When you think the world has turned its back on you, take a closer look, most likely, you turned your back on the world.
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Location: Indiana
Age: 15
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ok im 15 and im a girl so listen up .. ive gone all the way and i mean a hit a definate home run and im just really confused about who i am because i always say im done drinking and smoking but i know thats wat i really want to do. and i also say that im done literally screwing around with every guy im with .. but i know that something like that will probably will happen this weekend .. i really dont know wat i want to do and i dont think ive exactly found myself yet .. im so comfused and i dont know wat to do .. (link)
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alright...well if you're worried about screwing around with someone..dont put yourself in the situation...its as simple as that...dont go alone with someone...or if u wanna like just makeout or w/e..this is gonna sound weird...but do soethin like not shaving..then u wont wanna take ur pants off lol..i guess finding yourself is somethin that just takes time..i mean no matter how bad u've fucked up u just gotta take it one day at a time, eveything u hate or regret is somethin u'll never do again BECAUSE you feel that way..shit happens, thats the way life is but just because it does, doesnt mean good things dont happen too and just remember, the faster and farther you run from your past, the more it's gonna cost you when it catches back up with you.
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how far would you go with a guy, and could you seriously answer the question? cause if you dont that doesnt seem to answer my question, dont be shy! (link)
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ummm i guess anything but sex....i cld really do without a kid while im in highschool...i cld really do without a kid until im married thanks...
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I usually straighten my hair before i go party!! But by the end of the night my hairs flipped out the ends...and puffy..any girls know some good ways ( using house hold items) to keep the straight flowing as i party all night long!?!?!
p.S i have a party soon soo i need help!!!
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if you're very careful and get someone else to do it....irons work REALLY well...i suggest u use a towl over you're hair though and be careful..
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I'm 15 years old and I'm pregnant. I don't know what to do and who to turn to. I've only had sex once with my boyfriend and I took a couple pregnancy tests, which all came out positive. No one knows about it and I'm so scared. My parents will be so disappointed in me, it'll kill me and they'll probably make me get an abortion. I'm also scared my boyfriend is going to leave me because of it. What should I do? I really need help. (link)
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wow...first of all that really sucks...but i guess you already know that...well i'd suggest if you think you're not ready to tell your parents at least tell your boyfriend...try going to a clinic or planned parenthood..they have doctors and therapists that can help you with EVERYTHING...good luck.. and god bless
xoxo Ren
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I bite my nails, it's a nervous habit (a bad one too). I think it's because my parents put a lot of pressure on me and my sisters (one of them also bites her nails). I like chewing on things, and nails are just convenient. I don't like gum, though- so I don't want to chew on that. I don't want to chew on food because I don't want to stuff myself because of a nervous habit. I hate carrots. How can I stop biting my nails? Sometimes I don't even realize what I'm doing and then my nail is gone! (link)
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i dont know WHERE exactly, but i do know a friend of mine had that problem and she bought nail polish made for that...its safe of course but it tastes REALLY nasty and you just put it on your fingernails to keep you from biting them...so u cld prolly look at some nail salons or online for something like that
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ok well me and my whole family always fight and they always blame me for everything and they make me feel like they dont love me and everything and i started to think does my family love me? and i think they dont so now i got the feeling that i shouldnt be living becuz i have no one that loves me so i think i should just kill myself i've always solved my problems by cutting myself becuz i think it makes the pain go away but now im starting to think i should kill myself or something what should i do i really need some help and quick becuz i might do osmething i might regret later on (link)
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SAY SOMETHING TO YOUR FAMILY!! you dont have to tell them about sucide or cutting if you don't want to yet, but u definently need to say how they make you feel, im almost positive they really dont want you to feel like they dont love you, im sure they do. and u shld really think about telling them, or someone you trust about cutting...or just stop, you can also try putting a rubber band around your wrist and snap it every time you feel like cutting yourself...good luck, hope you feel better!
