I feel so ugly.. no matter what I do, I'm always comparing myself to girls that are prettier than me, and putting myself down... I always feel like I'm not worth anything because I feel ugly.. What can I do to raise my self-esteem or make myself prettier???
hockeybob3166 answered Thursday August 18 2005, 3:41 am: well you should not say that al lthe time because im a guy and most guys will think thats a turn off so just think you are pretty i bet you are just feel good about your self dont let me controle you [ hockeybob3166's advice column | Ask hockeybob3166 A Question ]
ChOcOLoLo answered Tuesday August 16 2005, 5:44 pm: Hey there! First of all, stop looking at yourself in the mirror and telling yourself that you are ugly because you are NOT. Also, don't EVER compare yourself to other girls because everyone is different, and by that way, you're underestimating yourself for how beautiful you really are.=D Right now in society, a mesage is enforced that if you are thin, you'll be more respected in the world, but this is completely untrue. You have to love yourself for who you are, and it's way better to be healthy than down-right anorexic. Never, ever compare yourself to other people because you'll never find the perfect match for everyone is different. [ ChOcOLoLo's advice column | Ask ChOcOLoLo A Question ]
carebear answered Tuesday August 16 2005, 1:07 pm: all you have to know is that you have something special that some people want and you shoul know that every1 is pretty and special in their own special way:) [ carebear's advice column | Ask carebear A Question ]
tellmemore381 answered Monday August 15 2005, 5:53 pm: Don't worry about the other girls, just try and make youself look nice. You don't have to be extremely bauetiful to be pretty. Having a great personality make you more attractive even if you don't think so. Try finding what clothes and makeup look best on you, and what doesn't. Make sure you are comfortable though. Try finding something that you're really good at to boost your self-etsteem. Everyone one is beautiful in some way! hope that helped a little! <3 [ tellmemore381's advice column | Ask tellmemore381 A Question ]
skatergirl15 answered Monday August 15 2005, 3:31 pm: Hey i Always feel that way. Im always putting myself down always conparing myself to others. I always feel like Im worth nothing and that im the uglest person on this earth and no matter how much make up i wear no matter what i do ill never fell good enough or pretty no matter how many people tell me.The only thing that I can tell you is you have to stop conparing and just say to yourself that everyones pretty in there own way and till hell with anyone who may make you feel that way. Just stop thinking less of your self and be proud of your self. I know it may sound stupid but trust me Im going through the same thing and as soon as you relise that you pretty things will get better you will start getting more self-esteem. But it might take some time and it will all work out for the best.Hoped I helped.
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VainTaraLynn answered Monday August 15 2005, 2:39 pm: Aw.. Whenever I feel like Im ugly or something, I go out and by a brand new hawt outfit to wear, then I go to the mall and walk around in it like I own the place, and am really confident about myself. Just tell yourself that your beautiful no matter what, and truy not comparing yourself to other girls. =) [ VainTaraLynn's advice column | Ask VainTaraLynn A Question ]
emster812 answered Monday August 15 2005, 1:10 pm: We are all unique, equal, and special in diff ways. Hey, I know it sounds corny but it is the truth...
Try wearing a new style of clothes. Try going out for a sprts team. Find something you are really good at and stick with it. Remember we all have our downsides- even the girls you are comparing yourself to. They might be putting themselves down just the way you are.
Just remember you are the best at beign you!
Hope I helped some sorry so short! :)
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kaylasays answered Monday August 15 2005, 1:02 pm: Hey,
Everyone feels that way at one point or another. There's times in my life when i feel beautiful, and then there are times when i feel like the ugliest person alive. There isnt really much you can do about it. Just try not to compare yourself to other people. Try and think about the positive points of your image. Dont compare yourself to the prettier girls, try and think about how much prettier you are than some of the less fortunate girls. Hopefully that will make you feel a little bit better. Dont be so down on yourself. im sure you look just fine!
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kayla [ kaylasays's advice column | Ask kaylasays A Question ]
PrettyLady16 answered Monday August 15 2005, 1:01 pm: Look at the girls that you find so beautiful and try to see what they do to make themselves better, like haircuts manicures and stuff like that then try it on yourself so you will feel more like them. Give yourself pep talks and find what you like about yourself positive self talk is really important just try not to be so har on yourself ans love who you are try for a day ro be totally positive about yourself and not look at the other girls kay? well i hope you feel better and i helped. Kisses Devyn [ PrettyLady16's advice column | Ask PrettyLady16 A Question ]
t0xicParadiSe answered Monday August 15 2005, 12:56 pm: i used to be like that too but then i got over it and you should do the same
your just stressing your self out by doing this
you might not know this but those girls that you think are prettier then you might be doing the same thing you do - compare them selves to other girls, every one does that
but thats not going to get you to feel better
im sure you are a very pretty girl every one is beautiful in the inside and out thats because every one is different in their own special way and they are unique
take a piece of paper and a pen and list all the good qualities you have about you im sure there are so many of them
and sweety stop comparing yourself to other girls ever one is beautiful in their own way including you
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