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my name is michele nickname is kandi im 15 n i live in m*ville pennsylvania i go to susquenita high school n ima sophmore there woo hoo haha i love to cheerlead ummm most of mah friends say i give good advice i mean i knoe its not gunna be tha best but i have been through alot..more than ne one will eva knoe so i can relate ta jus bout ne thing that u may be havin a problum with...n im jus gunna let u knoe that im sry if i give u adivce that jus makes things worse...but hey im not perfect so dont xcept mah advice ta be eitha..with that all said thanx fa comin n ill try mah best ta help u

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aight here it goes -- there is this guy that i liked a loooong time ago. and he was just really rude and obnoxious to me. i talked to him on the fone and he said he liked me, but that was before i met him, and then one day i met him at school, and he told my friend he didn't like me because i was black. and now he finally realizes that color doesn't matter and he likes me now and i'm starting to like him again, but im wondering if i should resist and treat him like he treated me for payback, or should i just give in and go out with him?

i think u should go out wif him bc if u dont n u be rude to him ur gunna regret it bc he prolly wont wanna be with u afta uve been rude to him..even tho he was rude to you...but so i think that u should give him a chance
hope this helped

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May 17, 2004, ((st. patricks day)) one of my best friends committed suicide. She was 13 years old. She was born on September 11, 1990. Her name was Alyssa, and she was walking to school late and she was walking on the tracks. She heard the train coming and she turned around, put her hood up, and gave the thumbs up sign to the conductor. He couldn't stop the train. Alyssa got hit and died. A month later the investigators claimed it to be suicide, which everyone already knew. She had tried committing suicide a couple weeks before that, but I had to drag her off the tracks by her hair. I had made her go see the school counselor before that and I guess she still wanted to committ suicide. The night before she was hit, she wrote R.I.P Alyssa on her and her boyfriend's bedroom wall. She killed herself for many reasons, but I only know of how her boyfriend was cheating on her and she was in a gang and family problems. She told me there was more though. I tried so hard to convince her that death wasn't the soulution, but she didn't listen. I did everything I could to help her. Anyway, I know it's long but I thought you needed to know the whole story.
So my problem is, I still haven't been able to cope with it. I cry all the time and nobody seems to understand me. I miss her so much. I've already seen numerous counselors but they haven't helped me much. I just want to know if there's any way that I could start the "healing process" or if it'll just take time. I would appreciate all the help. Thank you so much!

Love, RacheL
((xoRachel))


R.I.P Alyssa Gonzalez.. I miss you so much.
9/11/90 - 3/17/04

awww that is so sad!!! but i think tha best thing fa you to do is try not to think about it as much and wen u do think bout it..think of tha good times wif her dont think of her death! if u r still havin problems then maybe you should talk ta consulor or sumptin like that!!! aww i hope u feel betta!!!
hope this helped

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okay i have a problem... im friends with this one girl right... and well i dont really want to be friends with her anymore... she gets annoying and shes growing apart from me and some of my other friends... i dont know what to tell her to end it and all... can you plz help me asap... thanks!!

well...u should jus tell her that u feel like u guys rnt as close as u were before..i dont think that u should end ur friendship jus bc u think she is annoyin but hey its ur life live it like u wanna but like i said jus tell her exactly wut u told me but say it nicely dont be all like ur annoyin i dont wanna be ur friend again...but still jus bc she is annoyin doesnt mean that u should end ur friendship...try to work things out..if things dont get any better than i guess you should jus tell her what u told me
hope this helped

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whut do you do when youi are in love with 2 ppl and cant find which opne you wanna be with!

well this one is hard u should jus chose tha one that u like ta be with tha most like tha one that u can relate to better or talk to better bc it*ll usually work out betta with that person
hope i helped

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Ok on wed I went to chruch and we had a lesson about sex bracelets but I didn't no any thing about them and I want to know as much as I can so I can tell my church about it I really want to know and if you know any thing about them tell me please.

sex bracelets r those jelly bracelets...thay come in a bunch of colors like there r red pink blue black ect n wut thay r is that if a guy breaks one u have ta do wut tha bracelet means like blakc is sex so if a guy breaks a black one u r suppose to have sex with him n blah blah blah haha
hoped this helped

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i just want yalls opinions. do u thing black and black and white and white and mexican and mexican ect. should only get married? or should they mix. ok thanks.

i think that who eva u love is who u should marry i dont think it should matta if tha person is white black mexican or w.e. that shouldnt matta
hope i helped

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My boyfriend told me he didn't love me but he likes me alot. He doesn't know that I love him and he keeps trying to get me to tell him but I wont, I think he's guessed. I just want to cry, I knew he didn't love me but when he told me it just made everything 10 times worse. I really love him, what shall I do?

i think that you should tell him how you feel...even tho he might not feel tha same way u still should let him now that hope that helped

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I think im really *ugly* and i know yoo get all the guys wut should i do to get a boy??? I wear makeup and pretty clothes

well i doubt that ur reallii ugly jus be more confiadent in ur self....talk ta tha guys dont be shy round them n also i dont get all tha guys...yeah i guess u could say i get alot but i mean i get turned down to i mean its not always easy fa me eitha....bac wen i was younger i wasnt all that pritty eitha but now i guess u could say that i am...so maybe u jus have ta wait a lil fa ur looks ta become great n everything like that

