My boyfriend and I are always having problems. I'm thinking that I should just totally cut him for good. I'm sick of breaking up, then him begging for me back and then me actually giving in. I do love him but I think it would be so much better if we just stopped going out and didn't even see eachother. Everyone says he's no good anyway and I'm just trying to be strong about it. Any advice to help me stay strong and not cry over him anymore?
colorless180 answered Monday August 2 2004, 12:13 am: WHOA! the exact same thing happened to me. u just REALLY gotta cut off ALL communication with him. and like...you gotta expect it to hurt...but just call someone up and cry or vent or w/e to them about it...just give it time and it will get better, i PROMISE [ colorless180's advice column | Ask colorless180 A Question ]
HotStuff answered Sunday August 1 2004, 10:50 pm: Hellooo there! you are talking about me and my ex! well neither of us begged to get back together but we would just say -i love you, i'm really sry- and we were on and off a long time. -love is not enough to make a relationship work- that is something i found out 3 days ago. even though i loved him and he loved me, some relationships don't work. There is much more than love involved, Respect, care, timing, work so that the relationship grows, see each other lately, etc.. i -cut him for good- 2 days ago, just keep yourself busy and think that if the 1st 2nd 3rd 4th time didn't work its not going to. -time heal all wounds- i'm trying that (i advice you to try it too- i have kept myslef busy all day (i read a 600 page book today, pathetic uh?) well just do stuff, i PROMISE you this is no the last time you are going to find a boy and fall for him. and if u guys didn't work that means there is another guy out there for you. good luck! msg me if anything! god i'm going through the EXACT same thing.. hope i helped, i wish someone would advice me on that before.. heheh .. [ HotStuff's advice column | Ask HotStuff A Question ]
lilangeldore answered Sunday August 1 2004, 10:02 pm: Well personally i think that if you two are having this much trouble then you should just see other people for a while. then if you two think you still have feelings for each other then give it a try again. you never know. As hard as it is you have to do it sometimes. [ lilangeldore's advice column | Ask lilangeldore A Question ]
XxbabygurlxX answered Sunday August 1 2004, 9:58 pm: well i think u should just brake up with him if he keeps hurtin u and u guys always gettin in to fight u guys might be better off as friends...... u shouldnt cry ova him cuz he keeps puttin u in pain every time he brakes up with u and askin if u will take him back ........hopeful i helped a lil i tryed my best
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