Okay I'm 14 and a girl and this guy friend of mine that i liked told me he thinks im hot and i told him hes hot and then later that week i told him i liked him... he didnt say anything... so am i just supposed to forget it or what... would appreciate guys advice on this one too!!!
xoAlison answered Monday August 2 2004, 3:07 am: Sorry i'm no a guy but i think i get it. I mean guys are weird, they think a bunch of girls are hot but it doesn't thinking that dosen't exactly mean they like them. but then again somtimes all they care about in a girl is their looks. This guys probabably thinks alot of girls are hott and you are one of them and for some reason he felt like telling you even if he just sees you as a friend. I don't think he ment anything big by it, just like a complament. But maybe you should just wait it out, you never know maybe something will happen between you 2 later on. but for now, Yeah i think you shouldn't take it as anything big, just don't worry about it. [ xoAlison's advice column | Ask xoAlison A Question ]
BlueEyedBlondie725 answered Sunday August 1 2004, 10:35 pm: Boys Boys Boys.. they're can be so mean sometimes. I think you should mention it again. He may be afraid if you two go out that it'll ruin your friendship or something. So, I would try talking to him if I was you. Just be like "I told you before, but you didn't respond, and I like you and I just want to know if you like me too." Just say something like that and just be like "If you do like me, I just want you to know, whatever happens between us we'll always be friends." Just tell him how you feel. Hope this helps!! Good luck. If you still need help, just post a message in my inbox!
BeachBum5724 answered Sunday August 1 2004, 9:50 pm: he might have just been shocked at you telling him that. maybe he feels the same way. just ask him what's up and going through his head right now.
*Jess* [ BeachBum5724's advice column | Ask BeachBum5724 A Question ]
Siren_Cytherea answered Sunday August 1 2004, 9:47 pm: I would track this guy down and ask him what was going through his head. He told you he thought you were hot. You told him you thought the same thing, then told him you liked him and he didn't respond?
That's cheap. I'd ask him "hey, remember when I told you I liked you? Yeah, what was going through your head about then?"
But I tend to be blunt. ^_^
If you want to take a more subtle approach, try telling him again and see how he responds.
I wouldn't just forget it. It would be driving me crazy!
Hope I helped - good luck!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
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