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My friend has being going out with her boyfriend for two years now - she's just turned 16 and he's just turned 18. They've always got on really well, and he's always been a really good boyfriend, but lately he's been pressuring her for sex.
She's really not comfortable with this and is happy to carry on as before, but he's been saying how selfish she is.
He also spoke to one of his girl mates about it (someone my friend doesn't even KNOW), and this girls said very nasty things about her.
How can I help my friend? What should she do? (link)
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I think it's quite obvious what she should do. If he wont stop bitching about it, then dump him.
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Okay, I recently had sex and the next day I forgot to take my birth control. (We didn't use a condom and i've been using it for about 4 months) the day after that I forgot and for about the next week after that I didnt take it. Is there a good chance that I could be pregnet??
-Scared :( (link)
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Yes, there is a chance you could get pregnant. You probably should go and get tested. But remember, missing your period would be a sign, but when your stressed it throws your period off. Be more careful next time, and remember if you are pregnant, there's always people out there that you can talk to and that you can get help from!
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My life sucks. I've never had a girlfriend, i always end up being her good friend, and they always give me that excuse of "they dont like me that way". Im made fun of and beaten up. Everynight i come home and i want to cry and i sit and i cook in my hate towards others but mostly myself, for i cannot figure out why all my friends have such good lives, and im stuck with this. Why is it that i come home everynight wanting to kill myself? Can you help me? (link)
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With the girlfriend thing, rejection will happen throughout your entire life. You're still young, you will find someone someday just because you haven't had a girlfriend doesn't mean you never will. Don't listen when people make fun of you, and as for beating you up, I've never been in that situation but hell, I'd defend myself and beat them to the ground if they did that to me...don't kill yourself. It's not the way. Things will get better, just hang on. Feel free to IM me on MyPaper xx Heart or e-mail me at xhellsxbellsx@gmail.com if you want to talk
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okay well theres this boy.. hes 15 i think and im 13/f
hes the kinda guy who does drugs, drinks, does stuff with girls, everything like that..
hes really nice to me and he talks to me a lot. he says he likes me but idk if he really does cuz he might just be fooling around. he touches me in the halls n stuff but him and his gf of 6 or 7 months just broke up a few days ago because he made out with someone else and lied to his gf about it. well some of my friends are sayin i should ask him out but idk what he will say. what do u think? thanks! :) (sorry so long) (link)
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Hmm, I dunno. He doesn't sound like the type of guy that would make a good bf. If he cheated on his gf, and if he does stuff with girls he might try to pressure you into doing something (and hes older than you) If you DO end up going out with him, just be careful. Don't let him try to pressure you into doing something you'll regret.
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Okay, this may sound weird, but here it goes. I've never had a canker sore before, but recently, one grew inside my lower lip. I have always heard my friends complaining about this but they never said much about it. How do you get them and how can you make them go away/prevent them? (link)
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I've actually found if you put salt on it or gargle saltwater it works really well!
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how do u get a girl to want to go out with you? (link)
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Awww. Lol, I'm sorry, I though it was kinda cute. The main thing is just be yourself. If she doesn't like it she's not the right girl for you. If you want to get it across that you like her, pay more attention to her, make her feel special. Hope I helped!
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ok me and my boyfriend haven't made out yet and everyone is telling me to make the first move! lol how do you really make it lmao?! I never did before and I don't wanna but I'm gonna! any suggestions? please I need help! lol thank you sooo much!!! (link)
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If you don't want to do it, then don't worry about it, to hell with what everyone else says. And also, maybe he hasn't made the first move because HE doesn't want to yet. But, if you want to, I'm sure it'll come to you when the time comes.
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I have a boyfriend who I adore, I'm only 13 so I don't wanna have sex or anything but what are some good intimate things that we can do? We already put our arms round each other, kiss, hug and he puts his hand on my ass but it's getting boring, any ideas? (link)
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I definately would not go with what most of the other people said. If you don't want to have sex, oral is not a good idea either. Oral sex is still sex (why do you think it's called oral SEX). Maybe cuddle and watch a movie together..? But you are too young to be engaging in oral sex, and if you don't think you're ready for the real thing, you're not ready for oral either. You will probably end up regretting it if you do.
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hi. there are like 10 guys that want me right now... and its kool n all but if i break up w/ my bf or whatever.. next period someone asks me out and then after that someone else does like if they didnt no that the first person did. i like all of them! they are all soo hott lol but i mean i alwaysssss have a bf and never have a chance to b single and sometimes u just need to b single ya no. i dont want to hurt there feeling or have them not like me anymore.
what should i do?
lol thanx! (link)
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First of all, if you love your boyfriend you shouldn't break up with him for another guy unless you like that other guy a lot more. But if you just want to be single, tell them no, sure it might hurt there feelings, but if you're happier being single then don't say yes if you don't want to. Tell them you want to be single for a while, if they stop liking you just because of that, well that's kind of stupid. But like I said, if you really want to be single, still say no, even if it means hurting their feelings. They will get over it.
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im 14 and goin wit a grl i really like but all my freinds and even my dad say i should break up wit her and go out with this other grl. the problem is i like both of them alot but the grl im with usualy hase long relationships but the other grl doesnt. if i break up with the grl im with and then the other grl doesnt last long i will be givin up the relationship i wanted 4 a one week thing. if u can help me ill be really happy. thnx (link)
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Well, why does everyone like this other girl better? I don't think it's smart to ruin the relationship you have now, if you really like the girl that you're with. Hope I helped!
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im 13/f and ive had my period since january. im a 34a cup and my boobs are kinda pointy, like underneath theyrnt rounded yet cuz im still growing and i may not be fully developed until im 17 because my whole family has really big boobs. my question is, will guys be weirded out if they see ur boobs an they rnt fully developed yet, or should i wait to show anyone them until im fully developed? d guys still think they're hot, or wil they only be sexy if theyre rounded?
thanx
knala (link)
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You shouldn't be worried about whether or not guys will like them if they aren't fully developed because you really shouldn't be showing them at 13.
But, it is still your decision. Just think about if the guy is trying to use you before...exposing yourself.
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i used to like this guy now i dont like him any more but he likes me alot wut should i do?
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Ok, if he knew that you liked him before and he still thinks you do, you need to talk to him about it. Tell him you don't feel the same way but maybe you could be friends. If he didn't know you liked him just tell him that you don't like him that way. Either way, you need to talk to him about it so he doesn't get his hopes up over something that isn't going to happen.
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