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Friends but more
Hey (f/15), i've dated the same boy for the past 2 years. It's been on and off though. He kept breaking up with me and i kept letting him back, thinking he'd change. our last break up was at the begining of summer and we havent talked since. He called me the other night and we talked for 3 hours. We've never talked like that before, we actually talked about things that matter, and now he is calling me every night. We talk about why our relationships never worked in the past, and how he was an awful boyfriend to me, but now he tells me that that he wants a girlfriend like me. My question is I might be feeling somthing for him again. Should i just keep it quite or should i tell him since we are friends now?
-Confused Friends
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Dump Him!!!!! You are still young and there are so many better guys out there. Even if he did change (which im doubting b/c guys rarly ever change) he put you through so much. You deserve better, so dont ever think you should settle for less. Hope I helped....feel free to visit my column if you have any other ?'s.
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I think it's always important that you are honest and upfront about your feelings.That way you avoid any hurt feelings,or confusion,or stuff like that!But since you've had a rocky relationship with this guy,proceed with caution.Don't just jump to take him back right away.Let him know your concerns,and that you aren't going to go thru this again if he's only gonna hurt you!Let him know what you expect him to change about the way he treated you!!!Talk it thru,and work things out.If he's sincere in his statements that he cares about you,he'll take the time to hear you,to talk it thru,and to AT LEAST make an effort to change his negative ways!!Let me know how it goes!! :)
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I think you just have to take things slow.. just because he wants to get back doesn´t mean just have to.. you like him right? so just take your time, go at your own pace. Tell him you too have feelings for him but you want to take things slower this time.
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keep it quite untill he says somthing about it.
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