I love helping people. I also love giving advice. I love hanging out with friends and being the person they come to when they need help. I love singing and dancing and being around little people. I love to babaysit too. Shopping is also fun! I have been through so many experiences that I can help with anything. If anyone needs advice or help. Come to me. I will help you!
E-mail: jesseca@sbcglobal.net
Gender: Female
Location: Illinois
Age: 15
AIM: MaKnOuTiSfUn
Member Since: August 2, 2004
Answers: 19
Last Update: August 8, 2004
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well im 13 n my bro has a friend thats 16 n when ever like we r around eachother he smiles at me n i blush rele easly n well i kinda like him but he wouyld never go out w. me.. but like my bro invited him to worlds of fun n well he kept walkin by me n siting w. me on rides.. n well he came to our new house to help us move n i came in n he just smiled at me again n its rele confusing cuz idk if he likes me or what....
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Well, I think he likes you! Go for it girl! Just be careful cuz hes 16 and sometimes guys have expectations! ~Jes~
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wheres a good place to get cute thongs/ g*strings? (link)
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OMG- I went to the mall and bought 5 of the cutest thongs and g-strings in the 90210- Charlotte Russe!! Its the best.. 5 for $15 LOL.. so cute! theres lace, screen ones, sayings one, cheery ones, all colors.. and like horoscope ones! LOL- hope I helped! ~Jes~
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ok ummm im 14 n im really gettin sick of my bf n i love him sooo much but now it feels like he has no time 4 me. but some times at nite i cry n i dont wanna break up with him! what should i do?? (link)
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My best friend just had the same problem. She told him that it feels like he has no time for her. Id do the same. they tlked and soon, she found out that he didnt like her nymore. So be careful and just tlk to him! hope i helped! ~Jes~
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Hi um i have always had alot of friends and really great ones too but this past school year i have entered the 7th grade and i am going into the 8th and i feel lyk my friends do not lyk to do stuff with me! They have meet some new friends but i have too but not as great as them and i feel really bad when i hear about them going places when i was not invited!!
What is wrong with me and what should i do to fix this problem?
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Just tell ur friends that u would like to be invited to places they go. since ya'll r friends. But then every now and then as u grow up ur going to make new friends. They might not be as gr8 as the others, but u just got 2 tough it out. Dont worry, friends come and friends go! Hope I helped! ~Jes~
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ok. this is kinda confusing. but the (semi) short version is:
i liked this kid and he didnt like me bak so i made up this grl "jennie" on AIM and pretnded she was 1 of my frends. and one day we were talking about "me" (this kid and "jennie" were) and he sed i was fat and ugly. so a week after that i told him it was me and he got all pissed and so he sed hed get mebak or w/e and i fugured i deserved it. but he sed he knew alredi it was me b4 i told him-- but i dont believe him. ne way... so he was mada t me for a while, and he didnt talk to me and then wen he did, all he did was ask me for my frends' s/ns. and i gave them to him figureing he deserved them. but then he started calling them and meeting them at the mall 4 movies and (i still liked him by the way) i kept wondering wut was rong w/ me that he didnt like me like that. this kid has been my neighbor 4 about four yrs now and not once have i been to the movies w/ him. and like, he knew i liked him and yet, he still kept talk in bou thow much he LOVED my frends. ok im almost done. so yesterday, i told him i had a boyfrend i met online and uk wut he sed? after i told him i was kidding he sed he didnt believe me anyways cuz i cudnt get a b/f if i tried. idk if he was tryin to be funny, (cuz hes like that sumtimes) but i didnt find it funny. and so after that, i asked him not 2 tell ne 1 bout my "boyfrend"; so naturally, he goes in his house, IMs it 2 everi 1 on his buddylist and calls and tells his best frend. i had had enough by this point. so i ran inside and stayed there. and ignored him the restof the day. and he has the nerve to lie to me and tell me that no 1 knos... haha. rite. cuz didnt i jsut happen to talk to the kid he was on the fone with, and it turns out that he is no one, cuz he happend to kno all of what i told the kid not to tell. but today i started to tell him how much hes hurt me and he was hardly listin to me he just was tellin me random stuff, so i gave up. i didnt kno wut to do. i was PISSED. i wen in the house and cried pitifully. and idk wut to do now. i rly wanna tell him how much he hurt me and gr... lol im not sure he cares. wut if he duznt? wut shud i do? and all he talks about is my frends and i m like hey! wut abou tme! i feel so out-of -the- picture even tho im the closest to him. HELP!
