hey. well the thing is, we are best friends. we've been best friends since... i don't know 7th grade ? he never used to be like this. i knew him like the back of my hand. once high school started he changed big time. i don't know what happend. it kills me though.
he knows i like him. he's always been fine with it no matter what. thats why i loved our friendship so much. just when high school started he changed. maybe its because he went to a diferent school ? i don't know.
Well hunny. He's hitting puberty. He's trying to figure out who he is. His "new" friends, his new interest. Not everyone is going to be the same person that you "once" knew. Trust me, I wished that before...but everything happens for a reason. If your friendship with him was as strong, things will just fall into place. The best thing to do is give it time...talk things out. Different schools or not, just know that friendships are hard to find. Since high school is a new world, && a lot of people are hard to trust. GIVE IT TIME! Let him know how you're feeling. I hope you get things straightened out hunn! Best of luck!
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hey. okay so i have this guy friend. we were so close. told eachother like everything. i liked him a lot, and i still do. we tend to fight about stupid stuff but it only lasts a day if even that. and like he was at a friends house with a bunch of his guys friends and they IMd me talking all this crap to me and it bothered me a lot. and then knowing he was apart of it. told me to "go eat more mcdonalds" "fat whore" and all this other stuff. idk what to think about it. to be mad at him or to keep trying or idk what. there was these fake s/n's and he was talking crap to one of them about me and i was told about it and i asked him and asked if he was joking and he said "of course", but now that, that happend with all them i don't know what to believe. i like him a lot. and he was the best of friend i could ask for. what do i do ?
Guys!
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My boyfriend likes to grab my butt when were standin upp and kissing.. he later told me that it makes me kiss more when he does that.. [ there was a joke involved but you wouldnt understand] anyways.. i sorda wanna get him back.. so where should i touch him that he'll kiss more? =).
Kiss Moreee!
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hey, well my boyfriend used to have a bestfriend named marc. i used to be friends with marc too. like me, my boyfriend, marc, and lucy could hang out together. even any combination of people. but then marc went away. so to replace marc for being his bestfriend he made bestfriends with this kid named eric. now eric was from his football team and i dont know eric at all. but now my boyfriend is with eric every single day like no lie and has no time for me anymore. and its not like we can all hang out because i dont know eric. also my boyfriend has mentioned to me that eric doesnt like me, but what i dont get is i never even met him before. a month ago we broke up because we never saw each other, but that time it was my my moms fault because she didnt trust my boyfriend yet. so i called him and explained to him what happened. he understood and asked me back out again. but the last time i spent time with my boyfriend was not last tuesday, but the tuesday before that =/. but on last tuesday after football and cheering i saw him for maybe 5 minutes and we talked for 5 minutes, but i dont call that spending time togethter. ive hinted to him many times that we dont see each other and say that we should hang out soon, but he always says oh i have plans with eric and stuff like oh baby im sorry ill call you tommorow, but he never calls cause hes with eric. monday-friday my boyfriend and eric have football. monday-thursday i have cheering. so you think that monday-friday would be enough time to spend with eric. the only real time me and my boyfriend can hangout is saturday and sunday, but of course he already has plans with eric. i mean we could hang out before and after cheering but again he usually has plans with eric and if he doesnt its hard to do because of rides and stuff. when hes with eric he basically never calls me. sometimes there will be 1-2 days of him not calling me because hes been with eric for 1-2 days. if we do talk its only for 30 minutes and its 30 minutes of him yelling at his paintball game. before we used to talk for 3 hours straight and i felt some type of connection and now im not so sure if i do anymore. im starting to feel really bad about this and im getting sort of jealous that eric gets to spend more time with him then i do! schools going to start soon and me and my boyfriend go to different schools so summers basically the time we need to hang out, because of all the homework and football and cheering at night. also yesterday he actually did call me with eric, i was with my two friends allie and jillian, but that didnt make a difference. so he called and said lets meet on razon st. [ near my house ]. so he said to figure it out and call him back. so i did and i was like were not going to meet you there because we cant. then he was like good because me and eric decided that we didnt want to walk there anyways and they were already walking to somewhere else. i foudn taht rude. so today he actually called me and was like hey. i was like oh where did you go yesterday. he said to this girls house. i felt hurt and im usually not this sensitive. i was like oh was it erics friend or yours. he said mine then he said you dont know her. i was like how do you know, i wanna know who it is. then he said too bad. today we only talked for 30 minutes and it was yelling at his paintball thing again most of the time. please help i just dont know what to do anymore. thank you os much for reading!
