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- Marylin Manson scares the hell out of me.
- I'm obsessed with my voice and height.
- My fav perfume is Shalimar from Guerlain.
- I HATE shots!... its a fobia.
- I've never broken a bone.
- I used to live in Colombia.
- I'm from Spain.
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Gender: Female
Member Since: July 28, 2004
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whats blue balls? (link)
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Blue balls is when a guy is very horney all this blood goes to his member and his balls hurt. In order for it not to hurt he needs masturbate or have sex .. thats all i know .. i'll try to get my info..
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ok...my boyfriend isnt that great of a kisser. hes not bad, hes just not...great lol. should i just let things move along and see if he gets better at it or like...i dunno? lol, advie please! (link)
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Hey! I used to date this HOTTIE, he was the hottest guy i have ever dated.He was 6'1, dark long hair, blue eyes, he was physically perfect!! but he was such a HORRIBLE kisser!! ooh myy!! he didn't get any better with time so thats a posibility that you may want to consider. I didn't really like him so i broke up with him but my advice is that if you DO like him DON'T.. just tell him how you like to be kiss but NEVER ever tell him that he is a bad kisser! .. good luck!
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I used to go with this guy and we broke up a while back and I still have feelings for him.After we broke up,I started talking to his brother and i like his brother A LOT!He knows i like him because I told him.I like both of them A LOT and I would do anything for both of them.How do I chose which one to be with?HELP!!! (link)
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1st of all do his brother likes you back? If he does i think you should go for it! I mean if it didn't work out with you and your ex, move on. BE CAREFUL because you may creat a dispute between the 2 brothers! if its OK i think you should go out with the dude! *GOOD LUCK!*
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My boyfriend and I are always having problems. I'm thinking that I should just totally cut him for good. I'm sick of breaking up, then him begging for me back and then me actually giving in. I do love him but I think it would be so much better if we just stopped going out and didn't even see eachother. Everyone says he's no good anyway and I'm just trying to be strong about it. Any advice to help me stay strong and not cry over him anymore? (link)
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Hellooo there! you are talking about me and my ex! well neither of us begged to get back together but we would just say -i love you, i'm really sry- and we were on and off a long time. -love is not enough to make a relationship work- that is something i found out 3 days ago. even though i loved him and he loved me, some relationships don't work. There is much more than love involved, Respect, care, timing, work so that the relationship grows, see each other lately, etc.. i -cut him for good- 2 days ago, just keep yourself busy and think that if the 1st 2nd 3rd 4th time didn't work its not going to. -time heal all wounds- i'm trying that (i advice you to try it too- i have kept myslef busy all day (i read a 600 page book today, pathetic uh?) well just do stuff, i PROMISE you this is no the last time you are going to find a boy and fall for him. and if u guys didn't work that means there is another guy out there for you. good luck! msg me if anything! god i'm going through the EXACT same thing.. hope i helped, i wish someone would advice me on that before.. heheh ..
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OK, I really like this guy, a lot like i cant stop thinking about him no matter what people tell me about him, like it doesnt even matter to me, but like, im not sure if he REALLY likes me, hes never said like "i like you" as cheesy as Im sure that would sound, but, hes always wanting to do stuff (btw i just asked another question earlier sorry :-/ ) and like, im okay with it, but how do i tell him that i dont want to take it too far unless were in a relationship? (link)
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1st of all i think that -no matter what people tell me about him, like it doesnt even matter to me- its because you are making believe he is diferent from what he really is. you may think he is great but not EVERYONE can be wrong about him. If after that you are -ok with it- just talk to him and tell him you want to get to know him better, tell him that you are not ready to -take things far- unless is with someone you love or in a relationship. ~good luck!~
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Ive been doing good dealing with my break up with my boyfriend, but lately its bugging the crap out of me cause i still love him. And right now Im having a very bad moment. Im a cutter, but havent cut since january. Right now I feel like i wanna hurt myself and i dont know what to do. i feel like i could kill myself right now. SOMEBODY TELL ME WHAT TO DO!!!! :o( (link)
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Its normal to have feelings for an ex but don't do something drastic! you are right, you are going through a bad moment now but like you said its just a MOMENT. Right now you need to keep yourself busy, now that we are in summer try going out with friends and family or do a list of the things you wan to do this summer and start! ~good luck!~
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if your a girl..how can you tell if your horney? (link)
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If you mean how can a guy tell if a girl is horney, he can't. In guys you can tell because much blood goes to his member and thats when a erection appears. sry if i can't help much, thats all i know. good luck~!
ps: i'll try to get more info on that and add it here, give me some time.