xoxo Ren drop one in my inbox if ya need me
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There's this guy I really like, but he's really wild. I mean really. He's already went all the way and he's only 14. I've only been kissed. But he wants to hang out and start "talking" and stuff. He's really fun to be around and really good lookin too. lol. I would love to get to know him better and maybe even date, but I'm afraid it wont work out because I'm not as advanced as him, but should I give it a shot anyway? (link)
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i'd go ahead and go for it, the way you talk about him makes him sound like he's a really cool guy, as long as you're sure he won't pressure you into anything you don't want to do. make sure he knows you don't want to do anything you're not ready for , and, if he can agree on thatm you two should be great!
xoxo Ren
p.s. bad boys can be the most fun!
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does anyone know any good places to make a babysitting flyer that will catch people's attention????? please help asap!! if you help, i'll rate 5!!!!! (link)
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ok well alot of community places...we used to hang ours on the local pool bulliten board..anywhere parents would go, but heres a really cool thing you can do, when you put ur phone number on it, cut little strips on the bottom of the paper and write your number on each one so that when people read your flyer, they just tear off a slip and they have your number handy!
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Well this coming skool year I'll be a freshman. At our highskool, two different graduating 8th grade classes from two different skools form into the freshman class at the high skool. Before I graduated 8th grade, sum of my friends and I had been spending a lot of time with sum of the girls from the other skool that we'd be sharing highskool with this coming skool year. A lot of the girls at my own skool were becoming jealous and thought that when we become freshman, my friends and I would ditch our great ol friends from our old skool and go for the girls from the new one. I'm really close with the girls from our old skool and I know this won't be the case, but how do I make sure this doesn't happen and how can I make my friends from my old skool believe it won't? (m/14) (link)
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dude...our school does that too...doesn't it suck? you don't go to hamilton southeastern in Indy do you? anyways you gotta start combining the groups, or even just sit down with your old friends and have a serious conversation that you want to make new friends but not lose your old ones
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i have always had really short hair. it's been a dream of mine to grow it out, but right when it's a little past my shoulders, i always chicken out and cut it again! i think it's because there is no good styles for shoulderlength hair, but i still really want to grow it out. is there a product/way to grow it out more quickly so it can be long? (link)
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i don't think any prodcuts will make it grow faster...but i do know that getting it cut every so often doesn't help it grow faster. slower if anything, so just don't cut your hair for awhile.
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Okay well I really need some help. I have been cutting for about a year and the cuts are getting really deep. They have riped my vein and I'm afraid i mite go to far next time. I've been tryihng so hard not to cut but i get these really baddddd urges to do it..is there any help for me out there? (link)
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well getting advice is a really good step! i used to cut myself too, and one day i decided it wasn't worth it. the rubber band idea is a good one. talk to someone you trust and feel comfortable talking about it with, or if you know someone who used to do it, they would be PERFECT to talk to, they understand, i still remain that the only people who truly understand cutting is people who've done it but most of all, believe you have the power to stop
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okay so i knoe how to kisss but ive never realy made out with a guy... so idk wut to do when i make out? where do i put like my hands? and how do i bring up the subject that i wanna make out with a guy? (link)
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oo around his neck is where you should put your hands, and i wouldnt say something to a guy if i were you, just wait, he'll kiss you, or better yet, you kiss him!
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do girls realy think those lame polo collar shirts are hott??? i mean do they like atract females because i think there lame as hell and i would never wear one... well maby depending on the results to the question... (link)
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it totally depends on the girl...ick i hate guys wearing polo shirts..but it IS nice to see them dressed up when they need to be. if you dont like em, dont wear em, especially if the only reason you do wear them is for some girl
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well i have a best friend namedayra ajel.well we've been best friends for nine year but now she kind of ignores me alot.well shes alway chatting with my sister online and not me.she treats everyone better than me.and i have this other friend (well exbest friend) i just send her and im and she just pissed me off and blocked me saying she only pretende to be my friend .she also called me annoying imature dork.what can i do with them.i need help. (link)
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drop them! if they're doin and sayin stuff like that, they are SO not worth your time. you're the immature one? hmm sounds to me like it's the other way around...go find better friends than them
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Hey im becky...im 14. ive got a major problem
i went out with this kid for 8 mons and we shared everything together, i mean the relationship was perfect. He was always there for me and he didnt care what other people thought. i loved that about him. But when his crazy mother put an end to our relationship he didnt even wana try to make it work. Now hes in Florida playing basketball and i did a no no with his brother. But i regret it because the only reason i did it was because he reminded me so much of my boyfriend. I cant get over my boyfriend and i think hes well over me but its only been maybe a week... Help!!!!
