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my mother and her whole family are white. however my father is half & half..(black/white)
..everyone in his family is white, except for his father.(my grandad) so..what am i? half/half? or just white? and if any1 knows, what percentage of each would i be? :) ty! (link)
well you are mostly white it sounds, but you do have a lil black in ya...and thats not a bad thing at all!! lol! 8)


Hey i need some help.. i think im prude..like scared to kiss a boy like i feel embarresed like i dont do it right or something i mean i have pecked boys but never freched or madeout and alot of ppl call me prude and idk wut to do cuz even my bf calls me prude and i like him alot nd wanna kiss him but i jus cant :-/

X.oX.o --> aShLeY (link)
well maybe you should just like kiss ur bf like some where private, where not many or no people can see you. then you might not be so embarssed


I go out with this guy and I REALLy like him, I mean REALLY. I want to do things with him like kiss etc but all our friends follow us around and tease us and we never get to spend time alone. Like, someone will say: Izzi kiss Jon and I just can't do it with everyone there. It makes me really embarassed and I get scared that Jon will think that I don't want to when I DO. I tried to tell my friends to leave me alone and they kinda do, but everyone else doesn't. (link)
i have the same problem, jsut go ahead and kiss him, thats what i did and they all shut up


Yo, MFS here...

You all probalby noted that the site was down for a while. We had to switch to a new server/host, and it took longer than anticipated.

Currently, it looks like our avatars / user pictures are screwed up. I don't have time to look into it much right now, but it looks like a matter of a folder not being transferred or something on those lines. I'll make sure the Admin is aware, and hopefully it'll get fixed soon.

If you find other issues with things not working, just know that it might be part of the whole move that just took place. Things only came back on-line over the weekend, and all bugs aren't worked out just yet. (link)
it seems a lot of questions are being deleted...not like just not out on the sight, but just down right deleted, lol


what is the name that chicago is in? thanx (link)
i dont understnd your question but its in Illinois if that what you mean!


I'm 13 and I got my period November of 2003. My mom doesn't really like me using tampons, I never have, and I never really wanted to. Until now. They seem some much easier, and more conveniant. My question is, which kind do I buy? Mine aren't usually really heavy, but they aren't light either. So what brands to you reccomend? (link)
i reccomend teen satin or tampax pearl, i have used both, and they are comfortable and easy to use!


I went on vacation and met this perfect guy there. We hung out everyday for 2 weeks. We "were a couple" for about a week. I havent seen him now for 2 months and it has been the hardest thing ever. We both still have really strong feelings for eachother but i am kinda starting to like this guy at skool. I am going to go see him for Thanksgiving. Should i totally forget about this guy and go for someone who lives in the same state (since i will only be able to see him about 3 times a year)?? I dont kno what to do so please help me!
Thanx a lot (link)
Well even if you really like the guy from your vacation i think yuo would be better off with the guy that goes to your schoool, just becacuse you would see him mre often and you wouldnt have to worry about the distance



I have a 2 yr old male beagle, and i want to get a new girl puppy teacup maltese. how can i keep riley not depressed when i get him a friend. hes really sweet and loving of other animals but im scared he will turn mean and depressed. can anyone help me? (link)
i dont think that you r dog will turn depressed if you get another dog. especially if you are gone for long periods of time, the two could keep each other company


I just asked about first time tampons. I saw these teen ones at Walgreens, they are like "teen satin" or something. Has anyone tried them? Should I use those, or would I be better with Tampax pearl? I always thought those were adult sized and a teen kind would be better.

Also, how old are you, and do you use pads or tampons? Sorry, but I really want to know before I try them. (link)
I am 14 years old an i use the teen satin kind that you were talking about. nd no age doesnt matter...just what ever is comfortable for you...hope i helped!


I'm 20/f
I met this guy on an online dating site, we didnt want to date or anything, since we both were seeing people. Well, we talked on the phone and online soo much he started to care for me a lot..And his girlfriend could see I was getting in the way. I didnt want to steal him he was just a great friend. But since the guy started liking me so much he even said that he shouldent talk to me a lot because he'll start loving me. But, he did talk to me for a while until his girlfriend said he cant talk to me at all! He thinks its unfair, and it is!!! But he loves his girlfriend and they wanna get married. This guy is so awesome, and I havent talked to him since May. i have tried emailing him and he reads them but cant reply..or his girlfriend erases them! also, I forgot his number so I cant call him..I tried IMing him a lot..he doesnt im me back. i know its not because he hates me or anything I know its his girlfriend.. should i give up..i mean i like this guy so much..but is it worth it trying so hard? what should i do!!! i rate (link)
Well if you really love him, or care for him and you see that he loves his girlfriend then umm maybe you shoudl let go! sorry to sound harsh, but ummm...its the truth!


