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Location: Rochester NY
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Member Since: August 19, 2004
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my friend reproted me and now she said in 3 to 5 days i will get kiked off wat should i do (link)
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Well my friend was going to get reported and she yold her dad and he said that there's no such thing.But if there is (which i doubt there is)you should try to talk it out with her and ask her why should would want to.Dont get too worked up becuz it prolly aint true!Hope i helped!xoxo
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I have a good friend I met in school, she is very nice and a great person to be around. Some how one of my friends is convinced the she (my new friend) had called her anorexic! this had happenend very early in the year, now my friend who claims she is the victim has most of my other friends making up excuses for hating her! I know for a fact that if my new friend said it, she must have said out of the blue probably not meaning it. I had already talked to my friends who like my new friend about it and had talked to her about it. She said she doesn't remember but is sorry for judging my friend. Yet my friend( the " victim") still talks trash about my new friend.... WHO SHOULD I BELIEVE??? (link)
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OK if your new friend was really great to hang around with then maybe you need to think what if your old friends are just jelous and want your attention back?Hang out with both of them and try not to pick sides!You like both of them so it shouldnt matter if one person doesnt like the other because its not ur fault.Hopefully i helped.xoxo
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Where are some cheap places to find a homecoming dress? I'm basically just looking for a black one, nothing too formal. (link)
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Well since i dont know where you live I usually see some cute black dresses at my local Fashion Bug.If you dont have one near you there's always department stores!Hope i helped!xoxo
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I really like this guy....popular AND hot,
it's probably just a physical attraction.
but when we talk I just feel this "spark" I try not to flirt cuz I know he doesn't hold on to girls for more than a week, rarely more than that. Then there is this other guy... not as hot not as cute.. but decent, not annoying and he's funny!I like him too! and when we talk there's a "spark" I have no clue what to do... I like both of them it's just a matter if one of them do ask me... can I be a girlfriend with out being
afraid about being dumped 1 week into it... I don't wanna choose but at the same time I do... is it unfair to like 2 guys at the same time and use one of them as a back up plan? (link)
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Ok,seriously,do you want to go out with a guy that you'll prolly get dumped by in the same week?Well if so there's no point to it!You need to go out with a guy and know that hes the one and that you could have a good relationship.Hope i helped.xoxo
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two friends of mine LOVE this guy. Both obsesses
over them. When this guy finally (if he does) ask one of them out, there is bound to be a fight! I can feel it, I know I shouldn't take sides but I tend be the shoulder to cry on....
comfort or ignore the friend in need? (link)
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You should still be the shoulder to cry on becuz they're prolly going through a lot of pain.It's going to take some time but you should talk to boht of them and just tell em (friend in need)"It's ok to feel bad,just remember he probally was good enough for you!You'll find your solemate soon!(Friend who got the guy)"Im really happy for you but we still have to be simpathetic(dont know how to spell)to (person in need).Tell them that they were good friends before and shouldnt let a guy come inbetween them.Hope i helped!xoxo
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there's this guy who's really hot!,
I'm so unpopular he knows I'm not,
hot that is...,
sometimes I wish I was his,
geez I know he's out of my league,
cuz when I see him I hit Fatigue,
sweaty palms jello knees,
I've had enough of birds n' bee's
now I think I've ran out of rhymes,
I guess I'll have to keep up with the times!
I know theres probly some one special for me,
but are there really that much fish in the sea?
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You must be nervous round the guys.But if you truely like someone you'll know that you have to just follow your heart!If your heart tells you to ask him out,go for it,even though you may be nervous,you may never have the chance again!So you need to trust you and your heart cuz they will lead you to your dreams.Hope I helped.xoxo
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I love to paint my nails... some times I even try black w/ pink or purple to match my punky style... but is it really too badazz?? I do care what people think sometimes but most times I think they care TOO much. what do you think? (link)
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Really if they care a lot about what you do and what you wear and stuff they sometimes can be jelous.If you like your style,keep it!dont try to impress no one but urself!If other people think that ur too much of a "badazz" they should actually get to know you or just keep their mouth shut!Be yourself now and forever!Hope i helped!xoxo
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at school I'm a dork, nerd, uncool, unpopular and I'm okay w/ it. it's just this year I'm going for a look that may change ppl's minds about my "image" I didn't create it, it just happened. Last year I went Punk/ Rock / rebel
in a way I still same old me but I listened to more of that music, and maybe added some "punky" things to my wardrobe just to feel more like me. I think it's great, but others don't. like one of my friends thought one of my fav. bands AC/DC was bad. So should I step out of my labeled box or stay the geeky person I don't feel I am to make people happy?
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Listen you dont have to make anyone happy but yourself!If your happy that's all that matter's!If you think you may be to punky then just add some cute girly things mixed with punk!So you'll never lose your true side!And about the music,everyone has different tastes in music,i mean you dont have to go and listen to country if you like punk rock!Be yourself and be proud of who you are!Only change becuz U want to!Hope i helped!xoxo
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I really don't have a problem just....
I'M BORED!!!!
lol
bye twinkie toes! (link)
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TRY 2 find somethin that u enjoy doin!Either with someone or by yourself.Just have fun!!Hope i helped you solve your boredness!xoxo
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ive never been kissed b4.. is that a good thing?? or noo??? (link)
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Really it depends!Are you ready,do you want to,it's all up to you.When you find someone special to do it with you'll be glad that you waited!
