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To Stay or to Go
Well today is me and my girl one month anniversary. She lives in Oregon and I live in Texas, I will tell you that I do care for this girl and I can only see her as being with me in the future, like as my future wife and everything
but there someone else I like right now and shes here ..and more near. Ive went on a date with this girl before I got together with my baby. But this girl kinda toyed with my emotion , making me think she didnt like me. Well now we are closer and she really likes me and tells me that only i can make her happy and that I was the only one who ever made her feeling 'so many emotions' at once in her lifetime thats why she denied when I asked her out cause she was scared.
So I dont know what to do. Should I let my baby girl go? because I dont want to hurt her if anything happens between me and this girl but then I dont want to because Im afraid ill make the biggest mistake of my life.
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everything happens for a reason, you just have to sit back and look at this all and asked your self, who might be the one for me?, i think you should go for the one closest to your heart i'm not gonna tell you who to chose b/c it's not my place and time but you should just take a break from them both and then maybe you'll find out that the one you want the most is the one your meant to be with, but having along distances relationship isn't always fun.
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you've got a great thing going right now so don't wreck it. if you're happy with your current girl then stay with her because after you lose her you may realize she was a big part of your life and more important than this girl
also.. even though you and this other girl have gotten closer.. it still doesnt change that she toyed with your emotions once.. what's to say she's not doing it again? just keep your gaurd up, you never know what could happen if you don't.
but really.. just be with the one you are happy with. if the distance is worth it with your current girl, then stick around with her and wait till something actually wrong happens before you move on to this other girl.
but if things are just too hard for you and her.. then re-analyze your relationship with her and think about this new.. (err old) girl (the one that toyed with your emotions).
hope i helped.. =|
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I think you should go for the girl closer to you long distance relationships dont work out... just move on
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I am kinda sorta in your same position...i have a boyfriend who lives in nebraska and I live in florida...we have been going out for 4 months...i can sooo totally see me and this guy together in the future...but the thing is is that I am kinda starting to like this guy who goes to my skool...and this guy likes me back...but i made the decision to stay with my boyfriend in nebraska because i dont kno what i would do if i lost him...do what you feel is right...if you feel a strong connection with the girl that lives in oregon...then i suggest that u stay with her...hope i helped and good luck!!
<3 Alexa
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Is this an internet relationship? Or are you spending tons on plane tickets? Either way these things dont work, so let her go.
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If you seriously consider this girl as your future wife, and you honestly care about her with everything, you won't look at other woman. I know people say it's natural for guys to look at other girls, and vise versa, but seriously, if you REALLY love someone, you won't want to be with anything else. Think about it. Do you want to let your "baby" go because some other chick is hot, I mean, that sounds like you don't even care.
~Laura~
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