I am a 39 year old woman who has been seeing the same man sexually for almost 2 years. What we have is very special. We both admit that. We have made an agrement with each other not to sleep with anyone else except each other. My problem is that I want more out of this relationship. And because it has been sexual, I can't tell if he wants the same. In the past when I asked for a committment, he said he couldn't at that time, because he has goals he needs work towards and needs to focus on them. Even though he said he would like to the timing was off. I am feeling like it will always be sexual, nothing more. Can I be wrong? Should I wait it out? I do have very strong feelings for this man.
Thanks (link)
Well if you have been dating for the past 2 years and you ask him about a bigger comitment, then maybe he isnt really ready for a wife, or he might just want to wait a little bit longer. The best time to ask him agian about a comiment would be when is is realxed, not worrying about work, and just calm. And if you wanted to marry him you shoudl be able to tell him your feelings...so maybe you shoudl just tell how you feel.


Hey, I have a question about my hair. My hair is naturally wavy, but not curly. When I try to blow-dry it straight, it never comes out right, and one side of my head is wavy, and the other is straight. Sometimes I straighten my hair, but I don't really have a ton of time in the morning to do that. Do you have any suggestions of what I should do with it (Possibly even something I could do at night and sleep with it, or something I could do in the morning but it won't take too much time) (link)
well i have the same problem. I found that the best thing is to get enough time to starighten it, unless you dont want to get up earlier or what ever, then i guess you could ummm...hmmm i dunno


Ok, so this year I just started highschool and I love it. I'm making alot of new friends, and people are starting to like me more. But there is this guy. I like him alot, he's a senior. And he is popular. we are friends but i like him alot. I want to get to know him more but i dont know how. we have one class together and we talk alot but i just want to know how to become good friends with him (link)
just hang out with him a lot, and maybe one time say "hey maybe we could hangout out "and then say like a resturant or sumthinlike that, or maybe the movies.


my mom recently found out ive been cutting myself so now she questions it all the time and along with alot of other people do! i just want them to back off, its kind of a personal problem. what should i do? pleez help n' thanks. (link)
well first you shouldnt cut yourself! BUT! just when people ask you questions tell them that its a personal problem and they dont need to be in ur business


What happened to all the moderators??? How come there are so few now? Will there be more or is it staying this way? (link)
I am a moderator!


me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 4 months and i was at his house the other day and we were getting kind of sexual... we didn't have sex or anything but we were like "dry humping" and my underwear shifted and his penis went in... it wasn't for like that long because as soon as we both felt it we like jumped apart from eachother. he said that he didn't cum but there is still the whole issue of pre cum and he might have a little bit... he didn't go in deep though it was like hardly an inch. is there a chance that he could have cummed a little bit and i could get pregnant? or does he have to go in deeper? (link)
yuo most likely arent pregant, and he would have to go in farther mostly likely


I was watching shorties watching shorties and i was wondering... can u really get high off of sniffing whipped cream? (link)
no you cant get high off of whipped cream


hey
im a 14yr old gal who has a crush on a guy like 10 months younger than me. i kno 4 a fact that he USED 2 like me - but i didnt feel the same way wen he did. he neva told me he felt that way but all his frends told me he did.

he has heapz of gf's n none of them eva last
but recently he's goin out wit a gurl in the grade below me n its pretty serious..
she n i h8 each otha but pretend we dont, i kno from her frends that she bitches about me all the time 2 them even thou we've neva met.

im reali stuck cos i care alot bout him but i cant tell him that, what makes it worse is that i know if i did end up going out with him, nina (his gf) would full dis me cos im going out with a younger guy..
should i tell him how i feel or just 4get about him?
is it wrong 2 go out wit sum1 in a lower grade?
love ali oxo


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(sry this is a lil long!!)
ok welll first of all, 10 months is nothing at all. I have heard of many people going out with people who are 10 years younger than them, so dont worry about 10months. and also if he is in a younger grade...so what...at my school 1/2 the "couples" are in 2 differnt grades. and dont worry about that nina girl bcuz if shes being a jerk then 1/2 the time she's prolly jealous, and if they do break up and u go out with him, she'll really be jealous, but you have just got to ignore her...it will help, trust me! About forgeting him n' stuff, well if his relationship is seriuos then i would not forget about him, but open your self to more options, who knows, maybe after he breaks up, u'll still be single, or maybe u'll be w/ a guy who u like even more!
~hope i helped


what is the best way to get a babysitting job? (link)
put up posters and maybe put an ad in the paper


hey everybody! i was just wondering if anybody knows of any really good workouts or anything that really work your legs.. i really want my calfs to be bigger (muscular) anybody got any really good ideas?! thanks a lot, ill rate high! (link)
basic running will help ur legs a lot, it helped me a lot, plus it will help you stay in shape. go out running for like 1 mile 3 or 4 times a week and you will be in great shape
~hope i helped




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