Boyfriends NEW Best friend
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ok so here is the deal. i shave down there region. but i always get razor burn and ingrown hairs. is there anyway to prevent this from happenes. becuase i just dont like my boyfriend looking at it after i shave becuase i think it liiks ugly. please help. oh yeah i am 19
Shaving
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What are the side effects of being on birth control? Good and bad?
I will be going on the pill once I'm 16. Not for sex though, for those lovely...wonderful cramps..
Birth Control!
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I am looking for a third month anniversary gift idea for my girlfriend. I am 15 and she is also 15. I gave her a 70 dolar necklace for our 1st month anniversary and I would appreciate the help if you could throw out some good ideas for our 3rd month. My money is limited to about 100 dollars or less. Thank you
paul
Paul
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i am 16 and still not had my period. is this really bad? i dont wanna go to the gyno tho. so what should i do?
*Period*
If you're 16 && not having your period, is normal. Usually you'll get it when your mom had hers. My mom had hers when she was 14. I had mine when I was 10. So it wasn't a normal cycle until I hit that age. It's not bad, but I would deff. go get check. You know? Just to be on the safe side. The only thing the doctors will tell you, is wait, or ask you if you want to be on the pill. So then you can start having a normal mentral cycle. Reason why people don't get their period, is because they haven't hit PUBERTY yet.
Honestly, the thing you should do, is tell your mom. Then she can call in && make an appointment for you to get check. That's the best && safe way I can think of. I wish you the best of luck!
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I have really bad love handles. What is a way to get rid of them?
*Love Handles*
I have love handles too. Every girl does. A really good way to lose them is swimming. That's one of the only healthy way that I heard from friends, family, and Doctors. So I wish you the best of luck!
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I would like to know if you have heard of Autism. Also, have you worked talked to any other people besides me about this?
*Autism*
Yes I have heard about it before...from my friends && Teachers. All I really know is that it's a disorder that deals with communication. Something to do with Genes. Statistic says that 3-6 out of 1000 kids will be diagnosed with Autism. Honestly I don't know people who have it. But I've seen them before. I've heard my teachers talk about it...or some friends. But we really don't speak much of it...because of some people being very blunt about things...that it may cause others to feel uncomfortable. But I hope I helped out a little bit. If you need anything...please feel free to drop by again.
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when i sit near this guy.. i get this little fuzzy feeling in my stomach.. i really dont know what this feeling means.. thats why i need help.. i kind of like this guy too... the only problem is i have a boyfriend:(:( but i havent seen him in about four weeks and its driving me crazy..
please help me:(
*Fuzzy Feeling*
That "Fuzzy Feeling" you have in your stomach is another word for butterflies. You might have a crush on the kid. That's normal to have those type of feelings. With the boyfriend thing...maybe you have lost interest in him...and you see something else in this NEW guy! You know? Just give yourself a few times to think things through. Like try to talk to your boyfriend before you guys break up or you start talking to the guy that gives you a Fuzzy feeling. Make sure you don't regret things in the end...Best of luck!
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What's the best kinds of women's deordorant that smells good? And don't say Lady Speed Stick, because I hateee that. Thanks.
*Deodorant*
Well I use Secret Platinum clear gel berry sparkle. I think it smells really good...you can deff smell it, and a lot of guys think it's smells good too. lol! I've really active so using this you can't see the white stuff that other deodorant leaves...and I just luve the scent...so i suggest the secret platinum berry sparkle clear gel! Well this is just my opinion...best of luck finding the one you like!