~rly desperately confused and agrivated
(Lizzie)
ps im 13 and hes 14 if that helps ne
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Dont worry, just forget about him. But tlk to your friends because hes using them to get u pissed off. Just tel them flat out. Besides dont let him put u down.. uve got to show him whos boss, forget about the loser and welcome the next one. Hope I helped! ~Jes~
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OMG! the creepiest thing happened to me today. i was on aim when someone i.m.s me saying that they are my g/f. from the start i knew it wasnt them. (my girlfreind lives on long island and i live in niagara falls). so i was confused. then all of a sudden this person started naming parts of my life from like 3 years ago. IT WASNT ANYONE FROM MY FAMILY (I JUST KNOW). SO...now im freaking out. i dont know who it could be and how they know all of this info! i never told anyone half the things this person said! what do i do to calm myself down and relax..and can someone explain this?!?! I RATE!! (link)
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hmmm, maybe it was one of your family members. You never know?! But justrelax and tlk to someone- clostest friends maybe?
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what kind of car should i get? im a girl, and i want a convertible. any sugggestions? thanks (link)
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I think a convertible mitsubishi spyder!! ~Jes~
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i am 14 years old and i am pregnate. my mom wants me to give the baby up for adoption but the father of my baby doesn't want me to give it up. i am 7 months pregnate and i don't know what to do. it is a girl and i am afriad that if something goes wrong and i can't have children again and i give this one up i am never going to have a baby again. what should i do? (link)
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Well, I think you should give it to the adoption agencies. Do you think the father will be there to help you? Maybe in the beginning but not long. Besides, I think it'd be best for you and the baby. He/she can go to a mature/old enough family. You can sign papers for visitation rights for him/her too. It'd be best hun.. Good luck.. ~Jes~
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I went out with this guy. I knew he was a player and stuff. and a lot of grls liked him. But he liked me and asked me out. So about the first 3 days we were together he kissed another grl. but when i told him i didnt no if i want 2 b with him he threatened to kill himself. so i stayed with him.. later i found out that he fingered a grl and made out with her. but i still liked him a lot. Was i wrong for staying with him after the first tyme? am i worng for being his friend? (link)
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Well the first tyme you should have known he would do it again. So im sry but u opened that door for cheating and stuff! Dump him!
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okay my boyfriend told me this shocking news a few days ago that he stills loves me but he is in love with his elementery school crush. I usually give advice but this time i don't know what to do. he asked me if we could have a break from each other and i said okay. we talk every single day and he says he loves me still but the only reason he let me go for now was because "his past was hurting his future" which means his crush was hurting our realationship. he wanted to know if i would take him back and i am still thinking about it what should i do...? (link)
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I would, but be very careful. Especially since he loves this crush. She could come along and take him from you and break ur heart. Or he could cheat on you. But if you really like him then try it, but all im saying is be VERY careful! Hop-e i helped.. ~Jes~
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okay so this girl is suppose to b my friend but she likes the guy i love heind my back.. an my bets friend is her best friend cause they grew up together.. so this girl..lets cal her.. bitch.. (it fits!)tried kissin this guy (lets name him..Bobby!) behind my back.. but she told him she would tell me, but never did, so he did. But from wut he says she did while he was high but he still pushed her away cause he likes me an not her, well he dosnt like her like that. An tha bitch told bobbdy she did it to make me jealous an pissed off.. but heres the problem.. usually i would tell her off.. bitch her out til she cries, ya know? BUT im not suppose to know (it makes no sense i know) she only told bobby she was goin to tell me so he wouldnt.. but he did.. but i cant say anything cause i promised bobby i woudlnt. so i just nicley asked her if she liked him an she said "no" im goin crazii though.. i need to say something to her, but i love bobby to death an he hates when people break promises (link)
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Just go to her and say u found out from some grl that she kissed bobby. And see what she says. If she denies it then say u no she did and u cant have a friendship if she cant b honest and keep away from guys u love! hope i helped ~jes~
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how do you know if some one reely luvz you i meen my couzin n ha bf......sum plz alredy no bout that..but he callz ha n sayz he luvz ha shes 13 and im 15 i no better she says she loves him tooo but i now he dosent love her i thynk i no she doesnt love him.....bcuz they jus lyk met each other they jus started goin out they went out for lyk 1 week...man lyf iz confusing.....help!!! (link)
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Well, just talk to her. Its like a natural thing for people to say they love their BF's without really feeling the love. So just talk to her and let her know that she is a bit too young to be in love! Theres plenty more heartbreaks and romances ahead of her, and tell het not to fall at the first hotti that says he loves her!
