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My best friend was so scared to do anything last year and now this year she is like drinkin and gettin high and shit i dont kno who she is what can i do cause i love her to death but i dont want her to change and be sumone else just so she can fit in when i found out what she was doing it really hurt me how should i ask her to stop???
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Well I guess you came to the right person. Thanx for relying on me. When you said" I don't kno who she is" what is that suppose to mean? Like who she is right now, and last year? Well you have to know people change. Maybe not for the right reason...but it does happen. Do you honestly think she's changing for the "wrong" reasons?
Its like this. Once they start is pretty hard to stop. That's what my ex said. Quiting is the hardest thing. Help your friend by being by her side. Tell her how you feel. Sit her down when you guys are hanging out. If it's in a big group then pull her out one-on-one. It'll be really mean if you just bust her out like that.
So talk to her. Tell her how you feel..."I luve you to death, you like my best friend. I'm scared that I might lose you if you keep doing drugs and alcohol." Say something from the heart. That was just an example.
She should be thankful that she has someone like you to be there for her, someone that cares for health. We do need more people out there like you. When you ask her to "stop". State your reasons why. Tell her how you STRONGLY feel about it. Tell her how it affects you. How it'll affect her.
I hope your friend realises it quick before it's too late. Tell me how everything goes. Best Wishes!!!! Don't be scared either...ok?
Take Care...XoxO
-Phuong
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