Member Since: September 13, 2004
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Last Update: September 29, 2004
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Well today is me and my girl one month anniversary. She lives in Oregon and I live in Texas, I will tell you that I do care for this girl and I can only see her as being with me in the future, like as my future wife and everything
but there someone else I like right now and shes here ..and more near. Ive went on a date with this girl before I got together with my baby. But this girl kinda toyed with my emotion , making me think she didnt like me. Well now we are closer and she really likes me and tells me that only i can make her happy and that I was the only one who ever made her feeling 'so many emotions' at once in her lifetime thats why she denied when I asked her out cause she was scared.
So I dont know what to do. Should I let my baby girl go? because I dont want to hurt her if anything happens between me and this girl but then I dont want to because Im afraid ill make the biggest mistake of my life. (link)
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I am kinda sorta in your same position...i have a boyfriend who lives in nebraska and I live in florida...we have been going out for 4 months...i can sooo totally see me and this guy together in the future...but the thing is is that I am kinda starting to like this guy who goes to my skool...and this guy likes me back...but i made the decision to stay with my boyfriend in nebraska because i dont kno what i would do if i lost him...do what you feel is right...if you feel a strong connection with the girl that lives in oregon...then i suggest that u stay with her...hope i helped and good luck!!
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Well, ok my b/f moved to Oregon like 1 month ago and we are still goin out..coming up on our 11month anniversary. I miss him sooo much and i dont know what to do. There's this guy at my new skool that likes me and i donno if i like him...but i kinda flirt with him. I think that i do that cuz i miss flirtin with my b/f..even though me n my b/f talk every night..my heart aches all the time. I really donno what to do..i love him and yet we are so far apart. I dont wanna loose him :`( (link)
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We are in the exact same position...my boyfriend lives in a different state than me too...and there is this guy at school who i kinda flirt with cuz he likes me...but i dont like that guy cuz i love my boyfriend with all my heart...for me...i miss flirting with my boyfriend and being hugged...maybe thats the same thing for you too...well since you've been dating ur bf for 11 months...i would say keep going...hope everything goes well...good luck!!
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ok well my boyfriend asks me to make out with him and stuff and I say yes but we dont..I really wanna tho..and like we go to our schools football games with our friends and then meet there and he like puts his hand around me and like holds me and stuff but all we do is kiss on the lips but he asks me to make out with him there online but then we dont..I want to tho..and then at school we talk alil but like never hug at school..then last week we went to see a movie and he was talking his friend that he was gonna make out with me but he didn't..I'm to scared to do..and I dunno what I would say to him like writing a note or like on aim..please help!
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just tell him straight up that your tried of him always asking to make out with you...but he never does...tell him you want to and it will probably happen...when me and my bf first made out he didnt even ask me...it just kinda happened...i hope everything works out and good luck!!
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ok my best friend in the whole wide world has a crush on me. im a girl hes a guy. ya lol anyways he keeps tellin me that and that im the only one and when he goes to ask other girls out he thinks of me and cant do it. well i mean ya i like him i guess, its just im only 13 and sos he and plus he lives in virginia and im in cali. im gonna go visit him again this summer. i just dont like him like he does me. and plus i dont even kno if hes tellin the truth. i mean we only talk over the internet. i kno hes a playa so maybe he is just trying to make me like him and then hurt me. i dont want that. but i dunno. i am so confused. and im so young so i dont kno how to take this. i've asked him straight out and hes like ya its true. i've told him that he needs to back off cus we dont live by each other. and hes like u really got to me when i saw u this summer. i am so confused lol. (link)
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Tell your friend that you would rather be friends...not like a couple...my bf lives in a different state than me and i'll tell ya its really hard...but the only reason we chose that was because we have strong feelings for eachother...ur friend should understand if you tell him the truth...hope i helped and good luck!
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Hey loser!! did u do english hw? cuz i haven't and we have like a ton of it. ya well get bac to me on that. lylas! l8r grl! (link)
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Hey i read but i didnt do any of the vocabulary...my sunburn hurts soo badly...i dont think i'll be goin to youth group tonight cuz i wanna watch the emmys...i'll ttyl byes
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Hey...