Take it Easy...XoxO
*PhuonG*
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I am a female, age 15, and I've never had sex or have been raped, but i was wondering if its normal for other girls or if its natural to have little bumps on your vagina...like pimple looking but they dont hurt or itch or break open so its not warts or anything..so can you just tell me if other girls have this???
*BodY ParT*
Well since your 15 and haven't experience any sexual intercourse...that's so good! I'm happy for you. Umm I'm not sure if it's normal. But I think i know like a couple of people who does. I'm not sure what it could be. But It can be razor burns. Well another thing is, you don't have to have sex or get raped to get those things...maybe you did like oral or touched around there and it just irratates your skin. Normal isn't really the word, but like you must of done something in order to have bumps...
To answer the question Some girls do get it though.
Hope I helped out a bit. But if you have any other questions feel free to dropp it off in the inbox! Best wishes.
Take it Easy
-PhuonG
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So theres this kid that I like. I'm 15 and hes 17. Hes leaving for college next year, but I really want a relationship with him. BUT I don't want to keep him back from his college experience and I don't want us to have to worry about eachother. (You know like...worrying about if their cheating on you) What should I do?!
*ConfuseD AbouT A GuY*
Hey! Well your still young, and age really doesn't matter but when you're still in high school it does. It seems like you know what you want...ask him what does he want? If you already have second thoughts about this...do you think it's a good idea? Honestly it depends on both of your feelings for eachother. If it's strong enough then both of you are willing to sacrafice(sp?) a lot for eachother then go for it. Long distance are hard to work out...but everythings worth a try. College is an experience that is more then high school. People party, get wasted, meet new people, and maybe bump into the love of their life.
I understand that you don't want to hold him back...but wouldn't it be great if you guys just pick it up when he returns or you meet with him. Best thing to do is talk to him. When you do end up talking...ask about what's up with you two, how will this work, do you want something to happen...just everything!
I hope I helped out a little bit, but if you need anything else feel free to stopp by again. By the way...I think it'll be better if you IM on aim!!!Best wishes with the situation...
*PhuonG*
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dude
lol...thats not a question hunn!
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My best friend was so scared to do anything last year and now this year she is like drinkin and gettin high and shit i dont kno who she is what can i do cause i love her to death but i dont want her to change and be sumone else just so she can fit in when i found out what she was doing it really hurt me how should i ask her to stop???
:*:Hey:*:
Well I guess you came to the right person. Thanx for relying on me. When you said" I don't kno who she is" what is that suppose to mean? Like who she is right now, and last year? Well you have to know people change. Maybe not for the right reason...but it does happen. Do you honestly think she's changing for the "wrong" reasons?
Its like this. Once they start is pretty hard to stop. That's what my ex said. Quiting is the hardest thing. Help your friend by being by her side. Tell her how you feel. Sit her down when you guys are hanging out. If it's in a big group then pull her out one-on-one. It'll be really mean if you just bust her out like that.
So talk to her. Tell her how you feel..."I luve you to death, you like my best friend. I'm scared that I might lose you if you keep doing drugs and alcohol." Say something from the heart. That was just an example.
She should be thankful that she has someone like you to be there for her, someone that cares for health. We do need more people out there like you. When you ask her to "stop". State your reasons why. Tell her how you STRONGLY feel about it. Tell her how it affects you. How it'll affect her.
I hope your friend realises it quick before it's too late. Tell me how everything goes. Best Wishes!!!! Don't be scared either...ok?
Take Care...XoxO
-Phuong
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ok well were REALLY REALLY close and tell eachother everything but it seems like when i hint to him how I feel about him he doesn't talk to me as much the next day at skool.We have a CLOSE bond.I know I should let him do what he wants and I did but he didn't do it bc it started arguments and he cared enough about me to forget about it.Sometimes i AM scared to say things to him and I know I shouldn't be NOT at all!Ok well if u have any more advice PLEASE say...it would be soo much help...
