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this is for my bff, im trying to help him through this...14/m. well my gf & i have been together for almost 6 months. we rarely see each other because we are so busy & when we do, she ignores me or hangs out with everyone but me even if its my party. she doesnt hug me a whole lot either & we've never kissed. i was away from her & during that time i saw & hung out with my gal pal that i hadnt seen in about a year. she likes me a lot & she does more things than my gf does (she hugs me, thats it!) & gives me attention & really cares about me so i got to like her as more than a friend now. i was planning on breaking up with my gf but after i saw her again yesterday, i fell in love with her all over again. i had loved this girl for several years & this was my chance but then she doesnt treat me right & there are other girls out there who really do care about me. what should i do? my gf i have loved for a long time & the girl that likes me gave me a heart that can be easily broken.
*info on the ladies: the gf is a bit of a tease & needs the attitude adjustment thats long over-due but she can be ok at times.
the other girl is a lot like a gf the guy had that ended up being a huge mistake...shes a bit older, more experienced & she knows he's vunerable. she also likes almost every guy i can think of.
*parents view: mom used to be FOR the breaking up but since the other girl showed up (which she doesnt want him to get involved with) she wants them to stay together.
dad doesnt want him to do anything until school starts so no one knows why he broke up with his gf.
*the bffs view: the other girl isnt my favorite (i agree with the parents) & i dont want to be responsible for the break up...i got them together & i didnt know it would end up like this. the gf was my friend but now not only does he treat him like crap but shes mean to me too.
*PLEASE, ANYTHING WILL HELP! WE REALLY NEED YOU!*
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As they say plenty of fish in the sea. I say dump her and go to the other girl. Maybe she'll show you the respect you deserve. Good luck! Hope I helped!
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not in a mean way but i dont think that girl likes him or you whoever it is good luck
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im kinda confused but ill try anyway. to me it sounds like you like both of them but your not sure which one to choose. it also sounds like the 'gal pal' as you say, acts like a way better girlfriend. and your own girlfriend right now doesn't really even hug you. so i would say break up with your girlfriend and try to hook up with that girl. try something new and if it doesn't work out you could always break up with her because there are A LOT more girls out there. but..it is up to you. so try to make the best decision and good luck!
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Okay, well, if the 2nd girl likes every other guy, she's no good. The 1st girl (girlfriend) is also no good. He should get out of both "realtionships" and cool down for a while. Then, since other girls would go out with him, he should try that. He may have 'loved" his girlfriend for a long time, but the relationship is going no where, so there is no point. Also, the other girl seems like she's just there to be there, and wouldn't get into it all. Also, she is a friend, and things could go "sour" if they break up. He needs to not be involved in anything for a while. Hope it all works out.
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Nobody in your life seems to think to highly of this other friend. That doesn't put her out of the running if you really, really care for her but should be a red flag if shes iffy.
Best bet if you really like your current girlfriend is to give her one more try. You might even tell her that you actually considered a break up because of all the things you listed. Even though that might really hack her off big time. Tell her you care enough about her that you really want to work on the problems and see if she doesn't change. You somehow have to get it across to her that you are very serious and that her lack of attention towards you is going to be a relationship breaker. If after all that she doesn't start treating you right...find someone who will. Good luck :)
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he needs to talk to the girl, or break up with her. she obviously doesn't like him.
sorry to be blunt, but it's true. =/ sorry I'm not much help.
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okay well your only 14 so you really shouldnt be dateing one person for a long time....you ahve to get out there and she what other types of gurls there are.....from what i have read she probly doesnt like you as much as you like her....so if i were you i would break up wiht this gurl and see what else there is......
truth hurts....
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well i*m kinda confused on who wrote the story but neway i really think he or you should break up with his gf. I understand what you mean though how you fall back inlove when you see her, i*m that way with a lot of guys. I think you should go with the other girl though because the gf.. well i just don*t like her. It will be very easy for him to get over her if he just stays away from her for a while. She doesn*t treat him rite and this friend will prolly be there for a long time, much longer than this other girl. Breaking up is always hard but i think that you/him can do it!! hope i helped and sry i like switched wordings between you//him once again i didn*t no who i was talking bout!! xoxo, chelsea
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