(plz dont delete) I was asked to homecoming by this guy that is lyke obsessed with me(literally!) He can be sweet but I really don't feel comfortable around him. I'm a Freshman and so is he. He recently asked me to homecoming and I don't know what to do becuz i was gonna ask this guy who i lyke and lykes me back or just go with friends.....HELP!
THANKS! (link)
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if you dont want to go to homecoming with this guy then tell him...he would rather u tell him the truth than for you to not have a fun time at homecoming because thats not the person you wanted to go with...hope i helped!
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arite i'm 15 i been goin out wit this boy for almost a month n knew him for like 2 1/2 or w/e cept it's online. he lives somewhat close n everything n he's my age-ish. he really wants to meet me cuz we have real strong feelings for each other, strong as they can get over the computer. i've seen his pic he aint seen mine but i told him everything i look like, eyes hair, and that i'm overweight. he said he doesnt care n he just wants to be wit the person he cares for this much. i'm a naturally shy person n i'm even more shy/scared now cuz i don't want to lose him. how do i meet him n not be shy or scared? shuld i trust that he doesnt care about looks? what do i doooo? (link)
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you should just be yourself...be the person that he is in love with...he shouldnt care what you look like if u see him...if he dumps you for your looks then he deffinately wasnt worth it...but he sounds like the kind of guy who wouldnt care what u looked like cuz he likes you for your personality...hope i helped...good luck!
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so my best friend leah of 2 years met this guy jo and wanted to date him. she thought he was really hot and nice. but i felt the same way. my other guy friend hooked me up with jo and now me and jo are goin out. now leah wont talk to me and my other friends say leah is mad at me and she doesnt like jo becase..'hes not hot or nice he takes me away from my friends and ignors me ' according to her. shes trying to make all my other friends hate me and she says i shouldnt even b goin out with him cuz i havent known him for that long.. but she cant tell me wut to do becuz she just meets guys off the street for one night stands. wut should i do i dont wanna ruin our friendship but shes goin way over board and i really like jo.
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your friend is soo jealous and there is nothing you can do about that...u shouldnt break up w/ this guy just because of her...eventually she will move on to another guy and forget how selfish she acted about this situation...i hope she will still be friends w/ you...hope i helped!
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I have known this guy since 5th grade and i'm in 9th now. His name is Nick. In elementary we were practically enemies. We would fight all the time. Well at the time i was in love with his best friend Gabe. Well this past yr (in 8th grade, i had religion class with Nick and I thought that if i could maybe get closer to Nick that it would help me get close to Gabe like i wanted to. Instead of all that happening i just got closer to Nick and started to fall for him. Now i feel like he is the best person that i ever met because we connect in a way that i never have before. The thing is, he is going to a different school. I am going to one in Clearwater and he is going to one in Tarpon Springs. Now I feel like I am in misery because I didn't make a move and I don't know when I am ever going to see him again. And as many guys as I've met, none of them are as good as he was. I miss him so much. What do I do now? (link)
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Hey hun...well i am in the same situation...except the guy i like lives in NEBRASKA...i dont think you should give up on nick...just because he doesnt go to your skool doesnt mean u cant get closer to him...if u have his phone number then u should give him a call and get together with him...you never kno...he may be feeling the exact same way about you...give it a shot and hope i helped!!
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One of my good friends is dating this guy, Erik, that I liked for 2 years, but she never new it. And so they been dating for 7 months, and Ive been a bit down latly. He just recently broken up with her, And he said he did it cause he wanted to go out with me cause he heard I liked him. But I don't wanna hurt my friend, beacause she's really down, and crying and all. I feel really bad, but on the other hand I really wanna go out with him. What should I do?
~Amberlynn (link)
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you should wait a little while untill your friends cools off frok being dumped...but then after if he asks you out then of course you should go out w/him...i mean you've liked him for 2 years...you've waited long enough and finally you have your opportunity!!
hope i helped
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