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Ok, this question is for the girls out there!! Have you ever pierced your belly button by yourself? Like how did you do it I mean like all the steps from start to finish, even the small ones lol? Today, I want to pierce my belly button by myself but I'm afraid that I'm gonna do something wrong like piercing it too thin like I didn't use the skin. Can someone please tell me how you pierced your belly button by yourself? Thanks

ight well i pierced mah belly button mahself b4 n it left a scare there n now i have it pierced professional n there is a scare there so i wouldnt recomned doin it ur self

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alright well i dont wanna be like another girl saying oh my relationships arent workign out its only been a month blah blah .. yeah thats not a real relationship .. see for about 3 years now on and off i've been with my boyfriend .. this is the third time we've been together adn its been about 2 months but for some reason it just hasnt seem the same at all .. and he is completely obsessed and always says to me how im like his life and idk what to do because i know how badly i'd hurt him .. and im scared because what if me and him really do have a future with eachother but just not right now and if i ruin it with him now he might not want me later in life .. please i could use any advice

okay well u should tell him that u feel a liddle unconfortable with him right now n u think that you should jus be friends for tha time being...tht you want to be able ta iono breath but dont be a bitch to him bc that might ruin tha whole thing fa tha future...jus basically follow ur heart nd do wut u think is best

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This might be a stupid question, but how do you know when you're in love with someone? How does it feel?

you will know that ur inlove with sumone if all u can think bout is him/her n even if this person does tha most awful thing in tha world ta you no matta wut u will still like him/her. you will be happy jus to be around this person n u can be urself but if ur in love u*ll knoe it bc well u*ll jus feel reallii good bein with that person n you dont eva wanna lose them...n jus thinkin bout losin him/her makes you sad

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MY friend and i use to be really tight but her new boyfriend got in the way all he does is make fun of everyone and me ...She just lets him talk bout me and laughs with him....Is he more important or is our BBF relationship?

TALK TO HER!!!!! TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL AND HOW HE MAKES YOU FEEL AND STUFF LIKE THAT!!!! dont jus asume that she knoes that she is doin that and that she is hurtin you!

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Ok listen up ....Me and my firned use to be really tight now scince she has been going out with this boy shes been acting like a witch...He makes fun of everyone including ME when ever he makes fun of me or other ppl she just laughs...Is he more important then our best friend relationship???

i doubt that he is more important sumtimes it might seem like it but trust me...where would people be wif out their friends! jus try talkin ta her

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Me and my friend use to be really tight...But now her and this boy have been going out and she is being rude n I hear he has been makin fun of everyone including ME and all she does is laugh at all his insults I feel like she likes him more then me is he more important then our Best friend relationship?

okay well one...im sure that she doesnt mean to me mean to you and her other friends...maybe she just doesnt realize what she is doin and that it is hurtin your feelings and her other friends feelings...try talkin ta her tell her how you fell

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are ghosts real? have you ever seen one?? just wondering!!

well i havent ever seen one n im sure if i did id prolly be freakin out n all but ive heard alotta stories that there r ghosts and stuff like that so i mean im sure there are but i mean i cant be sure cus ive neva seen one..which is a good thing ta me haha

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I'm 14, and I have yet to wear a tampon! All of my friends do it, so I just pretend I do!.. I mean I've stuck one in there before, and it worked and it sticked, but I'm afraid like its going to go further, or I'm gunna try and pull on the stringy thing and its gunna break lose. Do you think any of those things could happen? Pllease help!

okay...i wear tampons n most of my friends do to..and nothin like that has ever happend to me or any of them so i doubt it could happen i mean i havent heard of ne one who*s tampon got stuck inside them or that tha string thing broke..so u dont have ne thing ta worri about

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my best friend's mom hates me! last night she listened into our convo on the phone then ally (bff) called back and told me that we weren't allowed to be friends anymore then her mom told me that she listened and didn't appreciate what i said about her(i don't like her) and she hung up. i started crying really hard for like five minutes, then ally called back again and said that her mom said that she crossed theline by listening in and that we could be friends as long as i don't go over to ally's house. it makes me feel better, but i still can't get it out of my head. i still want to be friends with her, but i don't want to deal with her mom. what should i do??!?!?!?!?!?!?

this is a hard one...i think that you should try and talk to your friends mom..try to starighten some things out...and if that doesnt work then well jus iono sit bac n see if her moms attitude towards u changes at all

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well to be honest i'm worried about my bestfriend.. her boyfriend still talks with his ex girlfriend (she moved 3 years ago, outside the country). she found emails were they said that they cared a lot for each other. he said it didn't matter because it was just by emails, nothing would ever happen, it was just a scape of reality, a game.. she loves him a lot.. i don't know what to tell her. i'm her bestfriend i don't want to break her heart, but i personaly think she should break up with him .. what do u guys think??

okay well as hard as it may be to tell yourfriend bout this i think u should in tha long run your friend will thank you she will most likely be sad and outta it fa a while but jus be sure that you are there fa her

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Hey, this guy told me how much he really liked me the other day and I turned him down because I wanted to be single but now he is goin out with my best friend and I changed my mind I think I'm jealous, but what should I do

well not to be rude or anything but there is nothin really you can do...dont try ta get with him now bc u will just mess up things big time with your friend..the best thing that you should do is just try and find someone else or just stay single...thats reallii all you can do

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What should I do I like alot of boys and one is my friend but should I tell him or keep it to my self??

I think that you should tell him because you never know if he likes you...n the sooner the better because he might get over you while you are workin up the guts to tell him so i think ur best bet would be to tell him SOON

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