so my best friend leah of 2 years met this guy jo and wanted to date him. she thought he was really hot and nice. but i felt the same way. my other guy friend hooked me up with jo and now me and jo are goin out. now leah wont talk to me and my other friends say leah is mad at me and she doesnt like jo becase..'hes not hot or nice he takes me away from my friends and ignors me ' according to her. shes trying to make all my other friends hate me and she says i shouldnt even b goin out with him cuz i havent known him for that long.. but she cant tell me wut to do becuz she just meets guys off the street for one night stands. wut should i do i dont wanna ruin our friendship but shes goin way over board and i really like jo.
LilMia811 answered Monday September 13 2004, 7:48 pm: well you have to understand that your friend is probably jealus becasue she like dthe guy and you went for him. that probably wasnt the best thing to do. But, you did, so she is just gonna have to settle for that. Talk to her. Let her know how shes acting is really imature. She shouldnt let a guy come between your friendship. He's not the nly boy in the world, she will probably, or already does, like a new guy. if she doesnt wanna make up, and stop talking shit. then just leave her alone. It would just mean shes not worth your friendship or your time. [ LilMia811's advice column | Ask LilMia811 A Question ]
Dreams1370 answered Monday September 13 2004, 7:24 pm: Yeah your friend is going over board she shouldn't be jealous because this boy asked you to be his girl friend. I thik you should have a talk with her. ask her what if he was going out with her in stead of you what would she do if you were acting the way she was then see what she would say. and if she act like she don't want to talk to you then don't worry about it. but still a guy shouldn't come between you and your friends. [ Dreams1370's advice column | Ask Dreams1370 A Question ]
if jo is reallie worth it and your best frend is reallie your best frend then she should be able to understand and be happie for you...theres nothing rong with you goin out with the guy you like rite and the whole jealousy stand or watebe shes going through shouldt blow over pretty soon... talk to your frends about it too... like your other frends..tell them your side and explain to them what you think and feel and such like that...most likely there will be at least one other person to agree with you...also talk to jo about it and whats going on and stuff like that..ya may nebe noe buh he could help somehow...ya noe? [ missing-identity-seeker's advice column | Ask missing-identity-seeker A Question ]
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