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well...i am a cutter. i have been cutting for about a year now. by the way i am 13 and female. i want to know why i feel so great after i do cut. its like nothing is wrong after i cut. i have tried to stop....but it has never worked.

also... do u know where i could find other people that are self addmitted cutters?

Me i am i use to cut when i was younger too im 17 now its hard to stop i know but sometimes maybe you just need to ask for help thats the best way sometimes i know thats what i did and i havent done it in over 4 years now but you have to talk to someone you know you can trust and if i can help at all just im me or write me back my IM is untouched926
-Cass-

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My friend told me tht she caught her sister cutting....Can ne1 tell me wht tht is? I asked her wht it wuz and she looked @ me like I wuz crazii...Wht is it?! I need 2 no!!

cutting is when you take a sharp object and make deep or just marks in your skin and sometimes they can bleed and sometimes not but its not good if you need ne more help just ask
-Cass-

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i was thinking of babysitting for people..(most likely people i dont know) with a friend of mine..this way the job is easier. Is this a good idea? Do you think i`ll be successful? How should i get perfect strangers to trust me to babysit their kids...any tips? thank you :)

I think that its a good job well see i babysit four boys and everything and well my boyfriend helps me out all the time and well see if they trust your friend then it just takes time and everything
-cass-

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hey i think i might be overweight. i'm 5'7 and weigh 105 lbs. my bff said i'm a beanpole. but i think i culd lose weight. help.

hun u are not over weight at all your a beanpole like they said i think that your just over looking yourself and u just think that your fat when your really not listen to the bff...
-Cass-

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My boyfriend and i had sex the first time last week. Now we are doing it w/out the condom. He says that he has his cum under control and he knows when it is comming out. So he said that when it comes out or feels like it he will get out of me and wipe it off. He said w/out cum you can not get pregnate b/c with cum it has the sperms. Now is this true or is he lying to get me pregnate. Please help Me!!!!!!! :*(

not teh precum which is on the dick before nething and the cum cum doesnt really contain the sprem i wouldnt have sex with him unless he puts a condom on now!!!
-Cass-

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im peeing sooo much lately lke im talking like 3 times perhour
whats wrong with me? i jus got treated for a bladder infection???

sometimes that just happens i know that it happends to me sometimes when i have drank a lot or liquids it just depends
-Cass-

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What does "BFF" mean???

best friend forever
-Cass-

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okay here's my story..i had this realli mean ex b/f who treated me like crap! i cried n cried over him every single day we were dating and somewhat after we broke up! so one day i decided to stop all my crying and get even! he has this g/f that he never even met before! lol but he is always telling me and everyone how much he loves her! haha yea..anyways i got my friend who lives in texas to start talkin n messin around with my ex.. ( i told him that she was my homeschooled neighbor)---like she would say stuff like "ohh your realli sexi..i wanna be with you" and just completely act that way! and my ex was always telling me how he never cheated on me and how he never would cheat on anyone..blah blah blah! so basically i was also testing his skills to see if he is a player! well guess what i found out..he is! he was telling my friend how much he likes her and wants to hang out with her and all that crap! and i have everything saved! so yes he does cheat! and he was also telling my friend that he doesnt have a g/f! what a loser! so anyways..he unblocked me from the computer and writing to me ever since i hooked him up! so we were getting along perfectly..then my friend told him that it was just a joke..she wasn't my neighbor..and everything..and now he's soo ticked it isn't even funny! haha i told him off majorly tho yesterday! but anyways..what should i do?! should i apoligize?..but he's done soo much crap to me before and now i'm in counseling because of him! so i don't know what to do! please help! i will rate you!

I dont think that you should apoligize to him cause of all the crap he put you thro you shouldnt have had to take from him at all and now hes put you in counseling and all no i wouldnt tell him sorry alls you did was get even and yeah hes gonna be ticked but i mean its his own fault for treating you the way he did hope i helpd
-Cass-

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It's allergy season and my nose won't stop running, and I can't stop sneezing! I am thinking of getting a nose spray, but have never used one because I am always scared it might hurt. Can anyone recommend something?

flonase it works but sometimes youll just have to go to an allergy doctor and they can get you something that will work better
-Cass-

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Does anyone know of any side effects of the Birth Control Patch? The pill makes me sick, the shot made me gain 50 pounds and took away the urge, and I really want something that is low maintenance.

the pill is really easy you just take it everyday and verything for me it has no side effects at all
-Cass-

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i was dating this guy for about 3 months and things got pretty serious. we spent every day together and he would stay and my house and vice versa. his ex girlfriend called one night and he broke up with me to see if things would work with her and they didnt. he called about a month after we broke up and said that he made a huge mistake for breaking up with me cause i was the best thing that had ever happened to him. we got back together and things were great, actually better than ever or so i thought. one day when she called again he started getting weird again and told me that he once again needed time. i took all of my stuff from his house and said that i wasnt playing second best anymore. i gave him all i had and thought that this was it. that he was the one. and unfortunately im a mess over him. i know he treats me horrible in this situation but ive never been so inlove with someone before. and i dont know what to do. someone just help. please.

Hun, I know that you're in love but sweetie this guy totatlly left you for his ex girlfriend to me shes the one playing games if they keep spliting up and everything to me i think that you need to just forget him yeah i know its hard, but at some point i know you realize this now but he treated you like shit and you know this with this whole thing and to me no girl deserves that if you need someone to talk to im here for ya my AIM-Untouched926 or just put on in the inbox i hope i kinda helpd
-Cass-

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i rlly dont wanna go to school tomorrow...i get made fun of, but thats not the point. i just wanna make myself throw up one time. ill never do it again..is that really bad?

