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A little less then two months ago I found out my cousin was raped and i've been having some trouble dealing with it.I'm really close to this cousin , she's liek my best friend.when i first found out i just started crying , i couldnt even look at anyone for a copuple days.That i had to cry myself to sleep.i used to live in a house with her in when i was younger,i lived on the bottom and she lived on the top.Whenever i think about her and her baby i cant help but cry and its so hard for me to look at her without crying.I cant help but think maybe if i hadnt moved away i would have been with her and i could have stopped the jerk who did this to her.I seem to be the only person in my family who thinks she can finish high school and still take care of her baby.i mean its her family thier supose to be supportive of her.She was raped when she was 14 and had her baby when she was 15.She was born about 3weeks ago.I still cant help but worry about her and feel like i could have done something and i should tell my parents to be more supportive of her and stop thinking so negative.I couldnt even talk to my best friend about this w/o feeling stupid so if anyone has any advice for me, please send it. (link)
Dear Really,
I noe this is hard for u to go thru. Maybe she should press charges on the guy who did that to her. Think some people may have been killed after a rape. BUT remember ur cousin lived strong through it. She may have a baby and if she doesnt want it there's a lot of mothere's who would want the baby. I hope i helped take care! Bye~

*Kristi*


im 14 and goin wit a grl i really like but all my freinds and even my dad say i should break up wit her and go out with this other grl. the problem is i like both of them alot but the grl im with usualy hase long relationships but the other grl doesnt. if i break up with the grl im with and then the other grl doesnt last long i will be givin up the relationship i wanted 4 a one week thing. if u can help me ill be really happy. thnx (link)
your friend trust me. Okay Chris, My oppinion is u shouldn't go out with either ur not gonna be happy. u should choose a girl that u can have a long relationhip not k or l.. u noe watt i mean!

Love ya!

*kristi*


hey i asked the question about being 13 and pregnant well i just found out im having twins!!! my question is wht do they do in a c-section people r tellin me in to tiny and might have to get a c-section, nd i just wanna no like is it more or less painful, and wht do they do! ill rate u, i need advice!! thnx (link)
ion is when ur to litttle to have a baby through ur vagina. A c-section is were they numb ur stomach and cut it open and get the baby out. I heared it feels better then it coming out ur vagina! Good LUCK!


Im moving in a few months, i hate it that i have to leave all my friends and everyone. i mean ill never forget them but im scared well loose touch and i dont want that. and when i go 2 a new school im gonna be so scared i hate it! ahh im so scared! (link)
Dear Moving, Im just gunna tell u that u r gunna make new friends and u can still keep in touch and during summer vacation visiting. Moving can be fun cuz u can do more stuff and have more fun. Dont Be Scared**..!!..** Glad i could help!!


KbEE


ok...my boyfriend isnt that great of a kisser. hes not bad, hes just not...great lol. should i just let things move along and see if he gets better at it or like...i dunno? lol, advie please! (link)
Hun~Igf u don't llike him u were never meant to be. Let it go with the flow for a week or two if not.. it's over Love ya!!'
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well this comming Sundae...is a concert here in my town~Stockton...Cassidy..J-Kwon..Petey Pablo..Ying-Yang Twinz will b here...and i dont know what to wear??!!...any ideas? (link)
OMG were something hott!! Like Pink in black! Big hooped earings! a Purse wanna those pink sweat bands. and were ur hair in a hi pony tail or down with a pink hat kinda on the side um.. lipgloss prolli shimmeri and a darker color. High Shoes and prolli lik a short skirt and a belli shirt. Glad i could help eminemGurlie@hotmail.com


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is it wrong that im attracted to my cousins cousin? (link)
OMG- Hun yea it is EWW!
That's not rite thats like having a crush on ur brother!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


*Kris*


y do u act so meen 2 a gurl wen u lyk ha? (link)
Hun- It's Because u really like her and u just don't wantta let ppl kno u do. Ur embarresed to like her. But If u really like a gurl ask her out!!! Maybe she will be a dream come tru!! And I hope ur a guy lol!! EminemGurlie@hotmail.com!!


~*KbEe*~


im 13, brunette female, i have hair a little above my shoulders[all one length] i want to change the style i was thinking of growing it out a little maybe layering and someshort pieces in front. does anyone have and ideas for new hair styles or a good website i could look at for some? thnx (link)
ur hair out about to ur ribs. Get Short Layers and part it i the middle get a lil wave n it and put 2 brades on each side. It''ll look great!!


