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8 months, and its over like that
Hey im becky...im 14. ive got a major problem
i went out with this kid for 8 mons and we shared everything together, i mean the relationship was perfect. He was always there for me and he didnt care what other people thought. i loved that about him. But when his crazy mother put an end to our relationship he didnt even wana try to make it work. Now hes in Florida playing basketball and i did a no no with his brother. But i regret it because the only reason i did it was because he reminded me so much of my boyfriend. I cant get over my boyfriend and i think hes well over me but its only been maybe a week... Help!!!!
thanksss..
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if it's only been a week, then i'm almost positive he's not over you. he's a guy, so he probably just doesn't want to show he still has feelings for you. maybe he knows something you don't about what his mom did, so talk to him about it.
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i'd say just work your way through it, most likely, it wasn't even anything personal, i mean there was you, who im sure he loved and cared about alot, but he has to LIVE with his mother for the REST OF HIS LIFE, if he didn't love you more than that, drop him, he's not worth it. as for with his brother, as long as you and the first guy aren't dating, you're free to do w/e the hell you two want.
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Maybe I'm wrong but I think it may be time to give up. I'm sure you could understand his feelings if he chose not to forgive you for what you did with his brother, but it sounds like the reletionship was over before you did that. Infidelity is just a sign that something else is wrong with a relationship, so talk to him, apologise for what you've done, but if he doesn't take you back don't be too shocked. If there's even a chance you guys can stay friends, you should take it now by speaking to him. If your relationship was as good as you said it was, he might be willing to stay your friend. Either way, what's meant to happen will happen, and if you guys are meant to get back together, you will.
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Sweetie ask your ex boyfriend to be completly honest with you and ask him how he really feels and talk things out. And if he doesn't want to listen to you then he isn't worth your time you can find someone better that will listen to your every word. if your need anything else in that department drop a letter in my mail box.
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*Throw away things he bought for you(unless it's REALLY nice). Throw away the movie tickets if you saved them. Your heart needs healing and a week won't be enough. Just give your heart enough time and go out and look for a new guy.*
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