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high skool is startin in less than a week, so im pumped bout that. the only thing is... i hang out with everyone. im not popular or nething but i have a bunch of friends, which can b bad. i hang out with a group of friends, then go over n hang with another. but the thing is im not really accepted in either one. they like me, but i can tell there talking behind my backs cause i hang out with such and such. ive tried for 2 years to balance it out, but it annoying me so much. can someone just tellme what to do?? i rate
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high school can be tough. but remember, there's always mroe fish in the sea. if you dont feel comfortable/accepted with these people, either get close with one group and kind of leave the other behind, or find completely new friends. that could solve your problem.
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I totally understand this. I have a lot of groups of friends. If they talk behind your back you should tell them that you don't care what anybody thinks, that you can hang out with whoever you want and they shouldn't care. If they actually keep doing it then they're not worth it to be your friends. At the high school in my town, nobody cares who people hang out with so maybe its the same for you. There's a lot more people, and nobody is really classified as a nerd or being popular. I don't know how it is in your high school, so it might be different but I hope I helped!
--Rachel
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well who ever acts more like ur friend hang out with that group more.and u can still go back and forth
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Ok put it this way...if they talk about you behind your back then ther aren't your friends...and hanging out with differnet groups isn't bad!But just know who your friends are...if you understand;)
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i do the same thing. im goin into 7th grd and the girls in my class didn't really like me until near the end of the year. i helped one of em get back together with her bf. i also hang out with boys which makes ppl think that i like them. i've been tryng to balance it out and i have a few friends that i hang out with just during skool. try finding ppl that u like and that like u and just hang out wiht them. they dont have to be popular just as long as they're ur friends. hope i helped-ally
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You should think about which ones are really your true friends. if u have so many friends, n if they r good friends, it shuldnt mattr who else u hang out with or not, its rly important juss 2 know who ur real friends r, n the ones who rnt, dont rly mattr as much. u kan be friends with all of them, but juss keep in mine who rly kares about u. n if they r talking behind ur bak u need to confront them, (IN A NICE WAY), or else they juss rnt even ur friends. hope i helped :)
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Well since you hang out with the different groups try to hang out with the people u most connect with inside the groups who u feel comfertable with.Then you can start your own group that u hang out with.Hope i helped!xoxo
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well obviously if their talking shit, that IS shit...find some friends who accept you for who you are and dont talk shit! u dont have to be popular or be in with the cool kids, plus ur starting a new school so ur bound to find new friends, i did my frosh year, u'll be okay =D
*jesikuh
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