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alright well i dont wanna be like another girl saying oh my relationships arent workign out its only been a month blah blah .. yeah thats not a real relationship .. see for about 3 years now on and off i've been with my boyfriend .. this is the third time we've been together adn its been about 2 months but for some reason it just hasnt seem the same at all .. and he is completely obsessed and always says to me how im like his life and idk what to do because i know how badly i'd hurt him .. and im scared because what if me and him really do have a future with eachother but just not right now and if i ruin it with him now he might not want me later in life .. please i could use any advice <3
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on-and-off relationship.
been there done that.
bullshit kiss my ass.
well actually, uh, wow 3 fucking years on and off.. why the hell do you guys break up and then get back together. now think about that for a second. is it for stupid reasons.. is it for to mess with other people cause youre not ready for commitment. . . well either way, you guys need to stop having this on and off shit.
its not fucking healthy.
why dont you guys just get back together when you both know what you want. instead of saying..
im going to hurt him hes going to leave then we get back together and he leaves..
uhm yeah. talk to him about it and uhm try to work it out, but mostly likley i dont think it will cause i had an on and off relationship and it just caused each other more pain evertime we got back together.
its not healthy so i suggest you should just be friends and move on. but its your decision
have a nice day now
xiris
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Well, if you don't break up with him now because you're afraid you're gonna hurt him, think about when you think you need to break up with him later. You're gonna end up hurting him even more because he'll care for you more.'N also, you said "what if me and him really do have a future with each other but just not right now" and you also said "he might not want me later in life" Well, if you say you might have a future with him, then it will happen in the future, but just not now. Don't worry about "later in life" because if anything's supposed to happen "later in life" it will. My advice, think about it, but I say, break up, and my reason is the very first two sentences.Good Luck, 'n Hope I helped!
-tori
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I think that you guys should stick together for as long as you can and try to work out all your problems. If it worls out you obviously have a good life ahead of you. If things don't work out for you than you can take a break from the relationship because you never know until you try! «3 :)
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if its meant to be "later in life" it will happen later in life. Break up with him for now, because if you dont, you could be denying yourself that person that really is meant to be with you forever. It may hurt him but you'll have to go with your gut feeling, you cant live a lie by going out with him. If you ever feel like you guys were really meant for eachother, you can ALWAYS get back together if fate allows,I believe everything happens for a specific purpose, and it really does show up in the end.
Sooo much luck 2 u!
if you need ANY help, box me
tell me what happens !! :-D
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okay well u should tell him that u feel a liddle unconfortable with him right now n u think that you should jus be friends for tha time being...tht you want to be able ta iono breath but dont be a bitch to him bc that might ruin tha whole thing fa tha future...jus basically follow ur heart nd do wut u think is best
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You are in so far you can no longer see the bottom. I have been here. Get out. It's hard, but you will feel so relieved to be away from this sap draining guy who can't seem to take care of himself without depending on you. You don't need him. You need some fresh air, and some fresh thoughts because this guy is probably planning every second of your life for you. I know you have invested several years, but so did I. And the second I got him to let me go, I felt happier and had a lot more energy.
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