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he always tells me he loves me... but he has a girlfriend
I really like this guy (im 15/f) like i think it might be love.. but he has a girlfriend.. me n him always chill n like make out n stuff.. and he always tells me he loves me.. but why is he with her?
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you are young so i would say he just wants his cake and eat it too. love at that age is rare to find so dont be sad about it. if you think you are in love now when you really find it you will be WOWED because the real thing is so much more then just alittle bit you have now. it may not seem like a little bit but when in the future you really find love you will look back and see how silly it was. good luck
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If he's with her, he obviously likes her.
he;s using you because he knows he can tell you that and you'll do something with him.
My advice, walk away from him and stop talking to him, he's obviously a jerkk.
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Because it may help you to see it if you hear it often enough, I will add more of the same.
He is with her because he loves her.
He tells you he loves you because you'll make out with him if he does.
Simple as that. You are being used. Men, and probably some women having been using this method
for years. Why? Because some girl always falls for it in a desperate attempt get him.
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Because he has to pretend to date her to keep her happy, where you're fine with knowing there's someone else and gullible enough to believe his bullshit "I love yous"
He's with her because she doesn't know and you don't care. If he let her know, he'd lose her. He doesn't have to do anything special to keep you.
Considering that he at least goes through the effort of secrecy for her, and not you, that means that if she found out and didn't dump him, he'd drop you like a bad habit. He doesn't care about you, he's just using you for whatever he can get.
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It's not love, You are simply flattered
If a guy is making out with you and has a girlfriend then clearly he isn't serious. At 15, Most boys are dating around to see what is out there never mind settling for one girl. Don't give into someone who plays mind games, Respect yourself
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Because he knows you're dumb enough to believe him and stay with him.
Sorry, but it's true. He gets to pick and choose which throat he wants to slide his tongue down, and that's a great situation for any 15-16 year old douche bag. You should just stop seeing him.
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Okay, so, I understand what your going through same thing happened to me. You may be thinking " wouldn't he just break up with her if he really liked me?" you might be true but, you know he truely does love you. He may fell bad for the girl and thinks you guys can date later and be even closer!
I know it sounds like a lame excuse but it's really what guys think. Sorry, best of luck. Don't forget to tell him what you feel .
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If he really likes you then he will break up with his gf but since he hasnt i think he might just be using you i suggest talking to him and asking whats up you dont want to be with a guy who doesnt really like you.
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If he's making out with you and he's got a girlfriend,that's not real nice. If you start going out with him,what makes you think that he won't do the same thing to you? He's with her because he wants a relationship with her,but he likes using and making out with you on the side. He's not a catch.
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Some guys do this because their feelings for someone else tend to change alot depending on how long they have been together i mean how long have you been hanging with him and everything cause if its not that long how can he already fall in love with you Hunny im 17 i feel in love and have been with the same person since my freshman year of high school and im still in love with him....but if its only been a few weeks or whatever tehn maybe its just a fling and hes looking for something more in a relationship that hes just not getting from him but if he wants to be with you then he needs to be with you and not her just dont get your heart broke sweetie!
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Hello...
If he has a girlfriend, and she does not know about you, then you are simply playing the other woman. He is showing a great deal of lack of respect or concern for both of you by his actions. If he truly loves you, as you say he says, he would not be stringing you along, and making you wait to be his one and only. Nothing good is ever kept secret and hidden from others. If you have to hide the fact that he you care about him and that the two of you are physically intimate, then something isn't right. At the moment you are playing second fiddle to his girlfriend. And I'm pretty sure she wouldn't be to happy to know her boyfriend is cheating on her.
He has no respect for either of you. Have some respect for yourself and tell him he needs to choose. Or make the choice for him, and go out and find yourself a boyfriend who deserves you. Because this guy, obviously doesn't.
~Mysti~
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He's just using you. When things go wrong with him and his girlfriend, he'll go back to you. Don't let him do that to you because he's gonna break your heart. Maybe he thinks he's some kind playa? Hope I helped!
