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Gender: Female
Location: Saco\\ Maine\\
Occupation: student
Age: 15
Member Since: August 2, 2004
Answers: 5
Last Update: August 2, 2004
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Okay I'm 14 and a girl and this guy friend of mine that i liked told me he thinks im hot and i told him hes hot and then later that week i told him i liked him... he didnt say anything... so am i just supposed to forget it or what... would appreciate guys advice on this one too!!! (link)
Sorry i'm no a guy but i think i get it. I mean guys are weird, they think a bunch of girls are hot but it doesn't thinking that dosen't exactly mean they like them. but then again somtimes all they care about in a girl is their looks. This guys probabably thinks alot of girls are hott and you are one of them and for some reason he felt like telling you even if he just sees you as a friend. I don't think he ment anything big by it, just like a complament. But maybe you should just wait it out, you never know maybe something will happen between you 2 later on. but for now, Yeah i think you shouldn't take it as anything big, just don't worry about it.


what does metro-sexual mean? (link)
A metro-sexual is basically a guy that looks and acts gay but isn't. Like guys that are all concerned about their image and like to use a bunch of product for their hair, and dress nice, a little to nice for a staight guy .


wuts the best way to get over someone uve loved for just about a year...??? (link)
i know it may sound impossible and supid but just try forgeting about them. Hang out with your friends, flirt with other people, just have fun and eventually you'll meet somone else that you like and eventually fall in love over time, and even though you probably will never forget the other person you'll discover that your happy even without them, and that you can move on because chances are they have too and theres no use wasing you time on somthing when theres somthing else beter out there for you.


Well I've had a crush on my friend's brother for a while now. I'm pretty sure he's into me too, but he's older and I don't want to make things weird. Should I tell him how I feel or just wait until I'm older? (link)
oh man, i know how you feel, but truthfully no matter how much you like him i don't think you should try anyhing.well not soon anyways, it might make things really awkward for your friend and you and him. expecially if he's not interested. i mean even if he does like you he probably just enjoys flirting but dosen't want anything serious expecially if it's his younger sisters friend. Sorry but i think you should just keep it at the level your at, Have fun with it and if he is interested he should be he one to make a move so you don' jeperdize your friendship. My friend once old me she liked my older broher and it just kind of weirded me out. i didn't tell her but it made me feel weird hanging out with the both of them and i think if anything did happen between you i would be cool because you know you could hang out with both of them but i might make your friend feel left out at times. So i don't think you should take i as far as confessing to him your feelings......yet. just have fun hanging out with him and flirting with him while you can, for the time being.


okay, this guy and i liked eachother for like a week and we talked n stuff, we live like 30 mins away from eachother, it was nothing big at ALL..but neway i went away on vacation and when i came back we didnt really talk. the only time we talked be4 that was online and thru texting..then i saw him at this gathering of family friends [theres this group of like 50 families that put on bbqs every once in awhile] and like we kinda ignored eachother? lol for like no reason. i would spot him looking at me like alot..we said hey to eachother and gave eachother a hug and flirted for like 5 mins, but then he didnt talk to me the hole time after that..he was kinda busy cause he was helping with the bbq and cooking, etc..then he left and he said goodbye and gave me a hug and then i was like, "okay bye take care..thanks for talking to me?" it was in a kiddish way..then he was like, "i know sorry i was just realli busy with helping out with the cooking, etc." even be4 this tho whenever we are around eachother we are always kinda stand offish and shy..now i dunno what i feel like, im kinda sad..help.. (link)
well since you guys seem to by shy around each other, probably just because your nervous face to face. You said you talked to him before online and texting so maybe you should try that, maybe sending him a message just saying somhing small to see if he responds like somthing jokingly like "hey whathappened to us?" or "i can't beleive you don' talk to me anymore" or just a simple "hey, whatcha been up to lately, haven't talked in a while" if he responds then keep in ouch and don't let another conversation gap inbetween you two. if your really into him which you seem to be if it's making you sad no being around him,then you can't hold back just go for it next time you see him or if you guys are hanging out with a group, talk to him! If he liked you he won't reject you and you 2 can get back on track talk more,and if he's not interested anymore(which i doubt) then you shouldn't be wasing your time hooked on him or wondering what you should do, you'll have it over and done with. :)




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