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Question Posted Thursday August 19 2004, 8:42 pm

im 14 and goin wit a grl i really like but all my freinds and even my dad say i should break up wit her and go out with this other grl. the problem is i like both of them alot but the grl im with usualy hase long relationships but the other grl doesnt. if i break up with the grl im with and then the other grl doesnt last long i will be givin up the relationship i wanted 4 a one week thing. if u can help me ill be really happy. thnx

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Mesmerized answered Tuesday September 28 2004, 7:54 pm:
Well, why does everyone like this other girl better? I don't think it's smart to ruin the relationship you have now, if you really like the girl that you're with. Hope I helped!

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CrayolaJenn210 answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 8:30 pm:
Well if you really like the girl your with and you know the relationship will last longer and actully mean something I would stick with it. Unless you feel real strongly about dating the other girl. I hope this all works out in the end!

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xogiggles37xo answered Sunday August 22 2004, 10:10 am:
teenagers {{us}} lol. normally like lots of people. lol. well i think you should go out with the girl that will give you a long relationship because that means your happier. right? i think so because who isnt happy when their together with somebody they like/love. well good luck with this situation and i hope you and the long relationship girl stay together. x3 xogiggles37xo.

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Evilfairy577 answered Saturday August 21 2004, 5:30 pm:
Hey dude,
If the girl you're with is sweet and treats you well and you have feelings for her then keep her! Its your choice and your life, its not up to your friends or even your dad.And anwayz if u do dump your gf how can you be sure the other girl will say yes when you ask her out.But if your gf isn't all that great and you like the other girl more then go for it.To make a long story short fallow your heart!
Much Luck And Luv,
*+*Evilfairy577*+*

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Raining_Tears087 answered Friday August 20 2004, 7:12 pm:
just go with your heart...try writing down the pros and cons of each and then whoever has more pros then cons, go with them...hope it helps!

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Mackenzie answered Thursday August 19 2004, 11:46 pm:
Don't botheR; stick with what you've got! Don't Ruin a good thing oveR something that MAY be fun and MIGHT last two weeks.. if you'Re LUCKY!! Hope I helped!!

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the_haha_boat answered Thursday August 19 2004, 10:50 pm:
you shouldn't break up with someone just because someone else came along. Think of some better reasons and maybe even write them down.

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BrOk3n_sMiiLe_x answered Thursday August 19 2004, 10:21 pm:
well i think yooh should stay with the one your with .. yooh shouldnt of even had to think bout it twice .. the one yooh were with was with yoho b4 anyhting so yooh should stay especially if yooh dont wana ruin it cause chances are yooh wont get her bac .. so its a decision yooh have to make on your own but jud think bout it. well i hope i helped .. [ LyL qT x lOnLy ] *MeGaN

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MummuM answered Thursday August 19 2004, 10:14 pm:
First off hun, you should stick with the girl you turly like and care about. The one your better off with. If your just gunna dump the girl your with to make your friends and dad happy, isn't right. You should be with her because YOU want to. It shouldn't matter what other people think.

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xxoBriannax answered Thursday August 19 2004, 9:40 pm:
Why are they doing that to you!? Do what you want, not what they want. I say stay with the first girl.









-xXoBrianna

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Xo_Blondii_oX answered Thursday August 19 2004, 9:18 pm:
well if u want a long relationship stay wit tha grl ur wit now...theres no reason to break up wit sum1 to go out wit another person for a week..believe me i made that mistake b4 ull hate urself if u do it.

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Mercy_x_Me answered Thursday August 19 2004, 9:04 pm:
well who do you see yourself with more? Someone you can trust and have a long happy relationship with, or someone who will cut your relationship short. I mean your still young im assuming you can date anyone you want you have a whole life ahead of you. Dont listen to what other people say, just go with the girl you really like. And you have to know who you like, its all in yer heart ;-).. gl..

xoxo Muah!

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Siren_Cytherea answered Thursday August 19 2004, 8:58 pm:
You've gotta think about what YOU want. Your friends and your dad may have opinions, but you shouldn't let them influence yours.
It depends on what you want, entirely. If you really want a 1-week fling, break up with your girlfriend and go for the other girl. Realize, though, that you may lose your chances with your girlfriend if you do.
However, if you can deal with not having the fling thing, please do so. You'd only be hurting the girl you're dating by doing this. This is also if you want a long relationship. If you do, stick with the girl you're dating now.
Or, if you REALLY can't decide what to do, it might be a good idea to just take a break from both girls for awhile until you can decide what to do.
I hope this helped!
-Siren =)

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sunkistsarah answered Thursday August 19 2004, 8:52 pm:
first u need 2 think about what YOU really want and who YOU really like...forget about what ur friends and dad say...who do u really like and want 2 be with...in the end thats what going 2 make you happy....hope this helps!!!

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HelpinChicKT answered Thursday August 19 2004, 8:48 pm:
your friend trust me. Okay Chris, My oppinion is u shouldn't go out with either ur not gonna be happy. u should choose a girl that u can have a long relationhip not k or l.. u noe watt i mean!

Love ya!

*kristi*

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