<3 Karen
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I think he might be tryin' 2 cheat on her, unless his girlfriend knows about u. Hope it helps!
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*He's using you as a rebound. If things go wrong with him and her, he'll be running back to you. Don't waste your time with this guy, he will play you too.*
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hey, well once u are about to make out just say i can`t you have a girlfriend .. and see where he goes from there*
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he's cheating on his g/f with u. think about it. do u really want to get in the middle of this?? do u want to be the person he's cheating on his girlfriend with? he either has to break up with his girlfriend or u have to break things off with him.
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hes just tryin to play you i think... but try talking to him see what he says... and then tell me and ill tell ya if hes really playin wit your head.... i hope i helped... if you ever need anymore help just drop one in my box :)
Kati
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hey - i don`t wanna sound really mean or anything but.. if this guy is already cheating on another girl, who knows wut he`ll do to yu! yu need to get him to tell his gf wut he`s been doing with yu! then once she`s outa the picture - ask him out! lol =o) good luck
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because he is trying to be all 'macho' and crap and have a girlfriend with one on the side. that is DEFINENTLY not cool... this guy is a player! anyone who would do that to you (or do that to another girl) doesnt love you. love is when you have feelings for ONE person, and he obviously has them for two. i think you should make the guy choose between you before you continue your relationship, because that way you know you just arent his" chick on the side"
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first of all is his girlfriend nice and second of all if she is than i wouldn't make out with him or tell him u love him cause think how she would feel if she cout u doin that stuff with him but u could chill with them sumtimes just dont' make out!!
hop i helped!!
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It's really really obvious that he is using u.He does not love u from any angle.He's just filling his needs and desires by using u cuz maybe this other girl is not around most of the time.I think it's about time he decides whom he wants to be with.I hope my advice worx out 4 u.
*~~Kariena~~*
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Me may be with this girl because he likes both of you. But if he did ever break up with his girl friend would you really want to go out with a cheater? think about it.
xoxo Chels
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He may be with her,because he like both you you,hun,he is cheating on his girlfriend with you.What if he goes out with you wouldnt he do the same thing to you?Think about that
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Well first of all...this guy is playing you. Im really sorry...but think about it, if he would cheat on her with you, he would do the same to you if he was going out with you. You just have to step back and let this one go.
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he sounds like hes cheating. first of all. why do YOU make out with him? thats like...not cool. HE has a gf. and he would probably be with you if he really did LOVe you like he says he does. i wouldnt believe him. he sounds like a real jerk. dont get your heart broken <3 ck
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he prolly still likes her just a little but he's scared to break up with her. Sometimes you gotta give situations like that time. If he's telling you that he loves you and you think he means it then just give him time and he'll break up with her..I promise...
please drop one in my inbox if you have a question or just wanna talk
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First of all, you're hooking up with a taken man? That's not cool. Tell him that if he really loves you then he'll break up with girlfriend.
Sounds to me as if he's using you.
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well i dont wanna bring all your hopes down but it sounds like.. If hes gonna cheat on his gf with you like that... Dont you think that if you two started going out.. hes gonna do it to you hun?.. Once a cheater always gonna be a cheater..
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Well,you should definitely let him know how you're feeling,and if you truly feel that he doesn't "belong" with her,he "belongs" with you,tell him that! But I just wanna also say,try and put yourself in that girl's place.Would you wanna find out your bf was messin around with another girl,and telling her he loved her? Probably not,and if this guy is willing to keep stringing you AND his gf along,he really needs to be told to knock it off!Somebody will get hurt if this keeps on.But I'm totally not denying or dismissing your feelings,or his for you.It's certainly possible that it's love.Love can be found in the most unlikely of places!!I'm just saying...proceed with caution! ;)
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tel him if he like s him so much y are with with that otha girl that wrong
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