I am in love wit my teacher...I mean wanna F him all the time what should i do..I mean we already did it. (link)
- Ur Parents Could Find out and ur teacher could get fired arrested and U may Never See His Face agian-


*KbEe*


I have a problem. I'm 17 and ready to have sex. I WANT to have sex. I mean, I don't want to do it just to do it. I really WANT to. I'm completely ready. Problem- I don't have a boyfriend...agh! What do I do? (link)
hun- ur really not old anough wait untill your married and get checked out by a doc. U dont wanna get STD's aand die do u. God SAid Never HAve Sex untill ur married!!

*Kbee*


I have long blonde hair and I want to cut, but not short! But I want to have bangs that go to the side, kind of like mary-kate and ashley olsen do. Do you guys have any sites/pictures I can go to that have cute styles like that? THANKS! (link)
MaryKateandAshley.com...

MaryKate is on crack she dunt look the same!!

*Kbee*


is a 7 inch boner a little big for a 14 year old, if it is, do i need help? (link)
o LoL..U may Just Be a LiL more Developted like Women and Breast... Okay..Glad I could Help!!


*KBee*


How do you tell if you have breast cancer? Where are the lumps usually found? (link)
had it but i think you'll find it around the nipple and you may have sand or something rough textured around there!! Hope I could Help!!

*Kriss*


Im looking to lose some weight. I work out to those workout video things..but i get real thirsty. How much water should i drink without gaining all the stuff i burned back again? I appreciate all help..i`ll rate! Thanks

-melissa- (link)
Melissa-You know u may jst be big boned. God made us all b-e-a-utiful. Dont rate ur self on how u look. Theres alot inside that counts. If you wanna go on a dietTry The Atkins Diet it works 7 lbs. a week!! HoPe I cOuLd HeLp Melissa!!


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I used to go with this guy and we broke up a while back and I still have feelings for him.After we broke up,I started talking to his brother and i like his brother A LOT!He knows i like him because I told him.I like both of them A LOT and I would do anything for both of them.How do I chose which one to be with?HELP!!! (link)
If you have a question we have an anwser. If you have the HOTS for two guys...You need to decide who you will be happier with and have a longer relationship with.But if you already broke up with that one I think that you should go out with his older brother. It would prolly hurt ur x's feelings. If you really really still like ur X talk to him and same with the other guy if you really like him too talk to ur X and say I have feelings for your older brother I want to check and see how you feel about it. Hope It Works Out!!!!!

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hey.. im 14, about 5 ft. and im only 84 pounds!! most of my friends r all like.. "damn.. i wish i was you." n stuff like that. um.. i hate being this skinny, seriously.. and i can literally eat more than two or more of my friends can!! that's like.. insane lol. but.. my mutabolism.. r however you spell it.. just is too fast!! i always have trouble finding clothes that fit me well.. omg.. if any one can seriously help me to gain weight that would be awesome..thanks.. you guys are ExCeLlEnT..!!~ (link)
Hun im like u im in 7th grade and im 13 i weigh 76 were not bulimic o anorexic. Were just skinny and petite. Let them no. Alot of ppl would kill for bodies like are's!! U cant help it...Well I hope i could help..!!

EminemGurlie@hotmail.com



ok well i like this grl but she has a b/f and she told me she likes me and thinks im hott and theres anthoer grl who likes me and i kinda like her to but when i try to ask her out she has a b/f she cant keep one for longer then 2 weeks 3 weeks tops wat should i do wait or just forget them both HELP ME PLZ!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
Go for it!! you will eventully get a chance go out with the gurl. If u like her ask her out dont give up. Go out with the gurl u like the most not one who just thinks you are hot or what eva. Go with a gurl that will make your dreams come tru! hope i could help!!


Eminemgulie@hotmail.com



Can someone give me a site with cute quotes that i can put in my profile?Thanks-Christina (link)
Hey I know exactly were u can go!! try www.awaybox.coms and click gurls every 10 seconds you will be able to read a new one. Or you could get some at www.iconator.com www.jensicons.com and www.awaymessages.com or www.awayart.com !!!


Hoped I helped


EminemGurlie@hotmail.com

*!*Kristi*!*




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