever it is good luck


I am 5'1 and 140 lbs. I am really wanting to loose at least 15 lbs. before school starts back because I feel that I am a lil chubby..if anyone knows of any kind of excercises or tips so make this much easier or of a quick weight loss thing that has worked for you..let me know, please?! (link)
south beach diet works and you could just go to the gym or just do lots of sports like track biking etc. what ever you do dont starve your self that is one of the stupedest ways to lose weight.


can you swim when you are on your period? (link)
of course you can just make sure you use a tampon rate plez


wot dus poping ur cherry mean? and wot is it? (link)
to have somebody f*** you thats what it means


Does your child have to be a certain age to let them stay home alone for about 2-3 days? Just wondering because me and my husband's 25th year anniversary is comming up and I want to get out of town for a few days just the two of us. I was wondering if it is legal for me to allow my 14 year old to stay home alone for a few nights. (link)
the earlist age i think is acceptapable is at age10 just make sure you leave emergancy #s and all the other things they need to know.


do you kno the song concrete angel? ya well that is me! i am sick of getting thrown around please help me!! i need all the help i can possibly get. am i going to die? i hope not! please this is all that i ask you just give me advice i need it so badly!!i mean i have gotting stiches 7 times cause of my mom and dad! please help! (link)
you should tell somebody cuz if you let them keep on doing it the next place you will be is in the cematary sorry if i scare but its nothing but the truth.


Well my boyfriend wants to have sex with me...but im like i dont know how to explain it but i dont like showing my lower part of my body and no matter what i try to do it still kinda uhm smells a little bit..i shower 2 times a day and it still doesnt help...i dont want to ask my mom either because that's jsut too embarrassing and im aafriad he might hate me after he does it and sees it and you know....

-stuckNconfused (link)
you could always go to a doctor and ask them about it and if you are really embarresed just make sure dont go back to that clinic


well im 14 and my parents got divorced a few years ago and my dad married this person i hate! she is seriously like the wicked step mother and it blows. She always talks bad about my mom too and my mom is the sweetest person in the world. How can i tell her to shut the hell up without getting grounded forever. help! P.S. sorry its so long! (link)
tell heryou dont apreciate her talking like that about you mother that your dad might not like her anymore but you do so to try to not talk about her at least will you are around.rate plez




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