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I lost a great friend..because of his girlfriend!
I'm 20/f
I met this guy on an online dating site, we didnt want to date or anything, since we both were seeing people. Well, we talked on the phone and online soo much he started to care for me a lot..And his girlfriend could see I was getting in the way. I didnt want to steal him he was just a great friend. But since the guy started liking me so much he even said that he shouldent talk to me a lot because he'll start loving me. But, he did talk to me for a while until his girlfriend said he cant talk to me at all! He thinks its unfair, and it is!!! But he loves his girlfriend and they wanna get married. This guy is so awesome, and I havent talked to him since May. i have tried emailing him and he reads them but cant reply..or his girlfriend erases them! also, I forgot his number so I cant call him..I tried IMing him a lot..he doesnt im me back. i know its not because he hates me or anything I know its his girlfriend.. should i give up..i mean i like this guy so much..but is it worth it trying so hard? what should i do!!! i rate
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wow this guys girl really treats him like crap. like her puppy or something. who is she to tell him who he can and can not talk to. its a shame he lets her intimidate him like that. she must have some power over him, but i dont think it is really love. if i were you id keep trying to talk to him. one of these days he will respond. im sure that his relationship with his girl isnt gonna last.
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Well, I think that you should just let him be. If his girlfriend treats him like that all the time they will eventually break up,wether their planing to get married or not!when they split he'll probally start to talk to you again and if he forgets you he wasn't worth it.
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Well if you really love him, or care for him and you see that he loves his girlfriend then umm maybe you shoudl let go! sorry to sound harsh, but ummm...its the truth!
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This guy might really care for you, but you need to give up. He seems to have made his choice. He had a good friendship with you, but his relationship with his girlfriend was too important to mess up.
You obviously got caught up with feelings that you never should have had. If you continue to go after someone who you will never be able to be with, then you will only get hurt.
If you two really were friends and you didn't want more than that, then I can understand being mad that his girlfriend said he couldn't talk to you... but it seems to be that you wanted to have more with him, and that's just wrong. When you know a guy has a girlfriend, you know he will never leave her, then your only hurting yourself, your hurting her, and your hurting him by continueing to go after him.
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i would say yes, give up. It would be interfereing with his soon to be marriage and theres nothing you can do unforutnately. Plus online dating is really lame, and so many people get into deep crap for it. If he ever wants you bad enuff he'll email you, i promise.
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