Can i recomend a book to you maybe that will help i just finished it its about bullies and stuff like that and im hoping that it will help you its called "please stop laughing at me..." by Jodee Blanco and its a true story its really good and i hope that it will help you
-cass-

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You all have helped me with answerin my questions.. but this one is kinda difficult.. All your advice has helped alot.. but I can't picture myself with out my EX kevin.. But when I think about it i'd be better off with someone else.. Kevin is a great guy and I still love him so much.. he tells me all the time that he still loves me but I don't no if i can believe it! I don't know what to do.. I don't know if I should just forget about Kevin and move on or If I should give kevin anonther chance..

HELP ME PLEASE!

*~SO LOST AND CONFUSED~*

I think that you should give him another chance, i know that i gave my bf now another chance and we've been together for 4 years now i mean if you still have feelings for him and still love him i say go for it but only if you think its the right decision for you
hope i helped
-Cass-

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This might sound a lil weird.. but im 15 and i was wondering when is the best age to start having sex?

there is no best age its just when you really feel ready to go for it but its all up to the person there is no best age
-Cass-

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Ok..I like this kid jonathan..we went out but like practically just broke up.My friend likes him now and i know it but she wont tell me..she keeps beating around the bush!The thing is she starts to like everyboy i liked,matt,sayon,peter,the list goes on..but now its jonathan..im not letting her do it this time.but i dont know what to do should i stop being friends with her or just tell her to step off jonathan what should i do?!

U need to tell her to step bak and U need to confront her with what shes doing its like she doesnt want to see U happy or soemthing but you need to say something to her i think or just flat out dont be friends with her but tell her what shes doing wrong and all first!
-Cass-

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Pullout like a sex term i'm guessing...what does it mean? thanks

to be honest i have no clue i havent ever heard of that
sorry
-Cass-

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okay, i am a 17 yr old girl, and the guy i am crazy for is 18, only like 3 or 4 months over tho, and my mom is freaking out over it! she's like, "if you guyz do anything, i will get him for rape" im in a tough situation and i dont really know what to do. i went to my friend and she said "follow your heart" how typical... ;D (luv ya tho sis!!!! if ya see this here! lol) ...anyways. i dont know what to do because i simply adore him, and my mom is okay with us hanging out and holdign ahnds and stuff, but i dont know about dating. help me!!!! cuz i dont wanna lose him (not that i am gonna do anyhting sexual with him anywayz! ) and i dont wanna dissapoint my mom... so either way some oen gets let down, and i really dont know what to do!

i think that you mom is over-reacting cuase i mean im 17 and my bf is 18 and everything its not like your too far behind him and all but i think that you mom needs to take a chill pill i mean alls you can do is show your mom that hes not a bad guy or nething good luck
-Cass-

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Can anyone give me Ideas? I want to get my boyfriend a gift and I'm all out of ideas!!! Some info that might help you is he is kinda in the middle of punk and prep not in clicks or anything he is 17 and we have been dating for 7 1/2 months. I want something thats cute and shows I love him but does not but cost a lot of money~ Please help me out~

you could make him something if you wanted to or something like that its not that muchi know that i have done it for my bf of 4years and he loves that kinda stuff cause he thinks it means more
-Cass-

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ok i gotta ask this now..i heard someone say something bout there bf bein bipolar..what does that mean? is it like split personality?! also..my ex was really mean and called me hoe and stuff then like the day before that he was like baby i love you ill never leave ur side..is that bipolar?

no its not bipolar its called a fucked up exboyfriend if you ask me bipolar means that they can have various mood swings like go from happy to depressed in like no time but i dont think that you exboyfriend is bipolar hes just gay
-Cass-

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Hello, i am an 18 yr old grl dating a 28 yr old guy. See i have this thing with me not going to have sex till marriage which is not a bad thing... right? well my b/f knows this and knows my limits.. but see everytime we get alone and stuff he always tries to stick his dick in me. He almost did about hmmmm should i say 5 TIMES!!!!!!
Its not easy to remain abstinent but i tell you what its not FUN EITHER!! Its like your head is telling you go for it and grab the fuckin condoms but yet your heart is like wait a fuckin min. do you really know this guy or is he just using you for sex?? see the 17th is our 5th month anniversay
but yet i knew him for a few months before we started dating. so my question is to you all is what am i supposed to do. He promised me he would never do it again but yet he said that last time. I told him hes lucky b/c usually its like a baseball game 3 strikes your out!! but yet i've given him 5 chances so far and this is the last chance. So what should i do?? let him try and screw me or what?? See I love him to death but as you can tell i am not ready yet! I need help and need it bad! Plz someone help me.. i really need it!!

I think that you need to let him go you have givin him so many chances and everything and this is still happening i mean yeah hes 10 years older then you and i mean hes a horn dog i think that you 18 and there are so many other guys out there that would respect you a bit more then he does cause i mean he should even try to dick with u haha made a funny sorry anyway but i think that you should let him go if says that he wouldnt do it again and broke a promise and everything i mean you can see where this is going hes just going to continue trying to stick his dick in you and everything but i give you ups on still being a virgin i am too and im 17
Hope everything turns out okay
-Cass-

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