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theres this kid ed and i realy lik him but people say he hates me to death wut should i do from ur friend
christina (link)
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You have to relize if you really like him and for the right reasons!If you really connect with him then try to sit him down and talk with him.Tell him what everyone's been saying and how you feel about him!If things dont work out too well then he isnt worth it!There's plenty of other fish in the sea(lol)Hope i helped!xoxo
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i have very thick lashes... but they are short... this sounds concited but i have very pretty brown eyes and i haven't found a mascara to make my lashes longer to give more attention to my eyes. any suggestions on a mascara or eye shadow to make my eyes look great? (link)
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Get some eyeliner and put it on dark and thin rit bye ur eyelashes so it already looks lik u already have longer eyelashes then get some rly good mascara and but osme on but not too much.4 the eyeshadow u want to draw attention 2 ur eyes but the right attention.So put on the color that most matches ur outfit rit above the eyeliner but not too much!Hope i helped!xoxo
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everyone at school makes stuff up about me like rumors saying im a slut and my boyfriend from a different school wants to meet my friends, but i dont want them to talk crap. people also say stuff that is not true like saying i talk about people when i dont!!!
what should i do?? (link)
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You know who you are and what you do and say.So just forget about them because usually they're just jelous!So find some close friends and just hang wit dem!Dont even worry bout what they say!Cause you know it aint true!Hope i helped!xoxo
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my best friend went out with this guy that i liked and i found out that this guy doesnt even really like her and he likes me...he broke up with my best friend and then asked me out...i dont noe wut to do cuz my friend said shes not mad but i noe she is wut should i do? (link)
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You can tell that your friend would be mad if you went out with him.So help your friend get over him and move on.Then,if you feel comfertable,go out with the guy!Just fllow ur heart!Hope i helped!xoxo
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I'm a very quiet girl with social anxiety disorder...and I am going into the 9th grade...only two of my friends from middle school are going to the same high school as me...and Im even shy around them. I've known them for two years and I hate this...what do I do to make more friends easily..I know only a few other people from my middle school thatare going too but I was never really friends with them...I just don't know what to do and I'm starting school this Wednesday (It's Saturday now) and the nerves are really starting to get to me...
Not just as far as making friends go...but I also really really hate presenting projects or reports in front of the class and I'm just so scared. I can't help it at all...
And what do I need for high school? Not just socially, but what do teachers look for and stuff...
TY so much..
I appreciate it..
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Since u already have 2 otha friends try to ask them to intruduce you to their other friends!Also just be proud of who you are and when you have to present things just know what a great job you did on it and be proud to show it off!If you still need help IM me!Hope i helped!xoxo
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I wanna start wearing eyeliner, and in your opinion, should I wear liquid or pencil? Thanks (link)
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Hey liquid looks really cute but if your just starting out id go with pencil then once you get used to it then go to liquid!Hope i helped!xoxo
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im really confused. I like the girly look, but i also like the punk-rock look. I listen to both kinds of music. i dont know what i should dress like this year. what do you think? (link)
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I'd do both just dont go too much on the punk rock side!You should stay girly but maybe include some punk rock stuff.Just be true to yourself on what you want to wear!Hope I helped!xoxo
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Well there's this boi, and he goes to my school and all that yatta yatta. But I like him, and I jux found out what his name was, we've never really talked or anything like that before....but a while ago, he was @ my neighbors house, and he was checkin me out, and he was about to go somewhere and he was like I'll be right, you gonna be back out here, and I was like yeah I will, and he was like okay. But yeah, I noticed that he rides my bus and I jux realized how cute he is, and yatta yatta. My patna asked if he was single and lookin and he said yeah, and she described me to him, and she says for me to talk to him but what do I say?????? (link)
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Just be like hey i havent seen you in a while what ya been up to.And if hes just like nothin then just be lik u play any sports.Just say stuff that will let you get to know him and everything.So next time when you talk to him you'll know what to talk about!Hope i helped!xoxo
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high skool is startin in less than a week, so im pumped bout that. the only thing is... i hang out with everyone. im not popular or nething but i have a bunch of friends, which can b bad. i hang out with a group of friends, then go over n hang with another. but the thing is im not really accepted in either one. they like me, but i can tell there talking behind my backs cause i hang out with such and such. ive tried for 2 years to balance it out, but it annoying me so much. can someone just tellme what to do?? i rate (link)
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Well since you hang out with the different groups try to hang out with the people u most connect with inside the groups who u feel comfertable with.Then you can start your own group that u hang out with.Hope i helped!xoxo
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I have a ton of friends and a perfect life only i have a best friend who is really embaressing and know that i am getting older the more i hate her but i can't be mean cause she luvs me to death. (link)
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Well obviously u dont want to hurt her feelings!Dont hang out as much kind of distance yourself from her and maybe start hanging out with your other friends.Now you dont want to tell her off!Maybe if you have a screename you can just talk to her on there.She will soon understand that you guys arent as close anymore and to stop obssing with you.But since she loves you so much and she doesnt get it too much just tell her that you have to go but will try to talk to her on the computer.Hopefully i helped Good luck!xoxo
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