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Hi im a 13 year old girl... whenever my friends have a problem they always come to me because im really good with advice... I admit there are times where I cant answer somethings but most of the time im good... but i can never seem to give myself advice...

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ok my area 'down there' is kind of like swollen. im a girl and i noticed that the flaps are kind of stucking out. are they suppossed to be like that?

EWWW THATS NASTY! EITHER YOUR REALLY DIRRTY OR SOMETHIN OR YOU GOT AN STD!

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Me and my sister (12) just got in a huge screaming match. i love her very much, we havent fought that bad in awhile, but we just got really really mad at each other and just started screaming and hitting and fighting.. what should i do? i want to be friends again but im angry and confused!!!!

okay tell her what you just told us tell her you love her verymuch and dont want to fight with her and discuss how the fight started and discuss with her what bothers you about her and have her do the same about you and try to work things out : )


hope i helped if you need anymore help just drop one in my box!

-Kati

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ok.......theres this guy that i've been friends with benifits for a while. i've done things with him twice. the first time he said he used me but the secind time he dint bcuz he was thinkin bout askin me out. then a couple weeks later he goes out with one of my friends but still says he likes me. they broke up a couple days ago and now he wants to get together(hint hint). i like him alot, so much that i feel like im in love with him...lol. but what should i do? should i keep messin around with him or tell him that if were not gunna have a relationship then im not gunna be friends with benifits???? please help

okay i think that with your case you need to lay the law down with him... ask him wahts goin on ask him if your ever goin to have a relationship and no more kissy kissy no more touchy touch no more nuttin... see how he feels about that if he gets madd then he just likes to get with you if he dates you go like a week before you start doing things again you just have to see what the results are with all those it all depends...

hope i helped if you need anymore help just drop one in my box! tell me what happens so i can give ya some more advice!

-Kati

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there is this kid that is always following me around. i dont know how to say stop with out hurting his feelings. like if i go to the library, he follows me. if i go to the sotre, he follows me, what should i say?

teh can you say stalker!!! go up to him and be like "why do you follow me everywhere???" let him answer and if its a dumb answer just be like "well i dont like it so stop" but hey maybe he likes you or somethin then maybe you can get to know him and stuff and maybe youll go out with him in the future... : )

hope i helped if you need anymore help just drop one in my box!

-Kati

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It's allergy season and my nose won't stop running, and I can't stop sneezing! I am thinking of getting a nose spray, but have never used one because I am always scared it might hurt. Can anyone recommend something?

im 13 and i use a nose spray its fine i use flonase i thinkim not sure it works really well... all you have to do is tilt your head back close one nostril then spray it in the other... then it helps if you breathe in through your nose then do it to the next nostril.... its kinda annoying but it doesnt hurt at all...

hope i helped if you need anymore help just drop one in my box!

-Kati

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i was wondering if anyone knows if u can have multiple songs for an xanga site like more then one song please help thanks and if u can please tell me how

i dont think you can but maybe if you put the url to 2 songs in the music url box maybe just maybe it will play the one then the other idk


hope i helped if you need anymore help just drop one in my box!

-Kati

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hey...its me again. well everytime i try and talk to her, she always starts yelling at me and she starts cursing me out and stuff...i really don't no what to do..

well then i dont think shes a true friend and im sorry that i didnt write back in awhile... i hope i helped... if you ever need more help just drop one in my box

Kati

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13/fe well me and my friend fight a lot..and right now...were not talking and it makes me kinda sad. were not that good of friends but we hang ou once and a while and shes really nice. she has been kinda mean to me lately and im kinda scared that me and her won't become friends anymore. and like all of ym friends are friends w/ her and then either me or her wont be invited places becasue ppl would no we would cause a problem..what should i do now?:-/


i think you should talk it out with your friend... tell her that you dont really want to fight but shes been a little mean to you... dont be scared to talk to her about it... i hope i helped... if you ever need anymore help just drop one in my box...
Kati

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i cut myself a lot just to make the pain go away and i told one person and they told me to tell my parent but i dont want to i wanna stop but i cant its just hard i need help can someone tell me wat to do please

OKay lisen i can understand why you cut ya self...i mean my 2 sisters do sumtimes so i know and the way to handle this is before you do think of good times and dont think any bad things at all...if you ever wanna cut your self again think very carefully about what your doin ..One time i almost cut my self becasue of this boy..but i didnt becasue there are alot of other things in life that can be so much better then just wasting your time on that one thing...dont tell your parents till it gets really bad...wbut what i did i told my mom and she helped me out alot...so i hope i gave good advie..if ya ever need me Box me in..