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i cant find any guys that like me so i have a very low self esteem even tho i dont let anybody really see that. how do i find a guy i can cuddle with and talk to and to kiss me and like me for me? any ideas? let me no.
p.s. i am mature for my age so most guys MY age seem imature and idotic. maybe if i could get my self to stop thinking that i could see them better, they still dont see me tho. (link)
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hahahha -most guys MY age seem imature and idotic- I agree with you and most of my girl friends too! girls mature first so its normal to find guys of our age -immature- try dating guys a bit older than you and see if things work out. Older guys are usually total players or romantic freaks so try that ..hahh ... good luck..!
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Hey, i met this guy on the internet, and hes really sweet. I know meeting guys online is not always the safest thing to do, but something in my gut is telling me hes the one. I dont know why, but yeah. Strange. Anywho. When i mention a guy that basically lives with me he gets mad. does that mean he likes me? And he always says that he wishes that he lived where i did which is hawaii. But i dont know if i should tell him that i like him. Should I ? (link)
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Its unsafe the whole internet dating, you don't really know the guy. If you want to get together with him maybe get somme friends to go out with you guys at least in the 1st date. tell him you want to get to know him better. You didn't really give me much info on the other guy and i can't really tell if he likes you or he just worries about you .. good luck! Aloha!
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Ok, I have been with my bf for a year and a half. We both really love eachother, but we think that we both need to date other people eventually because we are too young to make a lifelong commitment right now (I'm 17 he's 19, I was 15 when we got together). So right now we are just kind of waiting it out to see what happens. Then the other day,I was hanging out with my ex-bf (the only other one I've ever had) because we have always stayed really good friends after we broke up. I hadn't seen him in forever, and all of a sudden it just seemed like there was a major attraction. Before I knew it we were sharing an awesome passionate kiss, and then I was crying because I love my bf, and I have never done anything like cheating or lying before. My ex was being so sweet. He just held me and comforted me. By the way he also has a gf. So now I'm just going along like nothing happened. My bf doesn't even know I hung out with the ex, and I don't know what to do. I refuse to tell my bf, but I wonder if I should break up with him, but I don't really want to. To make matters worse, I can't get the kiss out of my head. It was just really good. But since my ex has a gf, there's no hope of us getting together either even if I do break up with the bf. I love my boyfriend so much and the though of losing him ove this only makes me realize that more. So yeah any advice would be great. Thanks.
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DON'T TELL YOUR BF! its going to make matters worst and even though he deserves the truth the only possible outcome is: he is going to end things up! Tell him you both need time to see other people but that you guys are going to try again in 6 months (or whatever) and date again. You ex has another gf and he cheated on her that proves he may cheat on you if you guys get together again. so i would advice you to just be friends with him or maybe you can have a summer crush and date someone for a while.
good luck~!
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i have a crush on this guy thats 1 grade younger than me his name is john (johns going into 7th grade n im going into 8th). and since i was gone for 3 weeks my friend told him i liked him and then the next day at camp he didnt talk to me like he normally did. but when we were playing basketball we were both running for the same ball n i got it n he started laughing.and it was like all day him and his friends were following me around. like when i wold play 4square they would swing on the swings next to the 4 square.but b 4 i left for 3 weeks before his friend left and we went to go sit down and wait to play air hockey and when we had too move up a seat he pulled mine back and i fell on the ground and then the next day we were thorwing chess pieces at eachother. i kno it sounds immature but can u please be helpful and tell me what i should do? you can post it here or you can email me at xcelticsbabee34x@yahoo.com thanx!
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I'm giving you a similar advice i gave someone with the same question. IF YOU LIKE HIM ITS ALRIGHT, thats what matters. you need to remember that we mature first and the guys of our age we find the inmature so imagine a guy a year younger. If its ok with both of you its fine to date him , try to see if things work out. tell him you want to get to know him better.
Ps: I have a close friend that is currently dating this GREAT guy and he is a year younger.
... Good Luck!
