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Location: Pennsylvania
Age: 13
Member Since: September 13, 2004
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Last Update: September 20, 2004
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Okay,
c i have these two male friends and they r BEST friends with me n eachother. and tonite they told me that they werent friends anymore n its my fault. the reason is cuz i told evan sumthing that his riend told me the other night becuz i didnt feel safe with his telling me that and i needed to talk to sumone about it. so i told evan and when i told evan what i told him made him mad so he told me that him and chris werent gunna b friends anymore and that it was my fault. When i was talking to chris he said that evan called him and told him they werent friends and all. Not only dont i feel bad cuz its my fault but i feel bad becuz they arent friends and its my fault. I love them both a whole lot like really no joke. but the thing that also scares me is that sumtimes they joke and this time i dont know if its a joke+ i wanna help i want them to b friends but they wont talk to me. I have NO clue wat to do plz HELP ME REALLY BAD!! i need it or im planning on killing myself if i cant help! (link)
It's not worth killing your self. I know what it feels like in these kind of situations cause I hang with a lot of friends that are guys.Tell them both how u feel and if they are playing a joke it won't be no joke when u try to kill them!


This is kinda a weird question. Im in 8th grade. I have good friends everything I'd want. But something feels really wrong like this isn't my life. Im not the kinda person that just stays in one spot. I want to travel the world and meet new people. But I can't. Right now Im saving up money to go on a mission trip but I know I wont ever have enough in time to go. I've never been on one and I really wana go. Will someone please help me! (link)
I am having the same problem.I been in this state for 5 years!!!!!!!!!I have only been in one place for 3 months before this. My advise is to leave,yup,just pack your bags and leave.There will be other mission trips where ever you go.


I'm 20/f
I met this guy on an online dating site, we didnt want to date or anything, since we both were seeing people. Well, we talked on the phone and online soo much he started to care for me a lot..And his girlfriend could see I was getting in the way. I didnt want to steal him he was just a great friend. But since the guy started liking me so much he even said that he shouldent talk to me a lot because he'll start loving me. But, he did talk to me for a while until his girlfriend said he cant talk to me at all! He thinks its unfair, and it is!!! But he loves his girlfriend and they wanna get married. This guy is so awesome, and I havent talked to him since May. i have tried emailing him and he reads them but cant reply..or his girlfriend erases them! also, I forgot his number so I cant call him..I tried IMing him a lot..he doesnt im me back. i know its not because he hates me or anything I know its his girlfriend.. should i give up..i mean i like this guy so much..but is it worth it trying so hard? what should i do!!! i rate (link)
Well, I think that you should just let him be. If his girlfriend treats him like that all the time they will eventually break up,wether their planing to get married or not!when they split he'll probally start to talk to you again and if he forgets you he wasn't worth it.


im running for student concil and the teacher and the head teacher of student concil choose should i just b a "teachers pet" so i can win? (link)
no!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
that is the biggest mistake you could ever make!
never be something your not just to get your way!
they will choose you if your the one to choose.


so my best friend leah of 2 years met this guy jo and wanted to date him. she thought he was really hot and nice. but i felt the same way. my other guy friend hooked me up with jo and now me and jo are goin out. now leah wont talk to me and my other friends say leah is mad at me and she doesnt like jo becase..'hes not hot or nice he takes me away from my friends and ignors me ' according to her. shes trying to make all my other friends hate me and she says i shouldnt even b goin out with him cuz i havent known him for that long.. but she cant tell me wut to do becuz she just meets guys off the street for one night stands. wut should i do i dont wanna ruin our friendship but shes goin way over board and i really like jo.
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Well this "friend" of yours is jeolus she dosen't sound like she is used to not getting what she wants. You don't need friends like that.


I have known this guy since 5th grade and i'm in 9th now. His name is Nick. In elementary we were practically enemies. We would fight all the time. Well at the time i was in love with his best friend Gabe. Well this past yr (in 8th grade, i had religion class with Nick and I thought that if i could maybe get closer to Nick that it would help me get close to Gabe like i wanted to. Instead of all that happening i just got closer to Nick and started to fall for him. Now i feel like he is the best person that i ever met because we connect in a way that i never have before. The thing is, he is going to a different school. I am going to one in Clearwater and he is going to one in Tarpon Springs. Now I feel like I am in misery because I didn't make a move and I don't know when I am ever going to see him again. And as many guys as I've met, none of them are as good as he was. I miss him so much. What do I do now? (link)
Ask for his phone number!!!!!!!!!!!!!If you don't get it or he's not up to it, you can wait until you see him again because chances are if he likes you the way you like him, then he is going to try to see you again. Your other option is to go to school in Tapron Springs!




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