Tasha

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alright well i had sex with this guy ... i dont know why ...serioulsy it just like happend ang uugh i dont know im afraid for everyone to find out b/c theyre gunna say shit but i know people are gunna start finding out when school starts ... and my one friend totally flipped out on me when she found out ... and she started telling people even though she said she wouldnt she says she didnt tell no one but everyone said she was the one who told trhem ... but i think shes just jealous b/c she was always saying how she wanted to have sex with this guy im late for my period too ... only by like a couple days but im still kind of nervous about it ... idk what to do when people satrt finding out ......... :-/

well it was your decision to have sex and you have to live with your decision so you cant let what ppl say get to you... and it sounds like your "friend" isnt a true friend... a true friend would understand and help you... I hope I helped... if you ever need anymore help just drop one in my box :)
Kati

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female/15 well im really in love with this guy. i know i need to move on. i really do. hes already got a g/f and he moved on. but im not so sure how to. i packed everyhting that reminded me of him in a box. and i try not to think abut him. but i love him. and im completey crushed? what can i do to get over him? but the whole thing is, in a way, i kind of dont want to. so its gunna tkae a lot? please help :( im desprete. i cant stay like this.

okay well my friend is goin through the exact same thing... everytime you think you love him just think of what he did to you and what he put you through... and talk to friends alot try to keep your mind off him... try to stay away from him... I hope I helped... if you ever need anymore help just drop one in my box :)
Kati

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okay. well my boyfriend who i really loved broke up with me. and now hes going out with someone else. and i hate that person. i started cutting again, adn i cant controll it. i wanna kill this girl. but if i do, then he wil hatae me even more. about a year ago, i broke up with him for someone, and he waited. should i wait for him like he waited for me, or should i jsut move on? because when i broke up with him, even though i had a b/f, i called him and asked him to hang out and we flirted and acted as if we were still going out, but he doesnt do any of that for me. so its a really different sitaution. hes so mean to me, and hes crushing me. but i love him more than anyhting in the world. i know its love.

okay well i think that you should try to move on... and i know how hard that can bebut hes being a jerk and who cares if gets madd at you... (this is gonna sound mean) hes not gonna go out with you unless he has no one else cuz hes a dick... please stop cutting tho when ever you have the erge to cut come talk to me or your sister... i hope i helped if you ever need anymore help just drop one in my box!!

Kati

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my friend says we will be aiwasy best friends forever.then behind my back she makes friends with my sister and they become best friends.then when i ask her who she likes more she sayz i dunno but hangs with my sis ter more.do yo think shes still friends with me

well if she still hangs with you then she is and you shouldnt make her pick between u and your sister... if she stops hanging with you then shes not your friend.. I hope I helped... if you ever need anymore help then drop one in my box :)

Kati

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Is it bad or like not cool to go out wit ure frends ex bf?? cuz my frend sed if once ure frend goes out wit a guy the guy is "their property" nd the frends cant go out wti them but then my otha frend has like stolen like 5 of my bfs.. so is it bad to go out wit ya gurls ex (not steal but just like a while after they break up.)
thnx

well it depends you should ask your friend for her permission because if they still have feelings for that person they might get mad... I hope I helped... If you ever need anymore help just drop one in my box...

Kati

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Is it ok to just flirt? I used to like be obbsessed with different guys but now I just wanna have fun...is that ok?

of course... its incredibly fun to do it so do it!! and if anyone tells you its bad then they are stupid... but if you have a b/f no flirting!!! i hope i helped... if you ever need anymore help just drop one in my box :)
Kati

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I really like this guy (im 15/f) like i think it might be love.. but he has a girlfriend.. me n him always chill n like make out n stuff.. and he always tells me he loves me.. but why is he with her?

hes just tryin to play you i think... but try talking to him see what he says... and then tell me and ill tell ya if hes really playin wit your head.... i hope i helped... if you ever need anymore help just drop one in my box :)
Kati

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i was @ a lake w/ lyk 25 of my friends and i was on my way to the tent. 3 or 4 of my guy friends gagged my and took me in the water.they held my arms back and took off my clothes...one of them fingered me then held my legs open while the last one idk wut u would call it but he had sex w/ me...in the water...idk wut to do...help!

that is terrible... thats rape... you need to tell your family and the police... i hopei helped drop one in my box if you need anything else...

kati

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guys wut could a gurl do that will turn you on? and make you wanna get wit her?

I know its not the question but i know how to make your b/f crazy okay well there ONE thing you can do to a guy that has a 100% chance of giving him a boner nibble and lick his ear!! it drives them crazy... just so ya know im a girl!

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ok i am 13 5'6' and 116 pounds. girls in my grade that are bigger than me spread rumors that i am anorexic! i am not at all. my guy friends (who are like my only friends these days) say " what the f**k u eat as much as a guy" and its just my body type. how can i get people to stop these ridiculous rumors?!

well first i know exactly how you feel cuz im 13 5'3' and i weigh 87 pounds and i am not anerexic but ppl think i am tell the ppl flat out that you are not anorexic and tell them to stop... and if they dont just let it roll off your back it doenst matter what they think... they are just jealous that you are lighter then them
I hope i helped... if you ever need anymore advice just drop one in my box...


Kati

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hey some of my friends are doing this thing when they all gang up on me and its really annoying and im not sure if they r my friends still and a lot of ppl say 2 just hang out w. the guys bc none of them r like the girls (talking about eachother) should i or just play it cool and stay w. my "friends"?

welll if your so called "friends" are ganging up on you and being mean to you then they arent worth your time they arent really your friends... personally i rather hang out with the guys because they are kinda better then girls cuz girls always talk about eachother and they are whiney...

I hope I helped... if you ever need anymore help just drop one in my box!

Kati

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