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everyone at school makes stuff up about me like rumors saying im a slut and my boyfriend from a different school wants to meet my friends, but i dont want them to talk crap. people also say stuff that is not true like saying i talk about people when i dont!!!
what should i do??
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DonT worry wut those people say just tell them that itz not true! and obviously ThoSe PeoPle Are jEalouS of YOu and have a really really low self esteem having to talk bout yah soo dont worry bout iT! BuT yah I think YOu should goo AhEAd and let your b/f meet your friends and if they talk crap when your bf then i wouldnt call them your friends!
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Hey hun! well this is an annoying problem that your going through I know that because that totally happened to me! I got called a slut a lot this year and I am definately not one! Girls get classified as sluts for lots of reasons. the way the dress, jealously, because they flirt with boys. And it's totally not fair! If your boyfriend wants to meet your friends... and your friends want to meet him then I would let them. and if you find out your friends are talking crap... then they shouldnt be your friends anyways. and for those freaks that say you talk about people when you dont.... ste them straight and if those people that say that are your buds...time 2 ditch them! I hOpe I hElpEd yA! ask me ne thing ne time! xOxO, aLeX
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well if your introducing your boyfriend to your friends why are you introducing him to people that would talk crap about you to him? those arent your friends.
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Brush it off your shoulders, and their just blowing smoke outta their ass to get you mad. Ingore them. People are gonna make up things, that's how you get a conversation these days, I THINK, i'm not rellly about the whole gossip stuff, and rumors. But if it does get out of hands, you should be like, I don't say anything about you, so why are you saying shit about me?
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just tell ur bf the truth. and just ignor them as long as u no the truth thats all that matters in the end.
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You should talk to the rumor-spreaders and tell them that it is really hurting you that there'll telling everyone lies. Ask them how they would feel if they were in your shoes.
Say that they should mind their own freaking business and butt out of your life!
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I have the same problem. Don't even give them the time of day, you know your not a slut and you don't talk about people soo, don't even pay attention to them.
-xXoBrianna
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You know who you are and what you do and say.So just forget about them because usually they're just jelous!So find some close friends and just hang wit dem!Dont even worry bout what they say!Cause you know it aint true!Hope i helped!xoxo
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stop the rumers! dont just TELL the people tht ur not a slut, PROVE it. let your boyfriend meet ur friends, if the stuff people say really isnt true, than you have nothing to be worried about. if people think you tlk about them, walk up to the people n b like "ok so if i tlk about you, tell me what i said, where i said it, n how YOU heard me say it" they wont be able 2 answer you. so hten theyll know its bs. u gotta let ppl kno tht ur the boss haha! gl x0x0
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Explain to your boyfriend what kind of people your friends are. Take him to meet them and both of you just need to ignore the way they are talking about you or anyone else. Just ignore everyone's negative comments and they will eventually stop.
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