okay my boyfriend told me this shocking news a few days ago that he stills loves me but he is in love with his elementery school crush. I usually give advice but this time i don't know what to do. he asked me if we could have a break from each other and i said okay. we talk every single day and he says he loves me still but the only reason he let me go for now was because "his past was hurting his future" which means his crush was hurting our realationship. he wanted to know if i would take him back and i am still thinking about it what should i do...?
Mel answered Monday August 2 2004, 3:52 pm: if he honestly loved you with everything he had, he wouldn't have let you go even for someone of his PAST. they're in his PAST for a reason. if you think you should take him back, then take him back... but think about it... i mean, would he really have let you go if he loved you that much and you hadn't done anything wrong? maybe there's more to the story than you know? ask. [ Mel's advice column | Ask Mel A Question ]
AquamarineRose answered Monday August 2 2004, 3:44 pm: Well while he is going ou with his "elementary school crush" you yourself should try to go out with other guys too.It'll take you mind off of him some-what.Now about if you should take him back.The upside least he told you the truth. The downside he still let you go for another girl. If it was me... I wouldn't go back to him.But I don't want to be all one sided.So maybe give him another chance take him back and remember why you love him in the first place. [ AquamarineRose's advice column | Ask AquamarineRose A Question ]
lil_kati22 answered Monday August 2 2004, 2:52 pm: well i have the same problem as your boyfriend... I went out with htis boy in elementry school and never got over him so all of my relationships now end badly... but if you really do love him you should take him back... and cut him some slack its really hard... see how it goes... if it ends up bad then you know it wasnt meant to be... but try to work it out... or you might regret it...
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ClurBur answered Monday August 2 2004, 2:20 pm: So basically he wants you to wait around until he gets over his crush? What if this crush is still around in a year? how long are you prepared to wait? You probably know the answer, but dont want to admit it! If he's genuily interested, he'd carry on going out with you now. Ask him what he exactly wants to do and if he doesnt give you a real answer then go find someone who'll make you his number one. Its what you deserve! [ ClurBur's advice column | Ask ClurBur A Question ]
CheerMMS24 answered Monday August 2 2004, 2:06 pm: If he still has a crush on someone, maybe you should wait and see what happens with them, i dunno about you, but i wouldn't want to go out with someone that likes another girl. But, if you really love and trust him, then take him back! Hope this Helps! <3 xoxo-megan [ CheerMMS24's advice column | Ask CheerMMS24 A Question ]
Jes4advice answered Monday August 2 2004, 2:05 pm: I would, but be very careful. Especially since he loves this crush. She could come along and take him from you and break ur heart. Or he could cheat on you. But if you really like him then try it, but all im saying is be VERY careful! Hop-e i helped.. ~Jes~ [ Jes4advice's advice column | Ask Jes4advice A Question ]
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