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Question Posted Monday August 2 2004, 1:11 am

okay, this guy and i liked eachother for like a week and we talked n stuff, we live like 30 mins away from eachother, it was nothing big at ALL..but neway i went away on vacation and when i came back we didnt really talk. the only time we talked be4 that was online and thru texting..then i saw him at this gathering of family friends [theres this group of like 50 families that put on bbqs every once in awhile] and like we kinda ignored eachother? lol for like no reason. i would spot him looking at me like alot..we said hey to eachother and gave eachother a hug and flirted for like 5 mins, but then he didnt talk to me the hole time after that..he was kinda busy cause he was helping with the bbq and cooking, etc..then he left and he said goodbye and gave me a hug and then i was like, "okay bye take care..thanks for talking to me?" it was in a kiddish way..then he was like, "i know sorry i was just realli busy with helping out with the cooking, etc." even be4 this tho whenever we are around eachother we are always kinda stand offish and shy..now i dunno what i feel like, im kinda sad..help..

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BeachCutie214 answered Monday August 2 2004, 10:21 am:
Ok sweetie this is wut i think..personally i dont know if you know eachother well enough to be dating..because if you are that stand offish then mayb u need to get to know him better...or you guys are really shy..anyway those are my answers and i hope they helped!

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xoAlison answered Monday August 2 2004, 1:28 am:
well since you guys seem to by shy around each other, probably just because your nervous face to face. You said you talked to him before online and texting so maybe you should try that, maybe sending him a message just saying somhing small to see if he responds like somthing jokingly like "hey whathappened to us?" or "i can't beleive you don' talk to me anymore" or just a simple "hey, whatcha been up to lately, haven't talked in a while" if he responds then keep in ouch and don't let another conversation gap inbetween you two. if your really into him which you seem to be if it's making you sad no being around him,then you can't hold back just go for it next time you see him or if you guys are hanging out with a group, talk to him! If he liked you he won't reject you and you 2 can get back on track talk more,and if he's not interested anymore(which i doubt) then you shouldn't be wasing your time hooked on him or wondering what you should do, you'll have it over and done with. :)

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LilMia811 answered Monday August 2 2004, 1:19 am:
well maybe he was busy. try talking to him again and hanging out one day

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