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I have been seeing my BF for about 3 months now. I guess I should start off by saying I am 22 (almost) and have had nothing but really horible relationships. I just moved to GA in Feb and I found my current BF. He absoulty wonderful. I have always told past BF I love them. Being with this new guy has be amazing..even for 3 months. I am happier than I have ever been. I didnt know that people like him were really out there. My question is, do you think its too early for me to be in love with him. If not how do I tell him. (he already told me he's falling for me..(he didnt say the L word though) I just dont want to freak him out to bad, only cause of the short time period we have known each other. Please help...Thanks a Bunch xoxoxoxoxoxoxo
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Well your not too young to be in love. And i dont think its too early to tell him. Give him a month or two longer. Just so you dont freak him out. But when you do tell him, tell him with words from your heart. Not from someone else's mouth. You dont want it to be artificial. Remember- you only meet 3 people that you can love and spend the rest of your life with. He could be one of them! ~Jes~
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how do u change the settings on your columnest page (link)
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Go to left side side column and look under Welcome, and go to clumn settings! Hope I helped.. ~Jes~
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Hi everyone...I hope yo all can help me. I am looking for things to do with my Boyfriend that are sweet and romantic, but cost next to nothing. I am up for almost anything, any sugestions would be great. Thanks a Bunch ! xoxoxoxoxox Christin (link)
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Well, one idea would be to invite him over for a movie or just to have it be you too. Just cuddle him and let him know how much you liek him! HHope I helped ~Jes~
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Theres this guy at my school, and towards the end of my 6th grade year (last year) he started acting really perverted. We were never friends or anything, but at the end of the year he started to like me..well any way. I had to sit by him in all the classes we had together (it was only 3 but still) and after my 5th hour he would always get out of the class room before me and when I would walk out he would be around the cornor and he'd chase me down to my next class..and it was all just really wierd, he was always starin at my but and all that crap..and it was really grose! Can anyone tell me what I could do to stop him from doing these things next year? I just dont want to be stalked again! Thanx for the help! (link)
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I think he does this beacuse he likes you! And you should be very happy! LOL- but stalking is a little bit weird. Just confront him. Tell him you dont like how he follows you around and stares at your butt. But Im just letting you know that its natural for a guy to stare at your butt and other body parts. Thats what guys do. Guys may look at you and you dont notice. But when you do and if u dont like it, then tell them! ~Jes~
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my friend moved out of town and i talked to her friend (boy)and hes really nice and he sent me a picture and hes really hott!!! hehe is it a bad idea to go out with him? cuz he likes me and i like him!
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I dont think it would be bad since ur friend and him were friends. But if they were going out, than it would be a bad idea. Hope I helped!
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thyz iz a dumb ? but how do u keep frum gettin shaver burnz on ur legz? (link)
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Well, try using shaving cream with water. First make sure your legs are wet. Other wise it can burn. Use shaving cream or body soap. Dont just lean over and pour water on your legs, it has to be in a bath tub or shower! Hope I helped!
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what does s.o.s mean cuz people go i love s.o.s (link)
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S.O.S. means Some One Special.. hope i helped!
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