:*:Hey:*:
The reason why your guy friend doesn't talk to the next day, after you got done hinting him, is because he's scared. He's nervous. It's like a guy is close friends with a girl because he's more relax, himself, comfortable, all sorts of things with you then his "girlfriends".
All I'm saying is wouldn't you rather have him in your life then not have him at all? If he keeps doing this, he might be like we need time apart...which is saying, your scaring me! So just take it easy, and let time fly. I know you really hate letting time take it place, because it seems forever and half. Right?
Don't stress over this. At least your still close to him. Most of the time, guys just avoid you when he gets that you like them. Stupid, but true. Another thing is, maybe he doesn't want to ruin your friendship with eachother, and going out would cause some breakage. You know? Things change when you go out and breakup.
Just be friends. GOOD relationships starts off as friends,but yours even better(Best Friends). Just let time take place. Everything will get better. I know.
Hope i helped, feel free to stop by if you have anything else. Best wishes and tell me how things go. =)
Take Care...XoxO...One Luve!
:*:Phuong:*:
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Ok theres this guy I like and we met in kindergarden but became GOOD friends in the 7th grade.But he went out with one of my best friends and then she dumped him.And now im really really starting to think i LOVE him.And he has been thinking about asking out one of my best friends.What do I do?What should I say to him?
:*:Hey:*:
Well how can you think your in LOVE with him, when you guys started being close in 7th? What makes you think it? Do you guys have that special bond? If he's thinking of asking one of your best friend out...then let him do what he likes. Your not dating...if you love him, you just let him do whatever makes him happy. That's what I did.
Since you said you guys are pretty close friends. You shouldn't be scared to tell them anything right? Well if you want him to know and date you...tell him. Tell him how you feel. Let him know. Don't come to strong because you don't wnat to scare him.
Honestly just let him know what's going on. Tell him how you feel. I know you'll probably be nervous...but EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON! Just give it a try. Don't be the people that are like I wish he knows, what if we did go out...THE PEOPLE WHO WONDERS AND ASK! Just do it.
I hope I helped. Tell me how everything goes...Best wishes. If you need anything else,feel free to drop by my inbox!
Take Care...XoxO...One Luve!
-Phuong
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I like being fucked up my ass and im a guy is that normal me and my freind do it every weak i love it we cum in eachothers asses and it feels great can u join us sometime?
Hey! Well that's good for you. I guess...in an odd way! But it's not that normal unless your HOMOSEXUAL. If you and your friend do it every week. Check if you have any STD's! If you love it so much, make sure of your sexuality.
Sorry guys I'm not going to get in the threesome. It's just not cool, and way to kinky for me! I have other guys that I have my eyes on! lol. Sorry your out of luck! Well if you have any other questions then feel free to stop by. But don't leave it so many times! =)
Take care...XoxO...One Luve!
:*:Phuong:*:
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ok now you answred my ? on weather to move back or not and now how do i tell my friends down here cause the last time i was thinkin about it felicia started to cry and i dont want to hurt no one but like my heart in is michigan so plz help me
love ya
christyal
*ChRiStYaL*
Hey Girlie! Well, I hope you made the right decisions! For telling your friends down there, it takes a lot of courage. Just sit them down and explain to them. Tell them what you told me. "My Hearts in Michigan". If they care for you that much like how i think they do, especially Felicia, then they'll support you. Even though they're not happy about it, but friends only wants what's best for eachother...right? Felicia was emotional, because your a great person, and you probably made an impact on her. That's why she might of cried. Just because you moving up here don't change you friendship. This is the millenium(sp?) we have phones,emails,aim,yahoo,pretty much anything! Just stay in touch.
Tell your friends why your moving, give them reasonable answers. Not like because. That's just stupid, and might make them feel like they are not special, and hated! you know? but yea i think your friends will understand. Just explain to them, and from then on....hang out as much as you can. Exchange emails...screen names, phone numbers, adress, ANYTHING!!!! Hope everything works well down there for ya Christyal. Miss ya up in MICHIGAN! lol...tell me how things go, Best wishes! If you have anything else, feel free to drop by my inbox!
Take care.
-Phuong
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