thanksss.. (link)
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i'd say just work your way through it, most likely, it wasn't even anything personal, i mean there was you, who im sure he loved and cared about alot, but he has to LIVE with his mother for the REST OF HIS LIFE, if he didn't love you more than that, drop him, he's not worth it. as for with his brother, as long as you and the first guy aren't dating, you're free to do w/e the hell you two want.
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Okay, so there's this really cute guy that I really like. Yesterday, I found out that he likes me. Naturally, I'm stunned. He starts holding my hand, and rubbing my shoulders, and nibbling my ear, but something inside me told him to stop. Now he doesn't like me anymore, because I told him to stop. I don't get it. That's what I dreamed of. That's what I had wanted, and I told him to stop! Geez, I'm all confused. Was it wrong? Is it all for the best? Am I right? Am I crazy? (link)
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i understand how tough it is when the guy is sooo good lookin! he he! but anything that makes you nervous or uncomfortable, you shouldn't do. stuff like that is only wrong if one person involved doesn't want it happening, you'll find someone else who's cute, and respect you. you were right in saying something, and we're all a lil crazy ;)
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y do sum guyz lyk gurlz 2 b dum....? im not dumb.............iz it bad that im not reely into sportz..? cause im not lyk gurly gurly i jus dun get into sportz lyk otha pplz?am i weird? (link)
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any guy that thinks you need to be dumb and not play sports, or do whatever it is you like doing, is not worth your time. thats all YOU need to worry about!
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I went out with this guy. I knew he was a player and stuff. and a lot of grls liked him. But he liked me and asked me out. So about the first 3 days we were together he kissed another grl. but when i told him i didnt no if i want 2 b with him he threatened to kill himself. so i stayed with him.. later i found out that he fingered a grl and made out with her. but i still liked him a lot. Was i wrong for staying with him after the first tyme? am i worng for being his friend? (link)
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Yeah, you shoulda left the first time...but it's not too late now, if he threatens to kill himself either mention it to someone if you think he sounds serious, or just don't pay attention, if you matter that much to him that he'd kill himself without you, why is he cheating on you?
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My boyfriend and I are always having problems. I'm thinking that I should just totally cut him for good. I'm sick of breaking up, then him begging for me back and then me actually giving in. I do love him but I think it would be so much better if we just stopped going out and didn't even see eachother. Everyone says he's no good anyway and I'm just trying to be strong about it. Any advice to help me stay strong and not cry over him anymore? (link)
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WHOA! the exact same thing happened to me. u just REALLY gotta cut off ALL communication with him. and like...you gotta expect it to hurt...but just call someone up and cry or vent or w/e to them about it...just give it time and it will get better, i PROMISE
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ok my and this guy are in love .... we both have told each other and everything but he hasnt asked me out .... i think its becuase hes afraid to get hurt like he did with his last g/f but i dunno .... i love him so much .... its pathetic we fight over who loves the other and everything ... i met him online and have not met him in person .... but we are planning to meet when we get older .... we are 15 .... and dont say thats to young to love becuase if you have ever loved you would know you can love at any age technically (sp?) can someone help me with him .... and i aint askin him out (i rate) (link)
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well first off, if you met him online, just be careful, but if you cant tell what he's thinkin , ASK, just be like "well what do you think abt makin this exclusive?" , you dont have to ask him out, just like find a way to ask his opinion on the two of you ever dating in the near future, chances are if you bring it up, he'll take a hint and ask you
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