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CRYING..
i hate myself i really do. when i look at myself i just want to end my life. i feel so ugly. and i have no friends. i never had a bf and no one ever liked me before. But that is not why i am crying. i stop caring about my uglyness. i was in my bestfriends house and she was talking to her mother about me. I guess they thought i wouldnt hear it. Her mother goes i know u feel sorry for her and all but now that you made new friends its time to let this one go. my friend goes yeah eww gosh i hate her. She smells bad and wow shes very ugly. my new friends dont like her and i just dont know how to leave her with out sounding me! wow i started to cry. that hurt so bad. the only perosn i loved and cared about hates me and never liked. she just used me!!
what do i do? how can i change for her? i need to be her friend
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Just tell her you heard her talknig to her mom about you and that you know that she doesn't want to be friends with you anymore. Also tell her that you don't want to be enemies and not talk, but you can say hi to each other and still be friends, but not best friends.Hope i helped.
Thanks,
Jenna
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♥ Im so sorry. Nobody deserves to be treated like this. Your friend should like you for who you are & not what you look like. You sound like a sweet girl & your friend is crazy not to like you. Try to make new friends. Dont chnage yourself. Im sure new people will come along & will like you for who you are. As far as boys. He will come along I promiss. If you ever need to talk you can IM me at Xhc0 Barbi3x Good luck sweetie. xoxo <3 Lauren
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wow yeah your better off without her! shes a bitch and your better than that. Make new friends! do your makeup or hair in a diff style then now to get people to notice you! Show her you dont NEED her!
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NO ... NOOOOO you dont need to be her friend. Don't ever let someone make you feel inferior. She must have a lot of her own insecurites. If you become "friends" with her again, she'll only hurt you. Even if shes nice to your face she may say things about you behind your back.. (not because its true.. but because shes a bitch). Move on.. seriously you dont need her theres sooo many other people out there who will be your friend.
See? You're crying. You know you DONT want to be her friend anymore, so find people who care and wont hurt you. You're beautiful..I mean I know i havent seen what you look like but you seem like you care. Dont ever let someone tell you differently.
You have new friends who dont like her? Well thats good then. They dont like her for a reason. Listen to them and hang out with them. I'm sure they're 34936493264321694619416 times better then her.
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i understand how you feel about getting betrayed because personally i got betrayed by three friends but always remember that there is no such thing as a best friend and as i was going to answer your question about what should you do is to talk to a family member that could take all this stressness out of you or get therapy and as you were saying your ugly no your not the reason why i said that is because as long as you have a nice personality thats all it counts for real and listen as far as i'm concern what that girlfriend of your's don't even be friends with her i mean she doesn't deserve to have you as a friend seriously and you know how she express yourself towards you i mean no offense but she really i mean really doesn't like and please take my advice because anyone will tell you that from the legendary warrior
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NO NO NO!!!! dont change for ANYONE!! you do NOT need to be this chicks friend. and your only ugly if you think of yourself as ugly.forget about that girl and find someone else to hang out with because that girl is just plain MEAN!!dont ever think about her agian!! hope i helped XoXo
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you should know that you are not ugly every body has something in them that makes them beautiful is it either in the inside or on the outside and im sure you have it on the inside be happy that you live so many parents their kids were alive right now so that you could be with that - aditude you should not care about any boys you will find one that will love you for who you are and how you look
hope i helped :)
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Wow. First of all, I'm so sorry that that happened to you! That is terrible & no one should be treated like this.
I don't think you need to be her friend. Don't change who you are for someone like that. Always be yourself - no matter what. The great thing about being yourself is that you know people like you for who you really are. You might not have that many friends, but it's better to have a few true friends than a bunch of fake friends.
I hope everything works out for you & again, I'm really sorry. If you ever want to talk - just leave me your screen name or e-mail in the feedback comment and I will IM you or email you. Good luck with everything hun!
x33 ;; Always,
ADViCEx4xY0U =]
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That isn't your bestfriend, that is some heartless bitch who is masquerading as your "best friend".
Do NOT change for this girl, she isn't worth it. You shouldn't have to change for anyone, ANYONE. Tell her you heard everything and that if she feels that way, you don't need a heartless friend like her. And let her know your emotions on it, let her feel what you felt.
Try and find better friends, be yourself and be confident in who you are. Don't let others get you down and stick with any friends you may have now, because a true friend, will be with you until the very end.
I hope this helps and you feel better about yourself and get rid of that "best friend" you have now..
-Ryan
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If she never really cared for you, you dont deserve her. When school starts join some clubs that interest you and make new, and better friends. If you need someone to talk to you can e-mail me at Eviloompa426@yahoo.com or IM me at Ox0StJimmy0xO
Hope i helped,
Jessy
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aww girl no you dont need to be her friend. she is not worth beeing friends with. if she was your friend she would care about what you look like. shes a butthead. if you wanna make some friend go to school clubs, join sprts, so to clubs outside of school. and if you wanna make your self feel pretty take showers daily, try something new with your hair, wax ur eyebrows, and try a new fashion sence. im sorry youre going through this ! keep your head high girl. ♥
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Number one: A true friend stays with you until the end.
This girl was obvousily never your real friend. To me this girl sounds like a heartless bitch with
no common respect for people. But i don't blame her. I can see where she gets it. Like mother like daughter.
I wouldn't be mad at the girl only because she wasn't taught any better then that. But still that is no excuse
to what she has said. Although she never said those horrible things to your face it probably hurts more
that she said them behind your back. This not only shows she's scared of being truthful , it shows she's a two faced person.
I say this is not a bad thing that has happened, its pretty much the BEST thing that could have happened to you.
Would you have rather spent the next year or so with a person that doesn't like you deep down inside or should you be happy
that you truely know her feelings and that you can move on with your life. You are lucky to know the truth about this girl and her mother.
I say get away from them as far as possible. Don't waste your time with low life people. How dare they say you are ugly. Who are
they to judge you? I'll tell you who! NOBODY! Now i understand why you feel the need to end your life. You were around negative people
that brought your energy down. You need to slap your self in the face and give your self a reality check! Look in the mirror
and say to your self over and over again. I am a better person then she is. I am beautiful in my own way. I love myself more then anything
else. I respect my self and i shall not let anybody bring me down! I'm sure if you keep those lines in your head you will understand just how truely beautiful
you really are! The next thing you need to do is find people that will love you for you. People that will respect you, and people that
will look at you and see your beauty. Once you find those people you will know how lucky you truely are. And remember everything happenes for a reason.
♥ maria ♥
EDIT FEEDBACK: Sweetheart i'm so glad i could help. I really appreciate all the compliments you gave me. But i want you to understand i wasn't trying to fish for compliments and that i do care. If i didn't i wouldn't be on this site. I just hope you understood everything i had said and i hope you can start to love yourself. You must love yourself for others to love you.
If you ever need anything else just leave a comment in my inbox. I'll be more then happy to help!
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you dont NEED to be her friend. you need to believe in yourself. the most attractive thing about someone is their smile. my theory is that if you look confident you can pull off anything, even if you have know clue what you're doing. i think you need to let her know how you feel, and if she still feels the same way about you, then you need to let her go. you can find better friends than her. juss believe in yourself.
good luck!
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You shouldn't have to change for your "friends". Maybe you should talk to her and let her know you heard it and that it hurt your feelings. If she shows no sympathy, you might as well get rid of her now.
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