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ok here goes...
i like this kid let say his name is steve..and i hooked up with him last year and he asked me out but i got scared because yah i liked him alot..so i made up an excuse and said some1 told me he was a player..and he got real mad and we stopped talkin then this year we started talkin again..and he told my friend that he has liked me since the day he first saw me...and he never stopped liking me...and he is soo sweet to me..but hes an asshole to everyone eles but hes soo hottt...and the other day his friend lets say bob..said to me u kno i like u right..and i didnt kno what to say cuz i love steve..and i only like bob as a friend...and 2 of my friends that kno them have diff opinions
1st friendd...go out with bob hes a good bf i kno that and steve is a jerk (juss keep in mind steve hates her)
2nd friend...steve is wicked hot but an asshole
bob is ugly but nice
then bob told me to chill with steve and see what happens between us...but i dont wanna waste my time if something doesnt happen...but i think i love steve
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If 'steve' is an asshole to everyone else BUT you THATs what matters! You like him right? so date him, see how things work out, cut yourself some slack! He likes you and thats cool so now take things slow. Tell him that you want to get to know him (dating or as friends). good luck!
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My sister is a lesbian, and I am good friends with her girlfriend. When I am introducing the two of them to other people I always find myself saying "this is my sister and her friend."
I know I should say girlfriend, but I never can get it out.
Is it alright if I just say friend to avoid akward moments and let coversations to contiune to flow, or do you think it is affending to my sister and her girlfriend? (link)
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Ask your sister! tell her you feel a bit uncorfortable saying it. maybe you'll get it out later but your feelings are also important! anyways good luck~!
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my ex... i miss him... even tho he was such a big jerk... i need tips on getting over him... any ideas? things to do? ANYTHING. please and thank you. so much. bye all! (link)
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Its normal to have feelings for an ex. -A love is never forgotten unless a bigger love comes along- right? you just need to do stuff, keep yourself busy. spend time with your friends and family .. party! its summer .. do a things of all the things you want to do this summer and start !
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Could u plz give me some pick up lines 4 a good conversation.I mean whenever i speak 2 my bf we like dont know what to speak about.Plz advice.*Will rate if anser.* (link)
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Just talk about things you both like.
*What are your plans for the summer
*Sports & music
*Friends
*what is the thing he likes the most
etc ... insted of asking him just start the conv yourself, talk about you and just include him in, he'll talk .. -good luck~!~
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i have a thing for this kid that works at the cvs near me. i dont know anything about him except his name, which i got off his name tag, and that he has to be at least 18. he flirted with me one time i went in there and then i went back constantly for a couple weeks to try to start some sort of conversation but he was never there. then one day i saw a girl that works there walking to work and i asked her if he still worked there, and she said he did. that night i went to cvs and he didnt flirt at all and beyond that i didn't find him to be particularly friendly. so was he having a bad day or did she tell him that i asked about him and now hes all "eww" and is rejecting me? should i go back and try again? what should i say? im such a dork. but im a cute dork. (link)
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You should go back there and talk to him. If he flirted with you the 1st time maybe the 2nd time he was having a bad day. Don't go there everyday just enough to get his phone or something. tell him you want to get to know him. good luck~!~
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thers this guy that i dated for bout 2 months but we still talked to each other...and everytime he tells me bout him and some girl i get pissed and evey time i tell him and some guy i get pissed...sometimes it pisses me off so much that i wanna cry and 1/2 the time i do...
do i still have feelings for him? (link)
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YES! Its normal to still have feelings for an ex. Now you have to decide wether you are going to act on those feelings. He still has feelings for you too. remember -A love is never forgotten unless a bigger love comes along- good luck . pls rate~!
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15 female
me and my boyfriend(Tyler) started dateing really early this morning like 1 something
well i was talking to Laruin and Ashley(Tyler's ex) iMed her and was like hey this is Ashley Tyler's girlfriend....well laurin was like are u still going out w/ Tyler and Ashley was like yay y! welll Laurin told me bout this...so me and her 3ways Tyler at wrk and asked him about it and he said that he wasn't going out w/ her so i told him he better go str8en things out w/ her before i decided to get crunk on him!
what should i do? (link)
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Well you did the right thing and talked to him about it .. now if u want things to clear up faster maybe tell your friend to tell her that -that you are going out with tyler- and see what his ex has to say .. good luck!
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I RATE.
Hi. I have been going out with girl for about 2 weeks now and she is coming over to my house tommorw. We have not kissed or made out yet, and I was wondering if anyone had any advice to get her to want to do it. Such as things to do, etc. I got a pool, TV, dvd player, computer, anything, lol (link)
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I'll give you my opinion as if i was the girl. Rent a movie (comedy)and something to eat (chips), you guys need to be ALONE lol. In the middle of the movie just start sweet talking her (i'm so glad you are here now) blabla and go for it! .. good luck .. hope it helps!
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