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am i wrong
I went out with this guy. I knew he was a player and stuff. and a lot of grls liked him. But he liked me and asked me out. So about the first 3 days we were together he kissed another grl. but when i told him i didnt no if i want 2 b with him he threatened to kill himself. so i stayed with him.. later i found out that he fingered a grl and made out with her. but i still liked him a lot. Was i wrong for staying with him after the first tyme? am i worng for being his friend?
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i always say that everyone deserves a second chance, but there ARE certain places where you have to draw the line. if it's only hurting you to be with him, then you should draw the line and let him go. if he was really considering suicide as a way out then he's a loser anyways, and you don't need to be with someone like that. sounds to me like you're just a back-up for him in case nothing works out with the other girls. he's only hurting you, let him go. you don't deserve that kind of treatment. if he was any kind of man, he wouldn't have done any of that stuff with those other females.
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Yeah, you shoulda left the first time...but it's not too late now, if he threatens to kill himself either mention it to someone if you think he sounds serious, or just don't pay attention, if you matter that much to him that he'd kill himself without you, why is he cheating on you?
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yeah!! you know he was a player and you know he touched another girl... break up with him, and if he threated to kill himself, you could always mention it to your school teachers or someone that works there, because thats secretive
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If I were you and found out he did anything with another girl I would have dumped him the minute I found out, but I know you stayed with him b/c you liked him alot. You will like him for a while, but you will evenually get over him. I know it's hard but you gotta stay strong. No your not wrong for being his friend, but it just makes it harder to be around him if you still like him. Try to stay a little distant from him if you can. Well hope I helped and please rate. If you have anymore ?s just feel free to drop them in my box!
* ashley *
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Well the first tyme you should have known he would do it again. So im sry but u opened that door for cheating and stuff! Dump him!
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You were wrong with staying with him the first time, but you're not wrong for being his friend. <3xoxo
-megan
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I've gone out with a player before =/, but he never did that to me. Its not wrong to be his friend! You're being nice and being his friend. But the whole "I'll kill myself" speech, is just for you to stay with them, don't always fall for it. But, I would break up with him, because I mean the first time he messed up, you forgave him and gave him another shot, the second time he did it worse, now I think you should break up with him. He'll only hurt you more and when you get hurt, it REALLY hurts! Just tell him something like "I just dont think this is working out between me and you, I think we should just be friends." Don't say something like "I gave you another shot, blah blah blah..." Because then he'll think of an excuse for you to stay with him again and then he'll do the samething to you. He just needs to grow up and get passed the whole player thing. You deserve better! Hope this helps! If you still need help, just post a message in my inbox!
xoxo Kourtney
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you can be his friend it isn't wrong but i always say once your boyfriend cheats on you then he is going to do it again. it is in him. if your still with him maybe you should dump him but do what you think is best for the both of you.
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You should have more respect for yourself than to let him walk all over you like that.
You made a mistake by staying with him, but as long as you learn from it and leave his ass and stick up for yourself, then it's not wrong.
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