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Personality: Fun to be around, likes to act crazy.
Gender: Female
Location: South Carolina
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Age: 17
AIM: lilangeldore
Member Since: August 1, 2004
Answers: 7
Last Update: July 13, 2006
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16/f
hey guys okay so heres my problem...
ive been with my boyfriend for almost 8 months now and we've been doing great and we're so in love..but lately we're been getting in these stupid fights and on the phone its just been quiet like we dont know what to say or talk about anymore...we've talked about it with each other and we know that its going to get better and our feelings for each other are still the same...but i just dont understand why we've fought soooo much and its just been in the past week...we've had like 4 or 5 fights already its happening like everyday or like every other day...we also talked about how its normal for couples to fight and that a relationship cant go on without one...
but i have a feeling its me because hes such a great boyfriend he never does anything wrong so i think somtimes its just me and that i need some kind of atitude ajustment or somthing...
i have no idea but i know i dont want to keep fighting like this...any advice would be helpful thanks so much... (link)
Ok you sound just like i did when i was in a long term relationship with my ex. We just recently broke up and i am dealing with that. But besides that...Sometimes i used to enjoy starting a fight/argument with him for no reason and i didnt know why i did either. You might just be like i was but there is nothing wrong with that just try to realize your doing it when you start to and then look at him and say i am srry and i love you and he will feel so much better and you will too.


i went to the beach last weekend and got VERY sunburned. my right leg and foot are swollen and hurt very badly, and i have to drive for 2 hours tomorrow. Any way to take down the swelling from my burn on saturday, or to help the burn heal faster? (i've already used aloe multiple times) thanks! (link)
this may sound silly but try putting mustard on it. It really works. stay away from ice though cause that makes it worse by blistering it. Good luck


how do you boost your self-esteem? mainly about your body image. i've been having a lot of trouble with my body image =\, and i don't know what to do. whenever i eat i regret eating. when i pinch my stomach i have about 4 inches of fat (and thats standing up!).. i try to keep myself away from food, but then that's all i think about & i eat alot.

thanx in advance. (link)
you are not fat. if you want to loose that stomach though you can simply do crunches and just work it all off. it will take some time but it is well worth it. dont stop eating though cause when you do eat your body takes that food and automatically turns it into fat. Just eat smaller portions and work out. But your not fat so dont think that. YOu are fine just how you are. ANd not to mention that God made you that way. Everyone is different.


theres this guy, my boyfriend. sometimes i feel like i like him and other times i feel like i dont. he is crazy over me. i feel like i want to dump him but i dont want him to be upset. (this guy also gave me chocolate 4 no reason and we have been going out for about 3 weeks) i need help!!!!! il give 5's and feedback to the first 4 good answers i get! PLZ HELP!!!! (link)
i know how you feel. my boyfriend of almost 4 months is the same way. and at just a few weeks he was the same way yours is. Yea there are times now i feel as if i dont want to be with him and there are times i do want to be with him but all in all i truely love him and you just have to do what your heart tells you to do. Its not his fault that he cares so much for you. He cant help the way he feels. just be open with him about it and i promise things will work out. they did for me and i have been with him since. Hope i helped.

MarksBaby


ok well me and my(guy)friend both like each other but we are not going out.(long story) but he said that he wanted to kiss me and then asked me what i thought and i said idk. and i still dont know. but i dont want to say yes and i dont want to say no. cuz if i say yes then we will end up going to far..and ill end up getting to close and dont want to get hurt. but if i say no then i might regret it. and one of my friends went on vaca for two weeks. the guy i like and her both liked eachother b4 she left. then all this happend and me and him held hands at the movies adn stuff. she will be back soon and idk what will happen.he might go back with her. i need some advice on what to do. im so confused..please help.

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ok well it is true that you might regret it later so you for it. kiss him. i mean come on you might not have another day to go it. Always think of today as your last day and live it up the best you can! Just talk to your other friend(gurl) and let her know how you feel about him and see how she feels and tell her whats going on and what she thinks you should do. but i really think that you should go ahead and kiss him but let him know that it is just a kiss and that is all. Hope i helped. if you need anything else just ask me.


My best friend has been acting really weird lately. My other b/f just got home from Kansas the other day and she wouldn't even play with us. She didn't talk to me on the way home from her play and she always wants to do stuff with little kids then hang with us. Whats wrong? (link)
she just doesnt want to see you with other people. See your friend is probably used to you always being there for him/her and now that someone else is in the picture she/he is a little upset. Just try to hang out with your friend more and then maybe try to get them together and joke around or do what yall do best together. The reason she/he might hang out with younger kids is because they probably know that the little kid will play with them. I hope i helped, if you need anything else just ask me.


My boyfriend and I are always having problems. I'm thinking that I should just totally cut him for good. I'm sick of breaking up, then him begging for me back and then me actually giving in. I do love him but I think it would be so much better if we just stopped going out and didn't even see eachother. Everyone says he's no good anyway and I'm just trying to be strong about it. Any advice to help me stay strong and not cry over him anymore? (link)
Well personally i think that if you two are having this much trouble then you should just see other people for a while. then if you two think you still have feelings for each other then give it a try again. you never know. As hard as it is you have to do it sometimes.




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